r/HonestHotTakes • u/Outrageous-Jelly8777 • 20h ago
serious hot take The mods of this subreddit is biased against women
Any posts criticizing men is quickly removed. Meanwhile there’s at least 5 women hating vent posts on the front page. They allow politics when it’s shitting on women.
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u/Traditional_Look7901 19h ago
Earlier OP made a post saying anyone asking for due process on sexual assault charges were being defensive about their own crimes and also stated we ought to believe all victims instead of innocent until proven guilty.
Their post got taken down now they're posting this 😂.
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u/Admins_Always_Badmin 19h ago
Yeah that has to be a troll rage bait post, if not that woman deserves to be hated.
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u/Accurate_Web9774 20h ago
If this post gets removed then I'll believe you.
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u/Brittnee_X 17h ago
Nah, if the post stays at 0 or below 10 upvotes but with 200+ comments then its a real hot take.
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u/Useful_Jelly_2915 20h ago
Iv seen the exact opposite personally. Iv had several times a woman hating post was made and its be up for 6-30 mins and the post will get locked or deleted in the middle of me writing a comment in it. I don’t think that’s even happened to me once when it’s a man hating post.
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u/Any_Consequence_2625 19h ago
As women we need to collectively stop perpetuating sexism against women if we want men to stop. Unfortunately we need to set the example.
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u/Luchadorgreen 19h ago
If it makes you feel better, men do the same thing to themselves
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u/Nickgold2009 8h ago
I'd argue men do more harm to men than women do to women. Though this might be slowly changing
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u/Rogue_bae 3h ago
Wait so men will stop being horrible to us if other women just stop? WOW, why didn’t we think of this before?????
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u/Any_Consequence_2625 2h ago
Yeah it’s not perfect but remember in mean girls when she says we have to stop calling each other bitches and whores so that men don’t.
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u/FizzyTacoShop 20h ago
Am I going crazy or fucking blind or something. This site has been so far left and pro women for years, I legitimately feel psycho when anyone tells me otherwise.
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u/LastNameDanny 14h ago
Its been outrage driving for years.
Its only goal is to push narratives so insane they outrage anyone with a brain.
Push it so hard it pulls over anyone with out a brain.
Then they just flip flop it back again.
In a couple years all the low IQ'ers will be complaining about how they were forcing "they/them" narratives everywhere, while being pulled right into the next Psy-Op.
Once youve left the cave there really is no going back :/
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u/Luchadorgreen 19h ago
If you’re going crazy, it’s because you’re being gaslighted by people like OP
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u/HonestHotTakes-ModTeam 4h ago
Racism, sexism, xenophobia, homophobia, transphobia, and other forms of bigotry are not allowed. Content that attacks, degrades, or expresses hatred toward people based on protected or inherent characteristics may be removed and can result in a temporary or permanent ban.
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u/FunkmasterJoe 19h ago
This is a really good comment from a left wing perspective! Not because you're right obviously, but because you're saying "there's no such thing as sexism, you dumb whores! Get back in the kitchen," lol.
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u/Thin_Theory5388 19h ago
It's ironic that your response to his point illustrates his point exactly.
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u/DescriptionWorking18 19h ago
Good job “paraphrasing” their comment until it doesn’t even remotely resemble the original material!
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u/Eldenringop 18h ago
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u/Purple-Blueberry3721 9h ago
Yeah, a few days ago I was banned from r/evilwomeninc for pointing out that someone was just posting bigotry and sex-based discrimination of a kind that wouldn't be allowed if it were directed at literally any other group.
The modern left is just "discriminating against men / whites = virtue, discriminating against other groups = you're basically hitler." i.e. it's just the tribal "ingroup good, let's hurt the outgroup" from 2000 years ago.
And sure, theoretically not every leftwing person is on board with this, but every leftwing person tolerates outright discriminatory people in their movement.
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u/silverbullitt850 6h ago
I mean that's just not true as a blanket statement. Like the crazy racists on the right, the only part of the left that fits that second wave viewpoint are those lacking in intelligence and terminally online.
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u/Eldenringop 23m ago
right wing is that too just packaged differently and anti ethnic instead of white. The right wants men to have harder lives while women get easier ones
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u/ChanceFew2086 5h ago
I also got permanently banned recently with no right to appeal, lol. That says a lot about this sub.
