r/Concerts • • Feb 21 '26

Concerts Concert etiquette

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Dear concert and showgoers, let’s talk about show etiquette. I love live music and I’ve been going to shows for about 20 years. The last five or so have felt different, and not in a great way. I’d love to get people back on the same page so live music can be enjoyable for everyone again.

Here’s what I’ve got.

  1. Please don’t record the entire show. If a song hits you and you want a quick clip, totally fine. But now it feels like everyone is filming nonstop, and unless you’re in the front row you end up watching the show through a wall of phones. If your people aren’t there, that moment wasn’t meant for them. It was meant for you.

  2. If you’re trying to move closer, keep moving. Don’t wedge yourself between two people who clearly don’t have space and then just stand there awkwardly. Either keep going or go back. If you find an actual open spot where you’re not on top of someone, great, stay there.

  3. Please don’t have full blown conversations through the whole show, especially in the front rows. Talk about the band, the moment, the energy, sure. But I don’t need to hear every detail of your weekly drama yelled over the music I paid to hear. Get dinner beforehand, vent after, but the middle of the set isn’t the place.

  4. This one might just be a small‑person problem, but people treat my size like I’m a convenient doorway. Need a drink, need the bathroom, need to get back to your friends, and suddenly I’m the designated gap in the crowd. Then it’s constant stepping on my toes, bumping into me, spilling drinks, breaking my focus. I take up less space, so people assume that space is theirs to use. It gets old fast.

I know posts like this can make the poster sound cranky, so I want to preface it by saying I absolutely will move if I need to. If someone around me is making the experience miserable, I’ll relocate without a problem. The issue now is that so many people are doing these things that it doesn’t matter where you move. You end up running into the same behavior everywhere

Your turn. What would you love to remind people about when it comes to basic human etiquette at shows and events?


r/Concerts • • Dec 17 '25

Concerts Concert Ear Plugs

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Use this stickied thread to discuss ear plugs for concerts.


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Discussion 🗣️ How many concerts do most people attend a year?

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Trying to figure out how average I am regarding concert attendance. Live music is my passion and for as long as I can remember, I've tried to average at least one concert a month. Friends are always shocked when I tell them I've done 12 or 15 shows that year. I live in area with a lot of shows so I rarely have to travel more than 0-3 hours away.

Anyways, below is the list of shows I have attended this year. I would love to hear feedback, share some bands you've seen this year, who was your favorite, etc.

Foo fighters & Queens of the Stone age

Jack White

Harry Styles

Gorillaz

Lil Wayne & 2 Chainz

Chance the Rapper

The Roots

OAR

Harbour

The Format

Alkaline Trio & Rise Against

Bahamas

Dinosaur Jr

Johnnie Blue Skies


r/Concerts • • 1h ago

Discussion 🗣️ Anyone know what concert this is?

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I’m almost certain that’s Uzi Vert, and I can’t find the concert. In the clip he’s using like smoke cannons and hitting it at the crowd and I always thought it’s funny but idk what concert it was. I know in the clip it’s ofc we ghetto flowers. Thanks if any1 knows


r/Concerts • • 1h ago

Pre Sale Viagogo purchase reselling before getting the tickets!?

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Hi, this is the first time I bought tickets on Viagogo to Harry Styles Wembley 2027 concert. It will be an AXS transfer before the event. Today, I had a chance to buy a better seat on Ticketmaster. Can I sell my Viagogo tickets!? If somebody purchases it, then I have to transfer the tickets that I receive before the concert day(s)!? If the seller forgets then I get a refund!? Thank you!


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Concerts How are people affording concerts today?

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Prices are getting higher and higher rich are getting richer poor get poorer


r/Concerts • • 14h ago

Meet & Greet 🤩 Tips to be a good meet and greet attendee

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Hi all, I’ve never done a VIP meet and greet before and wondering what your experiences might have been. For context, it’s an overseas rock band thats opening for a larger band. Not super famous but not not famous either.

