Calls It

[u/Timbucktwo1230]

[u/I_like_the_word_MUFF]

Still deflecting to me what you couldn't answer...

DARVO

[u/Previous-Artist-9252 → u/I_like_the_word_MUFF]

You clearly don’t know what DARVO means or deflect.

Deflect: to bend or turn aside

My questions have been straight forward and the same since the beginning of this thread.

Maybe taking an ESL class could help you?

[u/I_like_the_word_MUFF → u/Previous-Artist-9252]

"I mean this question openly and honestly.

How do you expect your average man on the street to shut down this behavior?

I am a 40 year old man and not anywhere near dorms or fraternities. When I was in college, I was often the young woman getting raped so I am hardly blind the fact that these are common occurrences. However, as a middle aged queer trans social worker, I am not involved with men engaging in this behavior.

Or, to paraphrase someone more articulate than me, if there are good men, they are not going to be in the group chat about raping women. Those groups have already self selected those men out of their social organizing. And I am happy to have been selected out of such peer groups. "

[u/Previous-Artist-9252 → u/I_like_the_word_MUFF]

Wow. You can copy-paste.

[u/SirWhateversAlot → u/Previous-Artist-9252]

Please don't waste your time engaging with this circular firing squad of purity tests. Just wanted to say I appreciate your comments and hope you have a great day.