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u/lesbophobia_hammer 19h ago
I would disagree with that. They actually allow free and fair discussions about intracommunity issues e.g. between lesbian/gay and trans people. In fact, I don't know any other sub that allows this.
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u/Eldenringop 18h ago
that is pro women trash ppl were insulting the mens right to his body. If he doesn’t want to touch a woman he doesn’t have to his body his choice
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u/Lonely_Banana_Wana 18h ago
Exhibit B
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u/ConclusionOk7093 14h ago
Why even both bringing gender into this? Leave the CPR to the trained professionals
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u/Individual_Arm_2996 18h ago
That’s true, btw - she’s dead already if it’s needed. I wouldn’t do it on a feminist.
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u/ChocoPancakeBruh 18h ago
This is so weird to me and I'm not a 'pick me' man. Fairly conservative. If there was a woman dying I'd do CPR without a second thought. If I live the rest of my life with a woman mad at me because I 'touched her', well at least she's alive to be mad and I go the rest of my life knowing I did the right thing. Zero idea how men can be so weak-willed to let hypothetical snooty women (or men) so affect their judgement that they don't preserve human life. They need to get off the internet.
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u/Lonely_Banana_Wana 18h ago
There isn't even a single case where this happened they just made it up lmao
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u/ChocoPancakeBruh 18h ago
I don't believe it happens either. My point is the absolute worst case scenario is it DOES happen and... I survive and she (literally) survives.
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u/Lonely_Banana_Wana 18h ago
I've legit seen a guy say he wouldn't do it even if the chance she accuses him is less than 1%. They just want an excuse to be murderous pieces of shit it boils my blood.
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u/I_Am_A_Door_Knob 17h ago
Funnily enough that’s the mentality that created the whole thing.
Like if you are okay with accusing men of being murderous pieces of shit, why the fuck would they not expect you to be okay with accusing them of groping you, while saving your life?
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u/Lonely_Banana_Wana 17h ago
Because me thinking men are murderous won't harm them. If a man is in danger and I have the ability to save him I would. I don't assume every man is a potential murderer. Can't say the same about men though, you lot would rather we die. Also the difference is men commit murder and take advantage of women's kindness all the time. Women do it as often and especially not in the case of cpr. I just doesn't happen.
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u/I_Am_A_Door_Knob 17h ago
You thinking it might not harm them, but you writing those thoughts publicly definitely can.
But there’s actually a bigger chance that you are harming women by writing out your thoughts, so maybe take that into consideration at some point.
And fucking fix your wording if you don’t mean all men. It’s really not that hard.
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u/Lonely_Banana_Wana 17h ago
Well I was pretty obvious I wasn't referring to all men I never even said men in general. I just used an example of men on reddit being misogynistic as a response to someone claiming reddit is feminist. Do you want me to specify "not all men" every time I talk about bad men? You would never do that with women lmao so stop being a hypocrite and also stop whining.
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u/jiggeryqua 14h ago
I think you meant "don't"? As in "women don't do it as often". Funny, that your typo tells the truth. Of course they do. Women are people. There was a whole movement fighting for that truth, did you miss it?
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u/Visible-Department85 16h ago
You get it wrong, it starts with them being unwilling to help and then they jump on any excuse to justify it. Same goes with approaching women and saying it would be too much of a risk
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u/ChocoPancakeBruh 16h ago
An uncharitable read that is surely true for some but not all. You'll have a subset of men who are legitimately concerned for the reasons stated. You'll have some men that are cowards and finding excuses for their cowardice. You'll have some men that hate women and will look for any excuse to shit on them.
The only cure is to have your own spine, have your own worldview that isn't dictated by what men, women, or society tells you, and do your thing.
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u/Onyxiusss 13h ago
Tbf women haven't really helped themselves with this considering for the last few years there has just been an endless campaign to get men to leave women alone in every context regardless of how well intentioned some men can be. It doesn't surprise me that their hestitency has rubbed off on to emergency situations.
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u/HonestHotTakes-ModTeam 13h ago
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u/astralplane_wanderer 15h ago
I see so much anti women stuff pushed at me. I also get the anti man stuff. Every platform has seemingly been flooded by gender war slop.
