EDIT: I’m a sociology teacher, so I find this whole thing FASCINATING from a sociological perspective. I’m not interested in him romantically OR in converting to their religion! I’m just genuinely curious about the whole dynamic
Hello! I’m not Mormon, but there are a TON of missionaries in my country, especially in my city right now. I’ve met quite a few of them and usually end up chatting with them, which I’m totally fine with. I’m Catholic, but mostly for the philosophy of it all.
BUT I met two missionaries in particular, and I’m pretty sure one of them is just a little TOO sweet and charismatic for his own good. 😭 He talks to me about all sorts of things that have absolutely nothing to do with religion, and of course, after all the banter, he invites me to church and other activities. He also texts me and calls me late at night.
Now, I KNOW missionaries are trained to build trust and connect with people to encourage them to join the church, but something about this feels a little off!! Like, is this a recruitment strategy or is this man just naturally charming???
And just to be clear, I’m NOT falling for the whole conversion thing. I’m genuinely just curious about attending a Sunday service, seeing what their religious practices are like, and maybe joining some of their sports activities. That’s literally it!! I’m here for the cultural experience and the extracurriculars, NOT the propaganda. 😭
Talented mf, God bless him. But if he thinks he’s converting me, he’s severely underestimated my ability to be nosy without committing to anything.