Edit: I’m in Cleveland and I am not neighborhood loyal. Used to big city traffic that takes 45 minutes to get anywhere so driving doesn’t psych me out.
Pretty much that. After a couple of bad historical experiences with people, I’ve been more wary to go out alone these days. But dang dude…I want to watch the game around people and not alone in my apartment. I want to cheer alongside people.
Downtown seems overwhelming and like maybe a shit show so trying to avoid going too far into the belly of the beast. I’m a 40F and I want to be able to drive, park, have maybe three light weight beers and chill without being concerned about the vibes of those around me. Still new to town and I don’t get out much.
Really hoping to eventually make friends but that’s harder as you get older especially since so many folks have families. Wanted to be a mom but it didn’t happen, so instead I now really want to watch baseball with a beer around good people.
And yes, I’ve tried meetup groups and doing all the regular suggestions but I haven’t found my people yet I guess. I’ve met lovely introverts and I’ve met fun heavy partiers but I haven’t met many folks who chill in the in between of low key energy while also enjoying exploring life. But if you’re here, DM me and we can get coffee and bird or people watch.