But yes. If you’re only seeing pro women stuff I think you might be fucking blind.
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u/Purple-Blueberry3721 9h ago edited 9h ago
Reddit as a whole is very leftist and pro-woman. In fact there's some outright misandrist subs that would get insta-banned if you'd gender-flip them.
It's only this sub and a handful of other places where anti-woman posts are allowed, and yes as a result there's a lot of them here.
I also suspect that what you call "anti woman stuff" is actually just people accurately describing reality and women not emotionally liking that -- but that's hardly "anti woman stuff." If you can't deal with people accurately describing reality, then that seems like a "you" problem.
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u/vigorben 10h ago
I think anti women stuff only exists when the conversation revolves around LGBTQ due to victim hierarchy
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u/Excellent_Swim_2721 6h ago
Victim hierarchy? Gays and lesbians arent asking for new toilets. They are asking to be equal in society. Not DIFFERENT in society.
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u/1SexyDino 18h ago
They let a few of us anti male sex in female sex spaces people in here have a voice. I That's like the anthesis of the modern left rn
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u/a_bouncy_sea 19h ago
Your algorithm shows you stuff it knows gets a reaction out of you. Thats why you’re seeing that stuff. Because the algorithm knows you want to lmao
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u/Classic-Jury5607 5h ago
Crazy how people don't want to see this. I'm vegan and my home page is full of random anti-vegan threads from subs with no real focus like r/askanything and r/nostupidquestions. Not only do I not believe people are that anti-vegan, I doubt people are even talking about it as much as my home page would suggest.
I'm either in a persecuted class or reddit is fucking with me.
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u/KaliguIah 19h ago
that works well on x. reddit is a little different
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u/a_bouncy_sea 19h ago
Not as different as redditors loooooove to imagine.
Been on this site across multiple accounts for over a decade, it’s not new
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u/Environmental_Ant268 20h ago
Fragile femininity hehe
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u/BananaRoosterMcGee 20h ago
Stay single! Nobody will mind
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u/Environmental_Ant268 19h ago
Happily married with children but ok sure have a day
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u/Greedy-Employment917 8h ago
Coming off of a fresh perma ban, I see.
Maybe it's your attitude problem.
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u/BananaRoosterMcGee 6h ago
No? Maybe the problem is men’s attitudes towards women and that’s why we’re angry?
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u/HonestHotTakes-ModTeam 4h ago
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u/Leon3226 20h ago
Idk what you're talking about, I see both all the time, and men hating ones get more traction.
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u/Just-Requirements 20h ago
Can't women go 1 day without victimizing themselves?
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u/Greedy-Employment917 8h ago
Nope. The good ones go their whole lives without self victimization and self flagellation.
The reddit ones? The bottom of the barrel ones? Victimhood for breakfast lunch and dinner every day.
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u/mud_horse 19h ago
as a woman i agree, anytime i hear anybody framing themselves as a victim (unless they’re specifically speaking about some kind of physical attack or getting legitimately scammed or something of that nature, not just “hurt feelings”) or worse— speaking as though being a victim somehow equates to being a more virtuous individual & above scrutiny i instantly lose all respect for them
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u/Legal_Mail7611 18h ago
This is my observation. When women tells stories and frame themselves a victim and never done any wrong are usually lying. When a guy tells a story and makes himself seem more macho, he is lying.
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u/Greedy-Employment917 8h ago
I don't know what you're talking about. I definitely lifted the Honda civic off of that squirrel with my bare hands. Saved it's life.
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u/Satyam7166 10h ago
100% agree
This is what the algorithm thrives on though. It wants all of us to feel like victims. After all, the best way to manipulate someone is by saying how unfair life has been to them, etc.
And on the way we loose nuance, gratefulness and all sorts of positive emotions.
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u/Suitable_Specific_16 20h ago
Always the victim huh?
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u/Capable_Cranberry461 20h ago
yesterday there was a post from a man saying the same thing about how it’s biased against men
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u/BananaRoosterMcGee 20h ago
Not lonely enough.
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u/Suitable_Specific_16 19h ago
no need to project.
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u/BananaRoosterMcGee 18h ago
Happily married with two kids! Stay mad incels!
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u/Suitable_Specific_16 18h ago
Well you still seem to be insecure and very immature talking like this to people on reddit.
