r/PoursTea • 🫖 Mod ☕️ • 6h ago

⚠️Trigger Warning⚠️ Calls It

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u/NocturnaBride 5h ago

And when we shoot our rapists in the face we go to prison. This shit has to end. I’m so tired of the excuses, and the blame. Men need to start facing accountability for their actions.

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u/Nearby-Beat316 5h ago

And we get charged harsher sentences when prosecuted

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u/Gringopolarbear 4h ago

It actually seems to me that most of the time, these "men" aren't even prosecuted, and if they are, the sentencing is more a slap in the face to the victim than it is any real justice. Same thing with child predators. Every single one needs to be put in a cell with a big hairy monster named Dover. Ben Dover. Their punishment should be to receive exactly what they dish out.

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u/Dirty-Haiku 3h ago

It’s wild how rape is suddenly funny when it happens to men.

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u/Temporary-Towel-7656 3h ago

it's only ever funny to other men

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u/peachypeachypeach543 3h ago

No one said that, unless you are claiming all men are rapists/child predators. Which anyone with an above room temperature IQ does not believe. If someone who rapes is put in prison and then receives the same treatment they gave to others 🤷‍♀️

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u/NocturnaBride 3h ago

Who said raping men was funny?

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u/PostNutLucidity 30m ago

Are you advocating for vigilante justice in the form of prison rape? And if so, do you apply this to both sexes or just to men?

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u/PostNutLucidity 32m ago

It's a terrible thing when one gender gets harsher sentences for committing the same crime (when criminal history is accounted for), isn't it? And it should absolutely be rectified, shouldn't it?

This should hold even if it were to be found that it's actually women who get more lenient sentences for committing crimes than men (when criminal history is accounted for), right?

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u/SufficientWeb3163 2h ago

Yes murder is far worse than rape.

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u/NocturnaBride 1h ago

And men are far more likely to commit murder as well. What’s your point other than whataboutism?

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u/Nearby-Beat316 17m ago

Women are charged for self defense more aggressively than men are charged for self defense is what I meant

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u/HeadGuy-RedEyeJedi 2h ago

How often can you be murdered?

How often can you be raped?

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u/SufficientWeb3163 2h ago

That's why its worse

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u/HeadGuy-RedEyeJedi 2h ago

I can see that argument, but in terms of suffering, surely rape is worse. That's why a lot of victims of sex slavery prefer suicide to that life because of the very permanence you fear. You speculate one is worse than the other but people who have actually been a victim of perpetual rape have been choosing death over perpetual rape since as long as sex slavery has existed.