r/interesting • u/papapuropoyrik • 5d ago

MISC. Tobey Maguire posing as Spider-Man while officiating his ex-wife's wedding

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u/Top-Candidate-9992 5d ago

Partially just the fact he wasn't quite ready to grow up.  A lot of angry outbursts, a lot of leaving the parenting and things to me, disregarding the feelings of others, etc.  

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u/lukibunny 5d ago

I assume he grew up and is different now. You ever get resentful that he wasn’t like this when you were together?

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u/Shiva- 5d ago

No. Because things happen for a reason.

I mean that sounds like some weird church speak, but it's not like that.

It means sometimes we need those things to make us learn. We need those feelings. We need those losses. They make us better people. It's how we learn and grow.

Also, not to gloss over it... but it doesn't mean /u/Top-Candidate-9992 was a perfect angel either. I am sure she also became a better person after having to deal with her ex.

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u/Top-Candidate-9992 5d ago

💯.  We both learned a lot through the experience and the fallout afterwards, and became closer friends because of how different we both came out of it.