r/hatethissmug • u/Radiant_Fruit_8807 • Sep 04 '26
Gaming I hate when gendered character Designs are like this
Like I usually choose the male protagonist in JRPGs As I am A dude But There is A Reason why its a joke that men chose the female option in video games and thats because the Male Character designs are So FUCKING BLAND and dont get me started on The Hair customisation options especially male hair choices like for example In Pokemon Sword And Shield
The Female Protagonist Has 38 hairstyle Choices
While the Male Has EIGHT ONLY 8
And In Pokemon X And Y THERE WERE ONLY FOUR And Also The Clothes Customisation Is Boring Like Its Shorts Trousers Shirts Jackets With Different Colour Variations And Maybe Like One Cool Option Like Im Happy Female Protagonist Have so Many Customisation Options but WHAT ABOUT US
Like At This Point Just Remove Gender Restrictions on Customisation and Allow Crossdressing because The Female Customisation Options Will Always Be Better
And The Hair Customisation for The Male Protagonist Is
-a Bowlcut
-One That Looks Like You work In a 9-5 Office Job
-A Cut That Looks Like The One Your Mom Makes You Do When you go to a fancy event
-One With A Terrible Fade
-The Naruto Cut In Boruto
Like the Only redeeming Quality is that the hats are usually cool so i can cover up the Godawful Hairstyle Choices
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u/Least-Bumblebee-6504 Sep 04 '26
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u/Kermit-The-Cool Sep 04 '26
demoman was excluded because of known reasons
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u/memkakes They should make a third sub for Pet Peeve posting Sep 04 '26
scout was also banned
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u/Gear-exe Sep 04 '26
They can't risk Scout being included, he would steal all the girls because he was literally God's gift to women.
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u/OrangeHairedTwink Not a hater, just interested in what people have to say Sep 04 '26
WHERE ARE THEY
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u/Siturba Sep 04 '26
Yada yada, it's a good day to be not dead !😎
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u/kingsly91 Sep 04 '26
Then Pokemon has the audacity to give men like 1/3 of the amount of options for clothes as women 🫠
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Sep 04 '26
do you want brown shirt, blue shirt or.... BLACK SHIRT!!!
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u/PoussinVermillon Sep 04 '26
Grey shirt available in dlc
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Sep 04 '26
dont forget hair options, where they give you the 5 options that are the same hair, an afro for "inclusivity" and bald, if you want long hair you can go fuck yourself.
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u/Pacifistic_Sadist Sep 04 '26
Aren't ScVi the first and only time they've given an afro as a customization option? And it was barely a fro. Most times it's either the most mid cornrows or a fade.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Sep 04 '26
im not talking specifically pokemon, im talking games in general where they give an insanely stereotypical afro and thats the only "black hairstyle" they do, it comes accross as performative, and then they do a bunch of haircuts that can be described as "chad" "brad" and "dad".
In general it pisses me off when haircut options are different between men and women as if me being a guy prevents me from having long hair or vice versa for women
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u/Stunning_Ad_7658 Sep 05 '26
Oh god you remember the black kid generic 90s hair cut in cartoons? Atleast Gerald stood out lol.
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u/PeronalCranberry Sep 05 '26
As a man with hair down to my ass, I am eternally annoyed by my lack of hair selection in games.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Sep 05 '26
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u/PeronalCranberry Sep 05 '26
Nice curls, my guy! I'm just a big, viking-looking dude. As such, I find it weird that people are still so set on men having short hair.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Sep 05 '26
thank you, i bet you look great too, long hair on guys always looks peak(im not bias i swear) in my case in games i always have to settle to short curly or afro because there is NEVER an option for long curls.
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u/PeronalCranberry Sep 05 '26
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Sep 05 '26
you look like you would make a great scotish warrior extra in braveheart lol
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u/Raytoryu Sep 04 '26
Videovgame clothes personnalisation sucks because real life male fashions sucks
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u/FlyingThroughData Sep 04 '26
I think for Pokemon, its mostly because Male protagonists don't have much media aside from Manga, and Games, you mostly see them as silent protagonists
Female characters like Dawn, May, Serena, are more popular online due to the Anime, so obviously they get more varied fanart, and designs
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u/TimeLordHatKid123 Sep 04 '26
That makes me wonder now, if Ash wasn't the consistent series protagonist, would we have gotten more content of the male avatars in subsequent series post-Kanto?
