r/mildlyinfuriating • • 11d ago

I just wanted a hot dog These tips options

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Mildly cause at least I can custom

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u/plantainrepublic 11d ago

My rule of thumb is that if I’m standing when I order I do not tip.

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u/lovefist1 11d ago

Same. I'll make exceptions occasionally, say, for a coffee drink that requires some effort or a bartender or something, but that's about it.

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u/plantainrepublic 11d ago

Yeah I do usually tip bartenders if I’m not just buying a beer or if I’m sitting down at the bar making conversation.

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u/StressLife7080 10d ago

Why bartenders?

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u/DrHarrisonLawrence 7d ago

If you buy a beer from the bar, you sometimes don’t tip? Always tip an extra $1 for that unless the bartender is extraordinarily rude while they serve you

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u/plantainrepublic 7d ago

I never tip for a beer.

I do not care if it is rude. You do not deserve a dollar for turning around and handing me a beer.

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u/DrHarrisonLawrence 7d ago

How about cleaning the glass? How about keeping the taps clean and full? Buddy cmon

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u/plantainrepublic 7d ago

That’s…their fucking job?

Plus, the scenario I had in mind was a bottle. I would be more inclined if it was tap.

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u/DrHarrisonLawrence 7d ago

Sorry, you said you never tip for a beer. I guess we live different lives because I will almost always order drafts at bars instead of bottles/cans, for a similar reason you’re getting at

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u/Camburglar13 11d ago

Even a bartender. I know it’s expected and if I ask for a complex drink then sure whatever. To pour me a beer? Takes 10 seconds of their time.

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u/Servichay 10d ago

Wow effort, that's rare

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u/Feisty-Pair-4293 11d ago

So not your rule of thumb then

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u/saragracevt 11d ago

I like this

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u/Significant_Income31 11d ago

That's mine! I adopted that a few years ago when tipping culture started getting out of hand. Hundreds of interactions and not a single "weird" one since then.

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u/Inevitable_Kick3074 11d ago

Can't be bothered to give a dollar to the person that makes your coffee?

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u/DeathKnell1989 11d ago

They get paid an hourly wage? Do you tip your grocery store clerk who bags your groceries?

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u/snacksandsoda 11d ago

Idk did they make my groceries?

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u/DeathKnell1989 11d ago

More effort than the person pushing a button to pour espresso and hot milk into a cup.

Do you tip the McDonald’s worker for your drive thru coffee and for them assembling your breakfast sandwich?

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u/plantainrepublic 11d ago

Why would I?

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u/snacksandsoda 11d ago

So, you don’t tip at the bar?

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u/plantainrepublic 11d ago

If I’m standing at the bar to get a beer, no.

If I’m sitting and getting mixed drinks, usually.

I’m not tipping you to hand me a beer or pour a glass of wine. If you’re making conversation w/ me because I’m sitting at the bar or mixing drinks, that’s different.

I’m not going to tip people for existing just because they ask. That’s stupid as hell.

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u/snacksandsoda 11d ago

Good luck I guess

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u/plantainrepublic 11d ago

With what?

I’m not the one panhandling for tips after doing no actual service.

What are they going to do? Spit in my beer can that I watched them open and hand to me?

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u/snacksandsoda 11d ago

Being miserable

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u/Tlix 11d ago

Found the guy that relies on tips. Get a better job. It’s not my job to pay your wages lmao.

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u/snacksandsoda 11d ago

Incorrect on both counts. I just have empathy and understand the world I live in. Your beer costs $1 more, sorry you’re too broke to go out

Hope you understand that no one respects you, including your friend who don’t share your lack of empathy lol

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u/plantainrepublic 11d ago

Insane work lmao.

I’m glad people like you feed into this bullshit.

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u/snacksandsoda 11d ago

This is how our society is set up brother. I did not make the world

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u/DeathKnell1989 11d ago

Somehow the rest of the world is able to maintain restaurants and bars without panhandling for tips.

You must certainly be a bartender. What makes a bartender more entitled to tips than the minimum wage worker slaving away in the back making my burger, drink, and bagging everything? Isn’t that a service as well?

The minimum wage grocery worker that bagged your items doesn’t deserve a tip and has to rely on his hourly wage, but the bartender does?

What about the janitor who has to do the additional service of unplugging a shit filled toilet? Should we start leaving tips?

Do you see how asinine your perspective is?

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u/snacksandsoda 11d ago

I’m sorry that society works this way. It is dumb. But not tipping someone isn’t “taking a stand,” it’s being a stingy asshole to a human being.

That’s the way the system works. You’re on the wrong side of it, unfortunately. I’m not even saying you need to tip for every single service and every single thing. But an extra dollar goes a long way

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u/Tlix 11d ago

You’re a bartender. You rely on tips lol. I’m still not tipping you, pal. This is not about empathy. You’re mad at the wrong person. Ask your boss to pay you better.