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u/Greedy-Employment917 8h ago
Notice how this is just a copy paste of the response she received when called out for calling other users incels.
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u/Greedy-Employment917 8h ago
Troll account, 6 days old, coming off a perma ban.
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u/HonestHotTakes-ModTeam 4h ago
Racism, sexism, xenophobia, homophobia, transphobia, and other forms of bigotry are not allowed. Content that attacks, degrades, or expresses hatred toward people based on protected or inherent characteristics may be removed and can result in a temporary or permanent ban.
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u/Curious-Solution-892 9h ago
Lol this is literally a gender reversed repost of a thread I posted a few days ago, which was locked in less than a day. We'll see if this one gets locked and deleted too, and if not, we'll know the opposite is true.
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u/Purple-Blueberry3721 9h ago
Nah, the mods here merely aren't blatantly pro-woman unlike 99% of reddit mods. That's all.
"When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression."
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u/Vegetable-Quit5390 19h ago
I got attacked so bad yesterday for posting my vitamin stack in a thread and had so many men saying I was illiterate low iq mentally ill and all sorts of crap. I eventually took the post down but I went back to that sub and read some comments on similar post ( by men ) in that sub and no insults. I was like wowwwwww. Just so you know men are in an absolute crisis right now and are ready to pounce on what appears to be any woman.
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u/TheOneHat 19h ago
I don't see how you were attacked by many men because you are a woman? People gave you plenty of advice and you got the normal trolls in a 150 reply post. It would have been way worse if you were a guy.
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u/Vegetable-Quit5390 18h ago
Case study right here. I’m sorry but did you take the time to find that thread to try and dog walk me omfg. Let start again. When you look at the other similar post like I said, The responses are different.
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u/Greedy-Employment917 8h ago
Big fucking L. You tried to play victim and got called out.
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u/Prism_Riot42 13h ago
You posted your vitamin stack in a Hot Takes post? I don’t really care but I’m more curious how that even got into the conversation. Was it a post about health or something?
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u/Valveringham85 19h ago
Lmaooooo…
How can you still feel like such a little victim when it is the exact opposite on this sub and the majority of subs on this platform.
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u/Eldenringop 18h ago
cap it’s biased against men I reported body shaming they did nothing they even locked other comments under hers. In fact reddit is against men as a whole https://imgur.com/a/pRpSAYc
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u/Euphoric_Anxiety_951 20h ago
this comment section is crazy. As a female, A man is not an incel bc you disagree with what they say or find them sexist. Incel literally means INvoluntary CELibacy. Like can we please stop.
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u/Outrageous-Jelly8777 19h ago
<calls self female
<calls males men
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u/BasedTakeOutbreak 18h ago
I think I speak for all females when I say that men shouldn't be talking like this, and I apologize on behalf of this person. Now go snowflake somewhere else.
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u/Greedy-Employment917 8h ago
Think you can use noun choice as some kind of gotcha to invalidate the point being made because you can't make a valid counter argument?
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u/Euphoric_Anxiety_951 19h ago
womp womp?? if i was talking about another female id refer to them as a woman. Idc what i refer to myself as
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u/mikelown 20h ago
Bro theres literally posts that are "all men are rapists and everyone should fear them" still up, they aint biased, they let both sides bicker
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u/RainLeading286 19h ago
Really because they just turned off the comments on one.
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u/Pitiful_Meringue_57 19h ago
Is that the actual title? I tried searching and couldn’t find it
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u/RainLeading286 19h ago
"Men who immediately bring up due process" or something similar.
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u/Pitiful_Meringue_57 19h ago
Okay so straight up not what the original commenter put in quotes. Thank you though.
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u/Luchadorgreen 19h ago
Less than 24 hours ago they just shut down a post criticizing a misandrist subreddit. Delusional.
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u/Spicey_Cough2019 9h ago
Welcome to reddit
Misogyny is taboo
Misandry is fine because men can supposedly not be discriminated against and must make up for the years of patriarchal oppression.
But agree it’s a joke
And when the woman’s misandristic post is called out in the comments the OP then deletes it to save face.
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u/icemanspy007 13h ago
Disagree, when the Cornell 7 was hot, they removed anything even remotely resembling the fact that they were innocent or even the fact that we should wait for a trial.
