r/PoursTea • 🫖 Mod ☕️ • 6h ago

⚠️Trigger Warning⚠️ Calls It

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u/Known-Exam-9820 3h ago

The “stop saying not all men” statement is completely disconnected and strange to attach to these crimes. The issue isn’t men or being male, or even men holding one another accountable. The issue is we live in a corrupt society where some people feel entitled and protected to commit heinous crimes.

And I’ve already pushed the assaulters and gropers out of my life and called them out and no one gave a damn, so how do i as a man affect this at all, other than trying to be a good influence?

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u/Clear_Peach6805 3h ago edited 2h ago

Every woman who I have met in real life that says “all men” does not attribute that to me. Hell they don’t even treat stranger men in a negative way, they just don’t give them the time of day. Dudes who get upset at it need to really just look at themselves and think about why “all men” is even a saying.

If as a man you’re more upset at a woman saying “all men” rather than the reason why they are saying it, then you gotta reevaluate.

Edit: For all the men replying upset about the use of “all men” you are exactly who I am talking about lol Instead of using your energy to police the men who are the reason for “all men” existing you rather get mad at the use of “all men”. Reevaluate.

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u/YungReezy217 1h ago

Yeah, generalizations are dope. And don't occlude your actual point at all. /s

Fuckwit.

"Why don't you glean the meaning behind my words instead of actually listening to the words?"

^ literally you