Tobey gets a bad rep, between the poker games and the young girlfriends.
But isn’t this the best case scenario for a failed marriage? I mean clearly they’re all good enough friends to both have Tobey officiate and for Tobey to accept. Clearly means relations with the in-laws are also decent. Personally this is best case for their kids. I really don’t envy kids that have to live with divorced parents that hate each other at worst or don’t talk at best. Seems like this is the healthiest outcome of a divorce for the kids.
I also think this shows that Tobey gets unfairly judged. Unless his ex wife, ex in laws, ex wife’s new husband are also all assholes and they’re all just peas in a pod.
Is the “young girlfriends” Tatiana Dieteman, who was 29-32 when she dated him, and he was 46-49? I think that’s quite an age gap, but there’s little problematic about it when you’re both 30+, emotionally mature and financially independent.
I couldn’t find anything about other girlfriends much younger than him, so someone else would have to link me.
That's just people who think everyone should be the same age dating. Which is dumb. As you said as long as it is two consenting adults it's no one's business what age gap there is.
My wife is 9 years older than me. We've been together for... thinks... 56-18=... HOLY CRAP I'M OLD... 38 years. Married for "please don't ask me I can't remember when we got married".
Your point was that he will most likely die before the ages you originally cited anyway and she would likely be a widow even if they were the same age?
My grand parents were 12 years apart but you never would have guessed. People usually mesh in relationships. Later in life the young partner typically keeps the older partner young
Yeah. I think it's good to be mindful of age gaps mainly because differences in age often come with differences in maturity, experiences, wealth and power, but this is not universal. I'm not familiar with everyone this man has dated, but the ones I know of seem to all be people that don't have huge differences in experiences or wealth compared to him.
its court of public opinion bullshit. I was in a relationship where the other person heavily criticized large age gap relationships, but failed to remember that they were themselves in a large age gap relationship for a while.
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u/Own-Cable-3571 5d ago
Tobey gets a bad rep, between the poker games and the young girlfriends.
But isn’t this the best case scenario for a failed marriage? I mean clearly they’re all good enough friends to both have Tobey officiate and for Tobey to accept. Clearly means relations with the in-laws are also decent. Personally this is best case for their kids. I really don’t envy kids that have to live with divorced parents that hate each other at worst or don’t talk at best. Seems like this is the healthiest outcome of a divorce for the kids.
I also think this shows that Tobey gets unfairly judged. Unless his ex wife, ex in laws, ex wife’s new husband are also all assholes and they’re all just peas in a pod.