Apart from the obvious (no crying, no taking up too much time, no telling long stories etc), what does one say during a meet and greet? Do the artists take the lead? I’m an awkward person and worried about freezing up. Also how long do they normally “meet” you for?

Thanks in advance!


r/Concerts • • 9h ago

Concerts Pit tickets — Jay z

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How were the Side pit tickets for the Yankee shows. Thinking about getting pit for LA, was it easy to get to the front? Was the view good, or was it annoying/obstructed when he wasn’t by your side?


r/Concerts • • 18h ago

Concerts Good GA boots/shoes?

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Hey, just looking for affordable shoe recommendations to give me some height for GA/floor concerts.

I'm 5'5 and I do try to come as early as possible but even then, I'm still pushed back by tall people. Any advice?
Thanks!


r/Concerts • • 18h ago

Discussion 🗣️ Question

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Are there any concerts (within last 30 years) where there's little surviving video footage, or very low quality footage, but an abundance of clear/high quality photos?


r/Concerts • • 18h ago

Concerts Hard Rock Hollywood Florida General Admission

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For those who've been to multiple shows in the general admission section there, is the size always the same or does it change depending on the act? Do prices often fluctuate much for that section? Lastly, what about day of availability? Do they ever release last minute tickets for this section like some venues do? Thanks


r/Concerts • • 15h ago

Concerts Standing alone at the O2 Arena - help!

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Yesterday, I booked a VIP (early entry) standing ticket to see Nickelback at the O2 Arena in London in May. I was watching the tickets rapidly sell out before my eyes and frankly made a panic buy!

I’ve since realised that there are still seats available and starting to wish I’d gone for a seated ticket, but it appears the VIP tickets are non-refundable.

So my questions to any experienced people:

-What are the chances I’ll be able to nab a good view, and how early should I arrive? The doors open at 17:30. I’m 4ft11 so I’m really going to need a a spot near the front…

-What’s standing at the O2 like / what’s the crowd like at Nickelback concerts? Having all sorts of worries about being crushed to death 😅

-Any tips for someone going alone to a standing gig where they might have to queue for a while? Do you think people will be happy to save my spot if I need the toilet? 🫣 luckily I don’t drink alcohol so I won’t break the seal or anything.

-And finally, if it were you and a seated ticket cost the same price, would you prefer seated or early entry standing and why?

Thanks in advance people!


r/Concerts • • 17h ago

Concerts Time of arrival tomorrow on TØP concert tomorrow Saturday 17 in Ohio state stadium?

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Tomorrow is my first concert ever so I don’t know anything about it. What time do you recommend I get there so I enter the stadium around the time TØP starts? Or any experience on the line today?


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Concerts Accessibility Ticketing Website Proposal

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Hi everyone, you may remember me from the other day when I was just putting out a vent about Ticketmaster and how it’s really difficult to buy accessibility tickets. Well, since then, I have decided to create a proposal for an accessibility ticketing website to send to Live Nation, the biggest ticketing company in the word. I would really appreciate it if you took the time to read it and hopefully be inspired by my work I put into this.

“Hello Live Nation, my name is (insert full legal name). I am # years old, live in Australia, and I have a disability called 'insert disability'. Since 2023, I have been going to all different types of events frequently, and there comes a problem in the planning process, which is purchasing tickets. 

I have recently read the information on your website explaining that you are in the process of reviewing and redesigning your websites to be as accessible as possible across the ticketing companies that you own. I was pleased to see that accessibility is being considered, and I would like to share with you an idea that could further improve the ticket-buying experience for people with accessibility requirements.

Over these past few months, I have experienced difficulties in purchasing accessible tickets to upcoming events in 2027. Ticketmaster Australia is the ticketing company I have had the most difficulty with as it is extremely hard to navigate to the 'submit a request' form in order to purchase accessible tickets to any event, and I do realise you have loads of staff sifting through tons of accessible ticketing requests and other enquiries, but the lengthy response times gives me bad anxiety, particularly when tickets are selling quickly. 

