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⚠️Trigger Warning⚠️ Calls It

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u/Known-Exam-9820 3h ago

The “stop saying not all men” statement is completely disconnected and strange to attach to these crimes. The issue isn’t men or being male, or even men holding one another accountable. The issue is we live in a corrupt society where some people feel entitled and protected to commit heinous crimes.

And I’ve already pushed the assaulters and gropers out of my life and called them out and no one gave a damn, so how do i as a man affect this at all, other than trying to be a good influence?

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u/Clear_Peach6805 2h ago edited 2h ago

Every woman who I have met in real life that says “all men” does not attribute that to me. Hell they don’t even treat stranger men in a negative way, they just don’t give them the time of day. Dudes who get upset at it need to really just look at themselves and think about why “all men” is even a saying.

If as a man you’re more upset at a woman saying “all men” rather than the reason why they are saying it, then you gotta reevaluate.

Edit: For all the men replying upset about the use of “all men” you are exactly who I am talking about lol Instead of using your energy to police the men who are the reason for “all men” existing you rather get mad at the use of “all men”. Reevaluate.

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u/samehouseing 2h ago

“ Every white woman who I have met in real life that says “all black men” does not attribute that to me. Hell they don’t even treat stranger black men in a negative way, they just don’t give them the time of day. Black Dudes who get upset at it need to really just look at themselves and think about why “all black men” is even a saying. If as a black man you’re more upset at a white woman saying “all black men” rather than the reason why they are saying it, then you gotta reevaluate.”

Same exact quote, just added racial identities to show how absolutely fucked this sounds. 

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u/Numerous_Big8969 2h ago

Wow crazy how some people say the most idiotic shit with their full chest. And pat themselves on the back thinking they actually did something. You are so obviously a fragile white man.

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u/YungReezy217 1h ago

Without refuting the point in any way. Just hurling insults and assumptions. Way to go. You're totally winning this argument. /s

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u/samehouseing 2h ago

I’m a mixed NB, but alright go ahead and be more sexist I guess. Not beating the allegations I just made lol.

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u/Natural_Resort3055 1h ago

‘fRaGiLe WhITe mAN’

Meanwhile all you have to say is any of a collection of naughty words and literal cities will burn.

Professional victims calling other people fragile

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u/Clear_Peach6805 2h ago

You’re jumping through hoops to try and make your point. Read what I said again. It seems like what I said applies directly to you.

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u/Sure-Eagle8845 2h ago

You're trying to gaslight people into thinking men are dangerous/creepy by default. To what end, I'm not sure

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u/samehouseing 2h ago

I literally just quoted what you directly wrote lol, just added 2 extra words of identification is all. 

If that’s a problem, it wasn’t because of me. 

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u/YungReezy217 1h ago

I really don't understand how your point is getting lost and how the example you made differs from the issue at hand here.

And you can tell it hit a note because no one is refuting you philosophically. They just keep insulting and assuming things about you and saying that. Classic logical fallacy bullshit.

I got your point and it put things in perspective to a sharper degree. Keep up your rational and logical thought my dude.

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u/Ok_Aardvark2195 1h ago

It’s every male presenting human, I dont discriminate based on skin tone sex assigned at birth

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u/samehouseing 1h ago

So this is your opinion for trans men? They’re just as dangerous and corrupted?