I just don’t see it the same way. I can’t relate to you when you say “pretending” or “downplay”. I’m best friends with my ex and there are no issues or drama. Feeling betrayed by something so small sounds alien to me. Since our views couldn’t be further apart, I don’t see a reason to keep discussing it, so bye and have a good day.
If it was a small thing to break up, you didnt love eachother or love was 1 sided.
Ive been happily married to the best woman I know for 5yrs
I know that if I was to leave my wife, this would devastate her and she wouldn't let me be welcome just hanging around all the time. It would be a slap to her face.
She knows I feel similarly.
Leaving a failed relationship is the respectful thing both to yourself and them. Hanging around only builds resentment if you actually loved eachother. Casual flings are different, as no love existed in the first place and nothing real was lost besides booty/dick access
lol, your wife is cheating on you. She’s absolutely going to leave you for her boss or your brother, because she’s realized she’s married to someone with the emotional maturity of a toddler.
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u/AffectionateMoose300 3d ago
I just don’t see it the same way. I can’t relate to you when you say “pretending” or “downplay”. I’m best friends with my ex and there are no issues or drama. Feeling betrayed by something so small sounds alien to me. Since our views couldn’t be further apart, I don’t see a reason to keep discussing it, so bye and have a good day.