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u/FlyingThroughData Sep 04 '26
Probably, we already sort of have them in the Manga, though they can't make an anime out of it, because it gets pretty brutal and dark, and Pokemon is pretty strict about not appearing like that
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u/fishieranz Sep 04 '26
i blame those anime waifu bias in the old days
im glad that pokemon is going back to their roots
tbh i dont hate the girls i hate toxic fans
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u/Koreaia Sep 04 '26
Old days? Look what they did to Liko now.
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u/Dangerous_Equal4373 Sep 05 '26
What did they do to liko? Did they screw her character or something?
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u/Nightmare_Freddles Sep 04 '26
I mean, Its barely even brutal. If you are thinking of the arbok the arbok was fine because it had regenerative properties and it was shown again later on. The only Real deaths are the magmars that Giovanni kills and Archie and Maxie really. And the anime doesn't shy away from death either. We got Lysander getting absolutely obliterated by Zygarde and Hunter J and her crew kinda also died (atleast we assume)
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u/Cantthinkagoodnam2 Sep 04 '26
The manga really is not all that
It does contain more graphic content than the anime but compare it to any other shounen series and it pales in compairsion
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u/ISketchDinosaurs Sep 04 '26
Likely. We did get that Johto anime season with both the male and female Crystal protagonists before they decided that Ash was going to stick around.
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u/JonathanStones1989 Lord of Green Sep 04 '26
let us make men bonito too 😠
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u/Sorikai_ Sep 04 '26
Fr. I feel like girls always get the cutest hairstyles and outfits, while guys get the most plane Jane stuff. Wouldn’t be so bad if I could put them on my male character but then I guess people would be screaming “woke” and they’d have another problem.. -_-
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u/featherw0lf Sep 04 '26
That's because there really isn't any "male" clothing these days, it's all unisex. With that said, I hate when games focus entirely on skirts, dresses, and high heels without giving any t-shirts, jackets, or hoodies to the players who don't want a feminine look.
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u/tigerbait92 Sep 04 '26
The Great Male Renunciation is a travesty, and men have been reduced to amorphous blobs of buttons downs and slacks since.
It isn't that I want to look pretty, or femme, or anything that fashion currently dictates as chic. I just want some goddamn color and style in my wardrobe that isn't just "cool pattern!...but it's on a button down"
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u/featherw0lf Sep 04 '26
I'm the same! A lot of times, a game will have dresses with really nice patterns or color schemes but they're unique to that dress specifically. Why can't they have that same pattern on a jacket or t-shirt?
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u/ISketchDinosaurs Sep 04 '26
But that's super easy to get around in most of these games since they're fantasy to some extent. Just bring back some historical male clothing. They've dressed like peacocks for most of human history.
Nothing screams masculine like a gigantic codpiece on top of your parade armor or whatever. Maybe not in Pokemon. But, like, traditional/historical British or French or Japanese or whatever clothing? They could do that.
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u/DarkHelmet123 Sep 04 '26
Gives us 100s of hairstyles for both genders.
Me: picks bald and beard for the male every time.
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u/zandaztu Sep 04 '26
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u/FlyingThroughData Sep 04 '26
Counterpoint:
I like old Brendan's design more
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u/zandaztu Sep 04 '26
Emerald yes.
I couldnt care for his ruby outfit tbh
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u/Bancatone Sep 05 '26
Emerald Brendan is dripped tf out. I want to shove Ruby/Sapphire Brendan into a locker.
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u/Capital-Try-2325 Sep 04 '26
But you couldnt tell that the hat wasnt his hair?
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u/FlyingThroughData Sep 04 '26
I know, that's why i liked it more, i always find the white being a cap stupid, except for in the Manga, where it actually has a reason
In the games, its just misleading
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u/Charming_papers Sep 04 '26
I honestly thought the white cap was his hair when I used to play it. Im still surprised that its not 😔
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u/JoestarSage153 Sep 04 '26
I like all thier old designs better, may and brenden;s ruby and saphire look was the best
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u/featherw0lf Sep 04 '26
I also love how distinct their personalities are. I know that's not exclusive to them, but it's what I always think about when they're brought up. Usually the opposite protag is just the same dialogue but with a different face or whatever.