Within this past week, I have been pretty stressed in trying to purchase Powderfinger tickets and Nickelback tickets, to which I was only able to get Powderfinger. Along with this, I kept having this idea that I wish was real and would be extremely useful, a ticketing website that is exclusively for booking accessible tickets to all different types of events across the nation.

My proposal for this website would be to explore the development of a dedicated, centralised accessible ticketing website where people with a wide range of accessibility could find, select, and purchase suitable tickets for their intended event. Ideally, the platform would provide clear accessibility information, simplify the booking process and allow customers to purchase available accessible seating online without unnecessary delays.

The aim would be to make accessible ticketing more straightforward, less stressful, transparent and inclusive, helping people with disabilities attend live events with their friends, family, and support workers. It could also provide a more consistent booking experience across different venues and ticketing providers.

I strongly believe that this proposal is worth considering because it could improve the overall customer experience, while also demonstrating how Live Nation commits to making its ticketing agencies more accessible and more inclusive. This platform will help reduce confusion, make accessible seating information easier to find, and provide event goers with a more straightforward and hassle-free way to purchase tickets. This website will also create a more consistent process across venues nationwide and ticketing providers, reducing the need for customers to navigate multiple booking procedures.

To determine the feasibility of this website, Live Nation could begin by consulting people with disabilities, accessibility organisations, venues and ticketing providers. A pilot program involving selected events would then be introduced to evaluate the website's usability, booking efficiency and customer feedback before wider rollout. The platform could also incorporate other existing ticketing systems where it allows customers to view available accessible seating and complete their booking online, subject to each venue's requirements. 

Another feature I would like to propose is having an accessibility profile within the website. This feature will allow customers to provide information about their disability, any additional accessibility requirements, and whether they hold a valid Companion Card. Customers will be able to manage and update their details as needed, helping them communicate their requirements more efficiently when booking tickets.

The profile would be designed with privacy and security in mind, giving customers control over the information they choose to provide and how it is used. Where appropriate, this information could help participating venues and ticketing providers understand a customer's requirements and determine suitable seating and companion ticket arrangements in accordance with their policies.

By implementing this feature will reduce the need for customers to repeatedly having to provide the same information for different events, making the booking process more convenient, reduced timing, and accessible.

By investing in this initiative, Live Nation would have an opportunity to help address existing barriers to live entertainment and develop a more inclusive ticketing experience for those living with a disability.

Thank you for taking the time to consider my proposal. I would greatly appreciate it if this idea could be forwarded to the appropriate team for further consideration. I hope that, through collaboration and innovation, we can help make purchasing accessible tickets a simpler and more inclusive experience for people across Australia. I would welcome the opportunity to discuss my idea further and provide additional feedback based on my personal experiences.
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Kind Regards,”


r/Concerts • • 20h ago

Concerts Miley show Hollywood bowl

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Any show at the bowl is good, but curious if anyone's been with the new sound system? Heard its much better. Might go on sunday but wonder if its worth the nose bleeds?


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Discussion 🗣️ Waiting After the Show Etiquette

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I’ve waited for bands after their show and some of the behavior from fans was really embarrassing. Like why are you screaming at him to come over? He knows you are there and will come over if he wants to. Or trauma dumping about a relative that passed away? Or asking the band to sign basically every thing that you own? Or begging them to find another member that you are “missing”?

So I kind of created some suggestions about waiting after their show. Anything that you would add or change?

1. Remember that it’s a gift, not a right. Our tickets are for the show. Anything beyond that is extra time they choose to give us. Sometimes they’re busy packing up, tired, or just ready to have some time to themselves. Please don’t yell for them to come over or take it personally if they don’t.
2. Be mindful of what you’re asking them to take on. Thanking them or briefly sharing what a song means to you is lovely. But an after-show conversation isn’t the setting to unload personal trauma, describe everything that went wrong in the show, or expect emotional support. They can care about their fans and still have limits on what they have the time and energy to receive after performing.
3. Appreciate the person who came over. Please don’t complain to one member that another hasn’t come out or ask them to go get someone else for you. Each of them gets to decide whether they’re available to chat. Let the person in front of you feel appreciated for taking the time!
4. Remember that they’re people, too. It’s understandable to want a photo or something signed, but every interaction doesn’t have to involve a request. Sometimes it might be nice to simply have a quick conversation—ask how their day is going, share a funny moment from the show, or thank them for a great night. Enjoy getting to talk with them as people, too!
5. Share the time. If others are waiting, be mindful of how long you’re talking and how many things you’re asking them to sign. Have your phone or item ready, and give other fans a chance to say hello, too.
6. Respect personal space and goodbyes. Ask before going in for a hug, keep exits and loading areas clear, and when they say they need to go, let them go. It’s tempting to ask for “just one more thing” or “can you come back?” but we should respect when they’re ready to wrap up.


