Remember being like just over a year on feminizing HRT and thinking that I could still look like a man while passing the border (passport still showed ‘M’ so it was a safe bet). Unfortunately that plan failed and I got flagged for a sensitive search by the officer that had assumed I was female. He looked super uncomfortable when asking whether I would prefer a man or a woman to do the search (looking around for, presumably, a woman colleague) and I responded that I didn’t care so he ended up doing the pat down himself. He was super apologetic but like I get it dude, unexpected item in the shagging area or something like that
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u/misery_bloom 29d ago edited 29d ago
Remember being like just over a year on feminizing HRT and thinking that I could still look like a man while passing the border (passport still showed ‘M’ so it was a safe bet). Unfortunately that plan failed and I got flagged for a sensitive search by the officer that had assumed I was female. He looked super uncomfortable when asking whether I would prefer a man or a woman to do the search (looking around for, presumably, a woman colleague) and I responded that I didn’t care so he ended up doing the pat down himself. He was super apologetic but like I get it dude, unexpected item in the shagging area or something like that