Hi everyone,

Just putting a short intro out here. I'm 24F, based in Iraq. In my free time, I enjoy traveling, exploring new things, and watching movies.

I value a partner who is respectful, responsible, and caring, with good intellectual compatibility. For me, the ideal marriage is built on friendship and mutual support.
If you're also looking for something serious and feel we might be a good match, feel free to drop a DM with a brief intro about yourself.

Thanks for reading

If interested, please send me some information about yourself. I prefer people living in Canada. Please only contact me if you're currently in North America, Western Europe, or Australia.

1. Age and Gender

26, Male

2. Location

Vancouver, BC, Canada

3. Religon

Shia Muslim, Looking for either Shia or Sunni Musslimah

4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Iranian (Iranian/Canadian Citizen).

I prefer Iranians, Arabs, Turks, Caucasians, and East Asians.

5. Marital Status

Single, never married.

6. Ideal marriage timeline

Eithin 3-9 month.

7. Some important characteristics I look for in a prospect, which I consider myself to have as well

\- God-conscious

\- Kind and empathetic

\- Adventurous and spontaneous

\- Generous

\- Humble and easy to get along with

8. State/specify your level of religiosity

Moderate. perform all of my wajibāts, eat halal food only, and do not drink or smoke. I also try my best to continuously improve myself as a Muslim, insha-Allah.

When it comes to my expectations from my spouse, I believe that one's deen and relationship with Allah are personal matters. I would prefer my spouse to perform her wajibāt as well, but if she struggles with certain aspects, I would be understanding and supportive, and I would try my best to encourage her without forcing anything.

Regarding hijab and modesty, I try to dress modestly myself, including wearing loose-fitting shirts and pants as a minimum standard. I would appreciate my spouse adhering to a similar minimum standard of modesty. Beyond that, I would support her choice regarding whether or not she chooses to cover her hair.

9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

I am currently wrapping up my Master's degree.

Any post secondary degree.

10. Do you want kids?

Yes, I love kids and would like to have children in the future. However, I am also not looking to have children immediately after marriage. I would like to have some time to explore life, travel, and experience different adventures with my spouse before beginning the adventure of parenthood.

11. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

\- A variety of outdoor and physical activities, including hiking, backpacking, ice skating, snowboarding, biking, and fishing.

\- Playing music.

\- Volunteering/charity

12. What are you looking for?

Age: 18- 25

When it comes to marriage I am looking for someone with whom I can share the joyful moments of life and build a meaningful, lasting connection. To me, marriage is not simply about fulfilling traditional roles; I’m hoping to find a soulmate and, above all, a best friend,someone with whom I can savour the beauty, sweetness, and adventures of life.

Assalamu Alaikum.

I am a Bahrani (بحراني) 46M no children currently living in the US. I am looking to find a wife who shares my ethnic and religious background.

Specifically, I am seeking a strictly practicing, single Shia woman in her 30s from Bahrain, Kuwait, or the Eastern Region of Saudi Arabia who is open to relocating to the United States.

If you feel we might be a good match, please feel free to send a DM to connect and discuss further details. May Allah grant us all success in finding the right partner Inshaa’Allah.

my earlier marriage profile

https://www.reddit.com/r/ShiaMuslimMarriage/s/8e7n9R4tzt

Salam everyone,
I want to hear experiences of people who went through divorce, especially if it was a love marriage and you still loved your partner.My marriage is more than a year old and we have no kids. Throughout this time, I’ve felt like a mistake in my partner’s life and like I’m the reason for all the bad things happening to him. I’ve felt betrayed, lied to and humiliated, but despite everything, I still love this person.
I don’t see a good future for this marriage anymore, and I feel like eventually it will end in divorce. Even if I try to forget how I’ve been treated, I can’t stop thinking that I don’t want someone to suffer their whole life just because they married me.
If anyone has been in a similar situation, how did you handle it mentally and emotionally? How did you move on when you still loved them? I would really like to hear your experiences.

Salams everyone

I’m an Arab girl hijabi living in the uae I’m sorry for the mods for not using the template I’m just not comfortable sharing so much information on the main post

I’m looking for marriage and I’m a hijabi

Thank u

SHIA MUSLIM MARRIAGE BIODATA

PERSONAL DETAILS

Age / Date of Birth. 17/04/1999
Height. 5’11
Religion. Islam
Maslak. Shia
Hometown. Hyderabad India
Current Location. Oman
Marital Status. Separated. Details can be discussed privately with a prospective match.
Children - Yes
Languages Known. Urdu Hindi and English

EDUCATION AND CAREER

Highest Qualification - B.Com
Professional Background. Over seven years of experience across banking customer service administration and accounting. Experience at HSBC includes Banking Agent Academy Mentor and Team Manager roles.

