r/interesting • u/papapuropoyrik • 5d ago

MISC. Tobey Maguire posing as Spider-Man while officiating his ex-wife's wedding

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u/Aethelrede 5d ago

Oh, definitely.  Some of the less subtle "critics" are openly calling Toby a "cuck", which isn't even a dog whistle.

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u/Aethelrede 5d ago

Is your masculinity so insecure that you cannot be friends with your ex-wife?  That you cannot be happy that she has found a new partner?

Not all men view women solely as possessions.  Some of us view them as people and friends.

I would pity you, having such a narrow, bitter view of manhood cannot be pleasant.

But your racism negates my impulse to pity; you cannot expect me to believe you are unaware of the extremely racist connotations of the word "cuck".

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u/MinisterHoja 3d ago

Y'all obsessed with being secure in your masculinity that you'll accept any damn thing to prove it.

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u/Aethelrede 3d ago

The idea that I'm insecure about my masculinity is hilarious, because I make no claim to being masculine in the first place.

I do identify as male, but it's mostly because it's my biological sex, I've never felt particularly masculine.  Quite the contrary, I've always been slightly repulsed by our society's definition of masculinity.  May have something to do with being asexual; since I'm not competing for sex partners, I don't care about signaling my virility or whatever you are doing when you thump your chest and boast of your strength.

"Masculinity" is a social construct anyway; different societies define it in very different ways.  And not every guy agrees with our society's definition.

You're projecting; that is, you are assuming that everyone thinks like you do and values what you value.  Some men value friendship over appearing "masculine".  You may find this risible, but that's a failure of empathy on your part.

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u/beast_scyther 3d ago

“Any damn thing”
aka the horrors of your ex wife remarrying lmfao oh nooooo

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u/MinisterHoja 3d ago

Officiating your ex-wife wedding is weird. I'm not going to pretend it's not. 🤣

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u/yoyoyolandayo 5d ago

Speaking of cucks...

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u/Aethelrede 5d ago

A curious assertion.  I take it you believe liking women is gay?

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u/Rabiddd 5d ago

They both went black lol

Toby is dating Ice Spice now

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u/Unlucky_Lawfulness51 5d ago

Nah it just odd to have your ex at the wedding

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u/Farhead_Assassjaha 3d ago

Agreed. It’s really not much about race here.

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u/T_WRECKS_X 5d ago

Stop the madness lol, no one here is dogging on it. There's a couple comments saying it's unusual for an ex to officiate a wedding, most people being supportive overall. Not one comment about race

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u/No-Pilot-1252 5d ago

So you can literally search the comment section on iPhone by typing at the top. Out of the almost 1000 comments there is literally one saying black and cucked and one other saying the guy is black. This guys just exaggerating and you're getting downvoted for being right. Theres less then 1% of people being "racist," not "plenty, just two people out of 1000 comments. Guys trying to make it about race when it's not. I didn't even see it was a black dude till this guy said so.

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u/Educational_Deer2411 3d ago

Well said. It becomes about race when people make it about race.

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u/Aethelrede 5d ago

Re-read the thread, there's people calling it "humiliating" (for Tobey) and calling him a cuck.  Plenty of racism and misogyny on display.

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u/Shoddy-Vehicle8536 3d ago

They probably are

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u/Historicmetal 3d ago

So you think there’s a lot of people who think this is two healthy mature adults and everything’s fine, but because the groom is black, they can’t handle it?

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u/Historical-Dish-602 3d ago

Sounds like something YOU noticed. Nice self report

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u/Public_Enemy_15 3d ago

Maybe because its not normal for the.ex husband to perform the service?

If I was the groom, I would think: what does he knows than I don't, lol

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u/oxyscotty 3d ago

wait what? what does this have to do with race lmao

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u/Gonz_UY 3d ago

Yeah, he pulled a Doc Strange in MoM

Edit: He even did a Spidey pose

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u/WhispersOfHaru 2d ago

Tobey known to be very mature, so much that he dates teenagers.

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u/No-Cicada7010 3d ago

The liberal racist strikes again. Ain’t nobody even talking about color but the liberal always sees color.

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u/dragnansdragon 2d ago

Dumb of the person you replied to bringing race up, but automatically jumping to "liberal racist" is even more cringe. Step outside

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u/No-Cicada7010 2d ago

Stfu and say you’re racist.

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u/dragnansdragon 2d ago

As a gay mixed race man with a vibrant social circle, no thank you.

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u/ElvissKarateChop 3d ago

Dawg, no one gives a shit about interracial marriages anymore.

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u/Moist-Condition69 5d ago

Only on Reddit would this be seen as healthy and mature 😂

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u/Ishpersonguy 3d ago

I mean if they're happy and not doing anything wrong? 

They sure seem a lot healthier and more mature than y'all.

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u/Afraid-Expression366 5d ago

Didn’t notice anything except that Tobey Macguire was officiating at his ex wife’s wedding (strikes me as awkward) and Tobey does his Spiderman pose (strikes me as awkward, weird, and sad - basically no dignity).

Everything else - including the skin color of the groom - is not the issue at all. At least not for me. Hell, you had to point it out for me to even notice.

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u/Infinite-King-6978 3d ago

Reddit moment. Shut up dork 😂

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u/Any_Requirement1081 3d ago

Two comments referring to his skin colour my man. Stop with the nonsense.

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u/Automatic_Way_5627 3d ago

All I could think was, this is the best way to avoid alimony and her taking half your stuff I have ever seen.

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u/ascarletstrange 3d ago

Not everything is about racism and black isn’t a dirty word please touch grass

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u/HerbertInTheWoods 3d ago

HE’S WHAT?????

opens drawer full of pitch forks

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u/NoValuable7882 3d ago

there is nothing healthy about watching your wife get nailed by another man lmfao.

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u/FlamesOfDespair 2d ago

You are delusional if you think the average man would think this is ok if the groom was white.

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u/No-Western8123 2d ago

A tribalist accusing others of tribalism. American I assume?

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u/discoloredSmile 2d ago

lmfao cuck

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u/RalphDeLucca 2d ago

You’re the only one pointing out race

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u/SphaghettiWizard 2d ago

Your ex husband officiating your wedding is weird as fuck