r/TopCharacterTropes • • Sep 06 '26

miscellaneous Tropes that became problematic

The Persistent Suitor: A guy who is after the girl and just wont take no for an answer. Nowadays we just call stalking and harassment, but it used to be romantic. Example: The Notebook (2004), Noah asks Allie out while she's on a date with another man. She refuses, but he threatens to let go and fall unless she agrees to go out with him.

Comedic Woman On Man Violence: Mostly seen in anime, recently it has decreased a lot but years back every show had a woman hitting a guy and showed it as funny. Example: Toradora!, where the quintessential tsundere, Taiga, beats up the MC regularly.

Kid Bags Adult Baddie: I remember a few of these, sometimes it was to show how cool and awesome a kid was because an adult woman fell for him, now it's just seen as problematic shit. Example: Blank Check, the woman likes the kid and kisses him telling him to look for her in 10 years.

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u/Teebeejay97 Sep 06 '26

the makeover trope where a girl with curly hair and glasses straightens her hair and takes off the glasses and suddenly becomes beautiful. the curly hair part is genuinely so disgusting because you can only imagine the damage it did to girls with similar hair textures.

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u/naquoae Sep 06 '26

My wife is one of them. Has naturally curly/wavy hair, but straightens it daily because of things like this.

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u/Common_Kiwi9442 Sep 06 '26

Aww ): let her know she is beautiful! Curls are beautiful. They're a pain in the ass sometimes but I like my hair a lot better now.

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u/ProfitEmergency4049 Sep 06 '26

God this. As a guy with curly hair, i tried to grow it out but it's such a pain in the ass to maintain I always default back to a buzzcut. My mom straightens her hair cus she's tired of maintaining a full lions mane 24/7 lol

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u/Common_Kiwi9442 Sep 06 '26

Everyone's hair is different! Curls are especially frustrating and you have to try a lot of things because one thing doesn't work for everyone. Granted I still don't have a crazy complicated curly girl routine and products figured out yet but I try