FAMILY DETAILS

Father - Accountant in Oman
Mother - Homemaker
Siblings - Younger Brother (Completed his masters)
Elder sister ( QA lead in Amazon)

ABOUT ME

I enjoy meaningful conversations cooking travelling and writing Urdu poetry. My connection with the Ahlul Bayt is an important part of my life. I hope to build a marriage with affection honesty mutual respect and plenty of laughter.

I believe responsibilities should be shared according to what works best for both partners. I am comfortable supporting my future wife in her career and open to being a homemaker or stay at home father if we mutually decide that suits our family.

PARTNER PREFERENCES

Seeking a Shia partner who values kindness emotional maturity clear communication and commitment. Someone with whom I can build a peaceful home and a relationship where both of us feel heard respected and supported.

I am open to relocating to the USA UK or Canada. My long term intention is to settle outside India.

Genuine question: Where are Shia people actually finding compatible partners these days? Muzz, Reddit, family connections… nothing seems to work. 😂

Is it just me, or is finding someone who shares your faith, mindset, and intention to marry genuinely this difficult?

Would love to hear how others are navigating this.

Salam
My friend has a success story from this sub and encouraged me to post as well. I’m 27 in the USA looking for someone on the USA. I travel a lot for work within the states but hoping to settle down soon. Looking for someone respectful and religious.
Im Arab, 6ft tall, active, close with my family. I value staying connected to my family and want to be close to my spouse’s family long term if possible.
Open to sharing more about myself in dms.

I wish you all the best of luck Inshallah

About me\~

Age: 30 (April 1996)

Origin/Ethnicity: Iraqi-assyrian, born and raised in germany

Languages spoken: german, englisch, assyrian, and I understand iraqi arabic but cant speak it

Level of religious practice: pray 5 times a day, fast, reading islamic books, but I still need to improve lol

Hijabi: Yes

Current residence: germany

Willing to relocate: Nope. And if yes then somewhere in germany but I REALLY prefer my home town in the south near my family

Siblings: 2 younger brothers

Previously married/Kids: Nope never

Occupation: currently student, former legal assistant

Education: studying social work atm

Height (cm): 160cm :)

Physical appearance: I am a curvy woman and hitting the gym atm

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah: Oh God, no. I get headaches just from smelling this stuff - no thx!

Leisure activities: gaming, watching anime, writing, stitching, DIY stuff, reading, drawing, collecting merch, visiting conventions

Your Preferences in a Partner:

Age range: 25 to 37

Origin/Ethnicity: I prefer reverts, especially germans, then arab people, but I just hope that I can harmonize with you

Languages: german would be the best, otherwise english. I cant talk to you in arabic

Level of religious practice: please be at least a muslim who tries to practice

Education: ..have at least a job? Idc lol

Deal breakers: I dont like smokers :/ And someone who just goes for looks and ignores everything else >.>

Other preferences: Hope you are willing to relocate near my hometown..or in my hometown🥲✌🏻 Your appearance doesnt matter to me, its more important to have a good communication, have fun and maybe have gaming, anime or going to conventions in common :D And I hope you got a good sensw of humour\~

Additional Information you like to add: Dont start a convo with "Hey, how are you", send me your full introduction and let me see who you are. Otherwise I wont answer you. Also I prefer someone without children from previous marriages

Oh and..it should be obvious but pls be a shia(!) guy o.o

🤲🏻

Assalamu Alaikum,

I am a 32 year-old Shia Muslim man living in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, and I am looking for a wife to complete half my deen. I have spent a lot of my time focusing on myself, and I have built a lot of the life I want to live. Now, I am ready to love and cherish a wife. ❤️🙏

A little about me:

\- I am a practicing Shia Muslim who I'd ethnically Persian-Iranian 🇮🇷

\- Never married, and I have no children.

\- I have my PhD. in Political Science. 👩‍🏫

\- I am financially stable currently working as an associate professor. I am on track to begin teaching full-time next year.

\- I am a homeowner 🏡

\- Appearance wise; I am 6'2, I wear glasses, I have a full head of short curly black hair (for now), my beard does not connect (yet 😅), I am physically fit, and I have brown eyes.

Hobbies I enjoy include working out at home, reading at a local cafe, playing with my cat, and watching anime.