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u/PlentyWise3615 Sep 04 '26
That’s not really a counter-argument when it’s just one example out of nine. And the next generation is coming, and it looks like the same thing is going to happen all over again.
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u/Ashamed-Raccoon-1387 Sep 04 '26
One example out of nine and not one of the examples with customization either. At least I felt like Scarlet/Violet made the girls as bland as the guys.
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u/Dvalin09 Sep 04 '26
If only that was his true hair, and not a hat covering his super generic hair
(Brendan was absolutely my favorite pkmn characters, until I discovered that bloody truth. 😭)
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u/Careless_Map488 Sep 04 '26
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u/AdAdvanced8522 Sep 04 '26
Bro they obviously have winter attire. Why the fuck are her thighs exposed 😭
Give my girl at least some tights or something that sounds miserable
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u/Aur0ra1313 Sep 04 '26
Skin colored tights. I use them all the time in winter because the bare legs look is cute.
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u/Sea_Macaron_8789 Sep 04 '26
Because they are born in Sinnoh coldest Pokémon Region and Dawn's Hot. Pokémon ShiningPearl gave her Jeans though.
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u/DoubleDeeEddBoy Sep 04 '26
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u/ImHoundoomed Sep 04 '26
They look pretty generic compared to almost every other protagonist in FE.
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u/Jachaunt Sep 04 '26
Still laughing that playing as fem Robin was technically more meta because she had access to galeforce and could pass that onto her son as well.
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u/ILikeBirdsQuiteALot Sep 04 '26
I love the customization options in FE Awakening for both male and female Robin. I always played as male
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u/OkSherbet9216 Sep 04 '26
Don’t get me started on Pokémon games’ mcs…… I choose male every time but god do I wish they had the same fashion equality as their female counterpart. Begging for fucking crumbs every generation.
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u/TokugawaShigeShige Sep 04 '26
In the recent games all clothing options are available for both genders.
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u/IronIrma93 Sep 04 '26
ScaVio axed it in favor of a few different uniforms
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u/i_ate_chemicals Sep 04 '26
ZA let all the clothes be worn by any gender, so I say we’re moving in the right direction. Just crossing fingers that feature doesn’t get removed next gen considering pokemon games take two steps forward and one step back every gen
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u/Ill-Brick830 Sep 04 '26
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u/OkSherbet9216 Sep 04 '26
I did say fashion so X/Y and onwards ( BDSP included) where boutiques and/or hairstylists exist.
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u/Apprehensive_Day6739 Sep 04 '26
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u/Stunning-Original802 Sep 05 '26
Real. Girls are cute and I am not going to self insert either way so it doesn't matter.
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u/ZPoweredForm Sep 04 '26
Pokémon has not only moved over to both men and women having the same catalogue of clothes since Arceus (sort of, but definitely SV onward), the entire catalogue of clothing has genuinely been pretty bad, where there was just nothing for either side of the spectrum.
The more masculine clothing Z-A, while can be worm by women, is definitely much better than the feminine equivalents. Sun and Moon had a really similar problem too, where none of the female clothing actually fit anywhere. Defaults are another discussion, and I feel as though we’re undermining how decent the male protagonist has looked in Pokémon games (genuinely speaking, its really only been DP’s, SV’s and the remakes’ male protags that look awful).
I get the issue you’re referring to, but I’m not sure the modern depiction of Pokémon really fits this. The female protagonists are usually better by a long shot, but I dont think this means the male protagonist has a bad design. By extension, let’s also remember that Dawn, May and Serena are in the anime so they’re just going to be more popular regardless.
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u/nebula_nic Sep 04 '26
This is why gender neutral chara customization is the best
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u/-TheForestCat- Sep 04 '26
Yeah. This post really makes mew appreciate Sky: Children of the Light mrow.
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u/BluecoatCashMoney5 Sep 04 '26
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u/No_Procedure_5039 Sep 04 '26
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u/PsychologicalTears Sep 05 '26
He probably has the best design of all MCs for me, and is the only MC that I go over the FEMC lol.
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u/Whimsicrazed Sep 04 '26
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u/PsychologicalTears Sep 05 '26
Prob bc you can change the clothes in-game, but i guess they could really go for a better presentation.