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u/ScientistComplex918 2h ago
Don't worry, 90% of it is bots funding a gender war for the 2028 presidential elections in the US. They'll only get worse.
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u/straylight222 20h ago
at least there's 1 on reddit lmao
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u/Useful_Jelly_2915 20h ago
Eh depends where you’re at and what’s being talked about. I interact in men hating and woman hating subs so it could be a bias off of algorithm. When I see men and women critiques a lot of the time in both ist generalizing the entire opposite gender.
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u/AleopardThatJumps 13h ago
sending you love op don't fall for the ragebait I hope you're able to have a good day regardless or not of of how these people in this comment section are behaving. take care of yourself and pet a cat if things start affecting you ❤️
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u/Partyatmyplace13 6h ago
Oh no! Well, at least you still have the 27,000 other subreddits and social media platforms where shitting on men all day is status quo.
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u/ButtPlugGenie 19h ago
Boy... "pro-woman," "pro-man," "anti-woman," "anti-man."...
It's like 50%, each in literally every family, doing this is designed and helps those making your life worse.
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u/Substantial_Judge931 3h ago
Literally ever time I post something against misandry I get flooded with comments arguing against my position. This sub is hardly misogynistic lol
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u/Aromatic-House-7894 20h ago
complaints about men are directed toward the 1% of men. when men complain about women, its directed at the majority.
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u/HonestHotTakes-ModTeam 4h ago
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u/Pitiful_Meringue_57 19h ago
i’m actually now unclear of your original intention with the original comment. Were u saying hating the majority of women is bad? Because then i take it back. But i read it as if you were saying the attacks men make on women somehow are both accurate and apply to every woman.
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u/HonestHotTakes-ModTeam 4h ago
Hot takes can get heated, but keep the discussion focused on the opinion, not the person. Bullying, harassment, insults, and personal attacks aren’t allowed.
Disagree all you want. Just don’t be a jerk about it.
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u/a_bouncy_sea 19h ago
As a man, no they’re really not directed at the 1% of men.
This kinda shit honestly is why it’s hilarious to me when men pretend they’re the more logical ones between men and women, cause holy moly men are in their fucking feelings about totally innocuous things
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u/Luchadorgreen 19h ago
I‘m certainly more logical than the majority of proud misandrists I argue with on Reddit
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u/a_bouncy_sea 2h ago
Yeah, I don’t base my frame of reference for what women by and large think by random anonymous redditors, a lot of whom are probably bots rage baiting you dude.
But I’m sure you’re very logical buddy don’t worry
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u/Andra_Ingensbarn 11h ago
I totally agree that their are a lot of misogynistic takes on here, but I wonder if it’s that the mods can’t keep up with how many there are.
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u/Zacoly 20h ago
This is a right leaning incel sub for fucking sure.
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u/BasedTakeOutbreak 17h ago
Honestly in my short time here it does seem to be teetering on that edge.
Then again, in most other places on Reddit, hating on men is more acceptable (and women not so much), so disgruntled men don't have many places to talk about it and they gravitate to the subreddits with more lax post moderation
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u/LizAquene 11h ago
In most places on reddit the subs are full of misogynistic bs. Can't even join a meme sub anymore, everything is just women bad, men little angels and obvious victims.
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u/Lynveex 19h ago
low key its sole purpose is to cause division and radicalize young white men, it's also kinda comedy haven though
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u/ProfessionalOwn6097 19h ago edited 18h ago
Is that why that 16 year old MALE just shot elementary age children? Where are the positive MALE role models in society, so that 16 year olds can look up to them? What made him do that? He hadn’t gotten laid at 16 years old sooo he shoots up a school? Libraries are free to go read books on self improvement at 16 years old, he could have done that. People blaming guns, like men haven’t killed with knives and other items. Even with their bare hands. It’s males in this society that’s the problem,not guns.
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u/Lemuxya 12h ago
100%. They literally ban you as well if you aren't kissing male ass.
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u/ICanViking Hot-Taking Mod 5h ago
Lol...what?
I remove posts bigoted towards men at least 5 times a day. I enforce that rule for both sexes.
Is this comment just a "I hate mods" type thing or do you have experience in this sub I should hear about feedback wise?
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u/SmoothShame3845 20h ago
Uhm, no?