Regarding Language:

\- I want to be upfront: I do not speak Farsi as when my parents came to Canada, they had a difficult time teaching me and helping me to retain the language. I know this is important to many families, but my primary language is English for the time being. I do want to learn, and I would love it if you taught me 📝

My preferences for a partner:

\- A practicing Shia sister between the ages of 25 to 35 ready to be married within 1-2 years in a MONOGAMOUS marriage.

\- Someone who is fluent in English and can preferably speak Farsi.

\- A partner who values Deen over culture and is looking for a sincere, loving relationship.

\- Ideally, someone living in Toronto or willing to relocate.

\- Shares similar interests as me.

\- Is patient, kind, and loving.

If you feel you match this description and are interested in getting to know me, please do not hesitate to reach out 🙏 Inshallah I will find you here my azizam ❤️

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Hey everyone!

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I’m a 30Y half Lebanese half Syrien born in beirut but moved out since i was 8 years, I hold Swedish & Russian Passport & DXB residency Card

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looking to put myself out there and hopefully meet someone I can build a genuine relationship with.

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A little about me:

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\*\*Height:\*\* 174, well trained and handsome as people describe me

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Education : Master degree in business administration

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\*\*Work:\*\* we have family business which is well known and very established between Russia, USA, Europe, Middle East

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\*\*Hobbies:\*\* party sometimes, shisha, I enjoy also board games, racket sports, gaming on my PS5, Gym, and watching anime,

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\*\*Food:\*\* I love cooking and experimenting with new dishes. Always happy to try something new, even if the results don't always go to plan!

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\*\*Loc : Due to work i spend most of my time between Moscow and Dubai, i had a decision to move permanently to Lebanon but since the war started back in the days i changed my mind but I'm still visiting Lebanon monthly as it is my fav spot

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I’m hoping to meet someone kind, open-minded, and genuine who values good conversation, a bit of humour, and building something meaningful together.

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Whether we end up chatting about our favourite games, recommending anime to each other, challenging each other to a board game, or swapping recipes, I think the little things can make getting to know someone fun.

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I’m open to seeing where things lead, ideally with the potential for a real relationship if we connect.

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If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, your favourite comfort food, or the anime you’d recommend to someone.

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Looking forward to meeting someone new and seeing where this next chapter takes me. 😊

Essential Information:

Age: 26

Origin/Ethnicity: Pakistani

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): English, Urdu, Dari

Current residence (city, country): Canada

Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'): Yes, only USA

Siblings (number and older/younger): 3

Occupation: Tech

Education: Masters

Height (cm), weight (kg): 5'2

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): no

Leisure activities: I enjoy traveling, stargazing, ziplining, exploring cozy cafes and bookshops, and I'm always on the hunt for a great matcha. I also love decorating my home, fashion, cooking, and spending quality time with the people I care about.

Your Preferences in a Partner:

Age range: 27-30

Origin/Ethnicity: -

Languages: -

Level of religious practice: Moderate

Education: At least undergrad / bachelors

Additional Information: I divorced my ex-spouse due to issues such as drinking and infidelity. I’m a practicing Muslim myself. I wear hijab regularly and am modest + into fashion. In my opinion, faith and personality can go hand in hand - you can stay true to your values while still expressing yourself. I’m kind, open-minded, and always strive to improve myself, while keeping my deen at the center of everything I do.

I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, calm, kind, caring, and loyal. Someone who values relationships, communicates with honesty and respect, and believes in growing together through life's ups and downs. I admire someone who is open-minded and strives to maintain a healthy balance between deen and dunya. Above all, I'm looking for a best friend and life partner with whom I can build a peaceful, loving, and faith-centered home. Extra points if you have good and independent decision-making abilities (No mama's boys please - I'm traumatized.)

Ideally, I'm hoping to meet someone based in the US (preferably west coast), or a Canadian who is open to building a future together in the US. It'd be nice if you're in the tech industry too.

If you're very rigid or overly strict in your outlook, we may not be the best fit.

P.S: I'm seeking Nikah/Marriage between one and two years from now. I'd like to get to know you first and see if we vibe!

DM me if you think we’d be a good match. Please respect both our time and reach out only if you’re serious.

Assalamu Alaikum. I am posting on behalf of my family to seek a suitable bride for myself.

About the groom:

* Name: Will be disclosed privately.

* Year of birth: 2001.

* Location: Currently living in Canada on a study permit.

* Education: Pursuing an MSc at the University of Calgary. Has an excellent academic record and intends to pursue a PhD (later), In sha Allah.

* Height: 5 feet 8 inches.

* Build: Lean and athletic.

* Faith and lifestyle: A practicing Muslim who does not smoke or drink alcohol and eats only halal food.

