r/popculturechat • u/Playful_Wonder_5205 • Oct 15 '25

Selena Gomez 💖 Selena Gomez Says She Has Difficulty 'Enjoying Things' for Fear Joy Will 'Go Away': 'I Got Married and Then I Was Sobbing'

https://people.com/selena-gomez-hard-enjoying-things-i-got-married-then-i-was-sobbing-11830434
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u/[deleted] Oct 15 '25

Post wedding blues is a really common thing to experience. So much build up and anticipation for so long! And then it's over so quickly!

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u/Burrito-tuesday Oct 15 '25

That’s not what she meant. She explained a very specifically feeling that if something good happens, something bad WILL happen next. She said that she felt like she was soooooooo happy on her wedding day, and was afraid she’d die the next.

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u/[deleted] Oct 15 '25 edited Oct 15 '25

That doesn't negate that post wedding blues are common and probably* played into that feeling for her.

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u/Burrito-tuesday Oct 15 '25

Where in the article does she imply that it’s partly due to the post wedding blues?????? It’s a short article, it shouldn’t be hard to miss.

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u/[deleted] Oct 15 '25

I just said it's a common thing to experience and her feelings about being really low after being joyful are also common after weddings.

Love how you know exactly what she meant by the very short article, but no one else can possibly relate lol

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u/Burrito-tuesday Oct 15 '25

I just don’t understand why you insist that it’s partly due to post wedding blues when she’s talking about the feeling of anxiety she feels when something good happens. She only mentions the wedding since it’s the most recent example she can point to.

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u/[deleted] Oct 15 '25

All I said was it was a common feeling to experience and you think I'm putting words in Selena's mouth lol

Selena, that u? /s

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u/Burrito-tuesday Oct 15 '25

Ok but you’re talking about something that has no relevance here? The point of her statement wasn’t the wedding, it’s mental health. The wedding was an example of her struggles.

A person has difficulty enjoying things, if they experience good, they expect bad. Simple.

It happened in the past and will likely happen in the future, regardless of the occasion in which it happens.

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u/[deleted] Oct 15 '25

Why are you arguing with me over this? Don't you have a better way of spending your time than being real pedantic about whether Selena Gomez is experiencing a come down from her wedding?

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u/Burrito-tuesday Oct 15 '25

It’s basic comprehension and I don’t have a thing to do today so I thought I’d help a girl out bc at some point in your life, someone’s going to want to talk to you about something deep and heartfelt.

I don’t know what’s up with you but your absolute refusal to see someone’s struggles is going to affect one of your loved ones, and all bc you won’t listen.

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u/keatonpotat0es I have to pick up 15,000 little bastard rubber ducks 🪿 Oct 16 '25

I spent the day after my wedding crying too, lol. What a ride.