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u/InvisibleChell Sep 06 '26
Z-A fixed things for me and I do feel I made a character in Scarlet that made the uniform kinda work (the trick is Summer Uniform + dark tights, just like Nemona) but yeah Florian and Juliana look so plain if you don't do any customization - ESPECIALLY Florian, Juliana at least has a side braid adding a tiny bit of flair.
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u/fuckthisstupidupdate Sep 04 '26
Fate grand order why is the boy design so generic while the female one at least has a little personality
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u/EveningEconomics8457 Sep 04 '26
If only he had longer hair or smth, that would be so peak... and cross dressing mystic code 😣
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u/unknowingly-Sentient Sep 05 '26
Funnily enough, both of their designs are kind of genderbend version of Shirou and Rin
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u/Longjumping-Tear7450 Sep 05 '26
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u/AlbazAlbion Sep 04 '26
Like At This Point Just Remove Gender Restrictions on Customisation and Allow Crossdressing because The Female Customisation Options Will Always Be Better
They literally did just that in Z-A actually (and SV DLC IIRC since you could wear the female Team Star grunt outfit as a guy I think).
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u/Complete_Meeting8719 Sep 04 '26
Play "Where Winds Meet" where last I checked, the men had 2x better outfits and hairs than the women
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u/Accomplished-Big-740 Sep 04 '26
I love what Splatoon 3 did, allowed both male and female hairstyles for both genders of Ink/Octoling. Really respect them for that.
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u/GumboMumbo49 Sep 04 '26
This is why I will alway advocate for Male MCs for video games, because then they have to let the boys have some drip.
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u/fishieranz Sep 04 '26
sameee and male character fans are subjected to hate, gaslighting and gatekeeping by fandoms
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u/Ornery-Length8120 Sep 04 '26
This is what happens when you live in a world where people consider one gender more attractive than the other...
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u/GameWoods Sep 04 '26
No one wants to accept the reason is because men's fashion as a whole fucking sucks across the board.
Girls simply have infinitely more options.
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u/HiroHayami Sep 04 '26
I want to make my men pretty so I can play as a cute femboy.
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u/PlentyWise3615 Sep 04 '26
That says a lot about the situation. You want to make the male protagonists more feminine. In other words, even when playing as a man, you want to play as a woman.
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u/Alarmed-Marsupial-64 Sep 04 '26
Femboy does not equate woman. Feminine aesthetics does not mean womanhood.
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u/NahScrewThisIGiveUp Sep 04 '26
Okay but why did you use these images as comparison. Thats like comparing the infinity war poster and a render of doom on the side of a toy box
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u/NeonArchon Sep 04 '26
I could not find it, but I rememeber seing a meme that went something like "This the best male customization you can make in Pokemon Z-A" and the picture was the male character as a Femboy xd
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u/Evan_L_Rodriguez Sep 04 '26
tbh I’ve always thought this complaint was stupid because Lucas’s outfit is completely fine. I’d argue it’s as interesting of an outfit as Dawn’s. They’re dressed like little kids, I dunno why people think the generic player character needs to be a fashion model.
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u/PresenceAggressive27 Sep 05 '26
The side game Pokemon male protagonists look so much cooler and more original
https://giphy.com/gifs/30lxTuJueXE7C
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u/DumsLander34 Sep 04 '26
Pokemon is literally the worst example. Both male and female design are good
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u/Radiant_Fruit_8807 Sep 04 '26
Ok yeah bad examples for male designs
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u/Ill-Brick830 Sep 04 '26
Choosing a Pokémon protagonist to illustrate this post was definitely a choice.
Their designs have always been cool and similarly detailed regardless of the gender picked.
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u/FastMovingHog Sep 04 '26
i don't like this because it just reinforces that society values women for their appearance and men for their labor.
Notice all the people saying they wish they could make their character a femboy. Cause the only way a man can be seen as attractive is by looking like a woman. i.e. men are inherently seen as unattractive.
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u/samisaywhat Sep 04 '26
Some of y’all just prefer the women’s clothing and I think it’s okay to just say that
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u/Thin_Albatross2720 Sep 04 '26
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u/Carrixdo Sep 05 '26
I feel that scarlett violet player trainer also looked a lik NPC like.