What I am looking for:

I am seeking a practicing Muslim woman who is currently living in Canada , ideally pursuing her studies or interested in continuing her education. We value sincerity, respect, loyalty, and a commitment to building a marriage grounded in Islamic values and mutual understanding.

We are open to all ethnic backgrounds, including Bangladeshi, Pakistani, Indian, Kashmiri, Turkish, Lebanese.

Interested individuals or families are welcome to send a private message with a brief introduction. Further details can be exchanged privately.

JazakAllahu Khair.

Salam everyone!
I’m a 26-year-old Bahraini guy, 176 cm tall with a slim build. I have a degree in mechanical engineering and currently work in the maintenance field.

A little about me: I’m a pretty chill and easygoing person who enjoys having fun and trying new things. I love traveling, exploring new places, and outdoor activities. Some of my interests include dirt biking, swimming, Muay Thai, and recently surfing.

I like to enjoy life and have new experiences, but I’m also responsible and take my work and future seriously. I’m naturally a curious person who enjoys learning.

What I’m looking for:
Someone around my age (a little older or a few years younger is fine), who’s open-minded, positive, easygoing, and enjoys life. It would be nice to be with someone who’s open to trying new things and sharing experiences together.

Religion-wise, I’m looking for someone who has a balanced approach to Islam, maintains the main obligations like praying and fasting, and values religion without being overly strict. I also appreciate someone who’s educated, has her own goals, and is working towards something in life.

My thoughts on marriage:
I believe marriage is a big decision, and both people should take enough time to get to know each other before committing. For me, compatibility goes beyond having similar hobbies or interests. It’s more about sharing important values and being on the same page about things like religion, family, children, and future goals.

I’m based in Bahrain, but we can discuss the relocation if things work out.

If you feel we might be compatible, feel free to reach out. I’d be happy to get to know you!

Salam alaykum

My sister 21 got a proposal from a man who's 31.

My sister is a mature person and their thoughts align. I am just curious why would a man approach a young woman in her age like what was he thinking? He could have found someone his age

Aight peeps, let's have some fun.

So, let's assume you talk to someone, you get along, vibe and all's well... The caveat?

Dhum dhum dhuuuuuuuum

They live in another country!

So the question is would you move to another country for a Rishta you met online (could be anywhere)?

1. Yes - Why?

2. No - Why Not?

2.a. Is it an absolute no?

2.b. If its not absolute, then what would it take for you to move?

This question is for both genders.

Salam, I’ve just joined Reddit again as I’ve been going in circles for the past 2/3 weeks. If it’s possible, can I get some opinions on how you guys are preparing for marriage and what’s steps are you guys taking?

As much as I love marriage, love having kids, love being surrounded by my own family (not siblings and parents), I’ve been having some serious 2nd thoughts about getting married due to some personal issues going on in real life.

I still want to do my best to become a better husband, partner, father, role model, leader regardless if I get married or not. So please don’t hold out on me about any resources and advice. Thanks

Salam everyone. I’m looking for advice, particularly from Iraqi Shias, people in intercultural marriages, reverts, or anyone who has dealt with serious parental opposition to marriage.

I’m an adult Iraqi Shia man. Both of my parents are practicing Shia and follow Sayyid al-Sistani. They have always expected me to marry an Iraqi Shia woman.

I have been seriously getting to know a French Shia revert for marriage. She is practicing for 7 years, wears full hijab, takes her religion seriously, does ziyarat every year to iran or iraq, and we are very compatible in religion, character, values, marriage, and what we want for our future children. She actually encourages me to learn more about Islam and deepen my own religious understanding.

I have spent considerable time thinking about this and I believe she could be a very good wife and mother. I have told my parents that I am not asking them to blindly approve of her - I have repeatedly asked them simply to meet her, speak to her, and judge the actual person.

They refuse.

Their objections basically come down to two main ideas.

First, they believe that people inevitably “go back to their roots.” Because she grew up French in a secular family, they believe that eventually her original culture and family background will become stronger and influence her and our children, regardless of how committed she is to Shi‘ism now.

Second, they believe an Iraqi will naturally always be more compatible with another Iraqi. They say children mainly follow their mother because she spends more time raising them, so unless their mother is Iraqi, my children will never properly love Iraqi culture or identify strongly with Iraq.

They are also concerned about things such as her secular relatives, drinking, Western attitudes, etc.

My response has been that I understand these are things that need to be discussed seriously. I’m not pretending cultural differences don’t exist. But I am Iraqi myself, my children would have an Iraqi father and Iraqi grandparents, and I intend to teach them Arabic, take them to Iraq, keep them close to my family, and give them a strong Iraqi and Shia identity. She is supportive of raising the children Shia and keeping them connected to my background.

