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Meanwhile, dogs when you have been petting them for 15 minutes and stop for a moment
https://giphy.com/gifs/0JmwdI6gYrJopwiYOM

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I love how dogs and cats teach us about humannity too. (Well at least for me)

I grew up trying to people please to be validated. Like if i was nice to them and always complimentary, never even making them the butt of a joke somehow my loyalty would prevail above all other values.

But people dont always respect the person who is the 'nicest'. Sometimes the best way to be the most desired or popular in a room is to not be such a pushover. People respect that which itself sets boundaries because when they get permission to get closer/deeper they feeline (ha) they have earned it.

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This is me. Still struggling with people pleasing habits 🫠