r/Concerts • • 21h ago

Discussion 🗣️ Has an artist slowly changed their merch or stopped releasing certain items?

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Bruno Mars has slowly stopped doing posters and has changed how he releases tour merch. The shirt I posted in the images is an example. He used to have similar designs for posters, but now it seems like there’s just one tour shirt featuring the location, without the dates, and no posters.

Another example is the blue hoodie that was available in Europe, while other locations mainly got the red one. The blue hoodie isn’t normally sold on the US store, so you have to get it from the EU shop, even though the EU shop directs people to the US site.

Has anyone else noticed an artist slowly changing their merch like this, making certain items less common or only available in specific regions?


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Concerts Is a gigsberg a scam ?

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And what are the site to get ticket to concert.? I am trying to get ticket for a concert and I want to make sure I dont get scammed.


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Concerts RBCxMusic codes to unlock seats for select Canadian shows on Ticketmaster

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r/Concerts • • 2d ago

Concerts Have you ever caught something thrown into the crowd at a gig?

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Hey everyone :) I run an indie music magazine and I'm currently planning an article/spread on things people have caught at concerts like guitar picks, promo tapes, drumsticks, setlists - or anything weird/unexpected!! as long as you caught it/had it thrown to you, i wanna know!

would love to hear if you have drop me a message on here or on subterraneanclub on insta! :) thank youuu!


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Concerts Boston Parking - TD garden Ques

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Hi! For those who parked at TD garden for the Olivia Rodrigo show last night was it easy to get out of after the concert? Thanks!


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Concerts Boston VIP Nation Question - Timing Help

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I was hoping someone who has done this before may be able to help me. I have VIP early entry tickets to Olivia Rodrigo's show tomorrow and I am a little confused by the email they sent out with the procedure.

We are supposed to go at 8 AM to get the numbered wrist bands. Then At 12PM, VIP guests can start lining up at Stair 3/VIP Entrance - and at 3PM, they will start VIP check-in outside walking down the line.

It sounds like the wrist band dictates your spot in line later, is that the case? If so, is there any benefit to coming back when the line up starts at noon rather than closer to 3 PM when they start check in?

Thank you!!


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Concerts My first Greyday!!!

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It’s my first Greyday and wanted to know what the best time to get there was! I’m 23 minutes away from the venue and it starts at 6:30. Also wanted to know if there are empty seats will they let you upgrade at venue ?? At the bts concert I got to upgrade just by asking ao wanted to know if I could do the same there!


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Concerts 1999 Vh-1 Presents…

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1999 Vh-1 Presents…

Donna Summer Live & More Encore. At the time, the most watched special V-h1 had produced, I think. A nod to 1978’s Live & More, home of Donna’s first #1 record: MacArthur Park.


r/Concerts • • 1d ago

Concerts How to get over missing a concert?

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I can't go to see my favourite band of all time this weekend, and I haven't been able to stop thinking about it for over a month. I was delusional enough to think I was somehow going to get there, even though I know it is impossible because I need to travel, I'm too young to check into a hotel alone, and no one will go with me. I know that one day they will come back to my country in a few years when I am old enough to get there alone, but I'm feeling the worst fomo of my life right now. I want to get over this sadness and disappointment because I know nothing can change the situation, but I need to find a way to move forward with my life and forget about this concert, because otherwise I'm just going to dwell on it until they end up returning