What I struggle with is that my parents are making predictions about what she will eventually become without being willing to even speak to her.

I recently told them that I love them and want them deeply involved in my future family, but after listening to them, speaking to relatives and seeking advice, I have decided to continue pursuing this relationship toward marriage. If everything continues to be right between us, marriage could happen within the next several months.

Their reaction was extremely intense. My mother became very distressed, cursed the decision and prayed that terrible things would happen to me, and my father told me I had brought him enormous shame and that I would never find happiness.

A major argument from my family now is that a Muslim should not cause this level of distress to his parents and that parental approval is an important part of marriage. I absolutely care about their blessing and do not want to hurt them. At the same time, I have spent months asking them for one thing: give her a chance and assess her as an individual. They still refuse because they believe there is no point once she is not Iraqi.

I’m now trying to work out what the right next step is. I don’t want to cut my parents off or turn this into “her versus them.” I want both her and my parents in my life. But I also don’t know whether it is reasonable to give up a woman I believe is genuinely suitable for marriage when the fundamental objection remains her ethnicity and upbringing.

For those who have been through something similar:

• Did your parents eventually come around? What actually changed their minds?
• How did intercultural marriage affect your children and their connection to both cultures?
• For reverts/intercultural couples, did the fear that someone would eventually “return to their roots” actually materialise?
• How would you balance serious parental distress with making your own marriage decision?
• Is there anything in my parents’ concerns that you think I am underestimating?
• Am I doing anything haram? I have tried to include them in this decision but I feel they are being unfair to my potential wife and I don't value their blessing while they do this.

I’m particularly interested in thoughtful answers from people with actual experience, even if you disagree with me.

I am in a bit of a rush as I have to move to a new job this new year.

Feel free to DM if you have any advice! thanks!

Salam everyone,
I became a Shia for almost 2 years now and ever since I came here to Canada I’ve been struggling to get settled in and I really appreciate it if someone can put me in the right direction.
I’m a 25 year old Jordanian living in Toronto, Canada. I’m looking to meet someone with the intention of marriage, but I also believe that a good marriage starts with genuinely getting to know each other and building a friendship and connection first.
I’m someone who is pretty family-oriented, ambitious, and always trying to improve myself. I work in restaurant management, enjoy going to the gym, taking care of myself, going out for good food, driving around and exploring new places, and having meaningful conversations. I’m also into reading,, and I appreciate the simple things like a good coffee, a nice dinner, or spending time with someone I’m comfortable around.
What I’m looking for
I’m hoping to meet a woman who is educated, intelligent, kind, emotionally mature, loyal, and family-oriented. Attraction is important to me, but personality and character matter just as much. I want someone who can eventually be my best friend, someone I can laugh with, grow with, support, and build a life with.
Religiously, I’m Shia and the Ahlulbayt are very important to me. I’m looking for someone who takes her faith seriously and wants Islam to be part of her future family, while also understanding that everyone’s journey and level of practice can be different.
I would preferably like to meet a Lebanese Shia woman, mainly because I feel there can be a natural cultural connection and understanding there. That said, I’m not limiting myself strictly by nationality. Character, compatibility, and the connection between two people matter more to me.
Things I value:
• Loyalty and honesty
• Family and faith
• Emotional maturity
• Good communication
• Ambition and personal growth
• Modesty and self-respect
• Being able to laugh and have fun together
• Building something together rather than expecting everything to be perfect from day one
Things that don’t work for me:
• Dishonesty or playing games
• Poor communication
• Excessive drama
• Someone who isn’t serious about marriage
• Disrespect toward family or faith
• Relationships where one person is putting in all the effort
I’m not looking to rush into marriage just for the sake of being married. I want to meet someone where there is genuine compatibility, attraction, friendship, and a shared desire to build a future together.
If you think we might be compatible, feel free to message me. 🙂

Salam, I’m posting on behalf of my sister. She’s 24, Iraqi, 161 cm and around 53 kg. She wears hijab, is religious, educated, ambitious, and family-oriented. She speaks Arabic, English, and Turkish, and studies Business Administration in English. She’s also interested in UI/UX, tech and psychology.

She doesn't mind moving to another country.

She’s looking for a practicing Ithna Ashari Shia man, single, mature, ambitious, responsible, and serious about marriage. Religious compatibility is very important to her, especially raising future children on the path of Ahlulbayt (ع).

If you feel you may be a good match, feel free to DM me.