In the case of WiWa if I didn't know beforehand that was the player character design I would have assumed it was a new iteration of hiker/backpacker NPC.
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u/Speedemon42069 Sep 04 '26
Calem got done SO dirty in X and Y. Serena? One of the most popular protagonists of the games and anime, with an extremely popular ship along with having some of the best designs in the series. She gets 38 hairstyles along with tons of clothes. What does Calem get? What does Calem even have is the better question
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Sep 04 '26
This is why in most games i select woman, if the game allows it i always make a femboy, but if i cant i want the cooler fits the female characters get.
I dont like femboys because they look like women, I like women because they look like femboys.
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u/Radiant_Fruit_8807 Sep 04 '26
Yeah and for me personally it follows thos
First playthrough
-male protagonistIf customisation options good or allows you to crossdress
-play male for replaysIf Customisation Options Bad
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u/nkisj Sep 04 '26
Artists just need to step up their game ngl (including me ngl)
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u/Radiant_Fruit_8807 Sep 04 '26
Nah whoever decided male customisation options should be bland and have Like A Fifth of female customisation options should be FIRED
https://giphy.com/gifs/3orif3HKCpt39D7Ww0
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u/tanya0-0 Sep 05 '26
You’re mistaken. The first photo shows fan art, not an in-game sprite. Also, the Pokémon Scarlet and Violet games only feature three or four hairstyles for female characters, while the rest are male or unisex. I don’t see any issue with these designs, either, because I see the same thing in real life: attractive, well-groomed young women alongside ordinary-looking guys. After all, society doesn’t demand that men prioritize looking beautiful above all else; it allows them to simply live their lives and wear comfortable clothing rather than focusing on aesthetics.
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u/tanya0-0 Sep 05 '26
Also, the female characters in Pokémon X and Y—the game you mentioned—only have five hairstyle options: very short, short, the standard style you start with, pigtails, and a single ponytail (which is a secret unlockable style). There were never as many options as you claim. If you’re so jealous that the female characters get to wear skirts, then just play as a female character.
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u/velvetfreakshow Sep 04 '26
is this not art imitating life? most men don’t/can’t do much w their fashion and tend to look pretty boring. most interesting fashion tends to lean on the feminine side
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u/1Hugh-Mann Sep 04 '26
yeah i always choose female in RPGs just because they get more clothing options, more stylish clothing options and in some cases unlocked clothing options (like how males can't wear skirts in most games)
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u/This_Surprise3284 Sep 04 '26
Honestly the only exceptions for the pokemon games are the gen 3, gen 5, and Legends ZA protags. Both protags in the game's mentioned are atleast equally cool looking imo
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u/pokefandylan Sep 04 '26
At least we’ve been having less gendered protagonists and customization options since Legends: Arceus
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u/Ok_Anxiety_5414 Sep 04 '26
I actually think pokemon does a pretty decent job keeping things equal. Gen 6,7,8 are the only ones where I think the w o men look way better
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u/Pacifistic_Sadist Sep 04 '26
Customization started in gen 6 (I think) and it was the most one sided customization ever bro 😭. Legends ZA is the best we've gotten for the male characters and it's solely because they don't have gender restrictions on the clothes. I would've been so mad if I had to play though that game with only those fuckass skinny jeans they have the male character start off with.
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u/MISTERGAME06 Sep 04 '26
Recent gachas have luckily solved this issue. Just look at games like Genshin and Wuwa, where the other gender is another character that looks pretty much like the other but slightly adapted, ZZZ where they are entirely different and equally distinctive, or Silver Palace, where they both look similar, but still stunning
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u/Wonder_Of_U_2011 Sep 04 '26
Honestly for pokemon I like a lot of male mcs designs. Yeah they might be basic but I like them and never thought of choosing female over male just for the design
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u/Mimi_Friendly_NPC Sep 04 '26
Early pokemon games had equally unique male and female MCs designs imo. Things started to get clumsy when customization was added, but that's a rather general problem, since male MCs tends to have less/more boring ustomization options than their female counterparts
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u/Caulipower_fan Sep 04 '26
i dont like how the batter from OFF looks, i wish they at least more detail to the design to make him look more interesting
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