To those who take the time the read this (even if ur not like the targeted audience XD), I hope you are met with easy gentle days and wonderful amazing adventures. If u r struggling, I hope all will come to pass as soon as possible and u r able to overcome and learn and grow c:
Oh boy, where to start this (I will write A LOT). So much has happened, and it just sucks to I guess finally accept that. My life will just keep going downhill. It already is doing that. I'm extremely tired and just, it's too much but, I do believe that in every point in our lives we deserve love, as long as we do our absolute best for ourselves and those we love. I will be extremely cautious but, I do love deeply. I fall hard. It will take time.
Well, first and foremost. I value communication and being friends first before jumping into anything with like more commitment, like taking it deeper (PAUSE) and going for more than friends. Please communicate me what ur intentions are and when. Flirting is I guess okay but uhmmm, idk. When it comes to me, I have to validate and feel in my heart, that these feelings ring true and are sound. That in the long run, it won't waver or falter, or at least it won't spiral into something that will collapse after an obstacle. I ask the same for you, whoever you are.
If anyone really XD I know, or at least it really feels like, asking for someone to at least like me and stay, is beyond what I deserve or anything. Like just the bare minimum. Though I know it should not be the case at all, and same goes for everyone else who genuinely tries their best in this silly messy chaotic world. In every point in our lives we deserve love, unconditional love
We just have to not stray so far that when it does reach us, even past the point of no return, we don't value our pride or comfortability or fear over that love. Even if it doesn't turn out that we be more, we can always be friends either way, close or not, or maybe even not at all. No regrets, we live and we learn. I appreciate and am thankful for every interaction and everyone's time. I learn and grow and see what it means to be human.
Anyway, about me (photos included, even if I'm not really attractive at all :c photos aren't my thing, but if its something to get a little closer to my dearly beloved, so be it, even if it's VERY out my comfort zone):
[ ] My love language is mainly spending time. A cute date, a fancy date, hanging out or just doing nothing together. I love to share stuff. Make stuff like letters and poems and art and craft for u and shop things that remind me of u or things u like. Physical touch, although I hate from everyone I don't know or allow (rarely). I know that, with the right one, to be so vulnerable to let you. You to let me. I think its healing. Hand holding. Doing the thumb thingy. Head scratches. Long hugs. I love through action and I like learning and remembering things about you. I want to be a little obsessed. I want the kind of love where its puppy love sometimes, then its the love where you both have each other's backs. Where you can count on each other. To match wavelengths. To merge souls and be one. To be weapon and meister and meister and weapon. I want a love where we perpetually push each other to do our best and grow beyond our limits. We can both be peak human performance, conquer nations, crumble the crust and mantle with just a syllable from our mouths hehe :3 Romantic. Silly. A bit obsessive. Cool. Old kind of love. Poetic kind of love. Loving your bestfriend. I can do a tarot reading for u also hehe c:
[ ] Currently have long curly-wavyish hair. Wears glasses. Am Hispanic/Latino so am brown lolol. I do have a tummy. Very stubborn, even if there is bone and muscle showing, I am not like physically attractive. I have weird posture that I'm constantly always trying to fix, to no avail, and yeah. 5'7 and yeah🥸
[ ] Hummmmm, I do speak English/Spanish (not too great but enough I guess) and very little like of indigenous dialect. My family just taught it to everyone else besides me :/
[ ] As for things I like. I love listening to music, my taste is everywhere best defined by I like what I like lolol. From Latin music, to game OST, to classical, dnb/breakcore/jungle, jazz/acid jazz, music from films, indie/bedroom pop/shoegaze to name many.
[ ] I love art. I try to draw when I feel up to it. I sometimes even become slightly decent when I do, and its usually only accompanied with music. Music inspires me a lot. I love art. I love critically analyzing pieces, while also enjoying art esthetically. I love learning.
[ ] I love to write and express myself. I try to write poems when I get in the mood. I like to world build, I have a couple OCs that are important to me.
[ ] I like to watch anime. Mainly Soul Eater, Berserk (I read the manga too), and uhhh I'm foegetting. Others I've watched are Nana (I like Nana but also WAAAAAAH) HxH, OPM, MP100, AOT, og Naruto and shippuden, the old NGE, I vaguely remember watching Madoka Magica, and a few others I forget.
[ ] Video games!! I love ULTRAKILL. I love KINGDOM HEARTS. I play fortnite too. Dipped my toes into Overwatch as I play with one of my friends :> I also have played Minecraft, Super Smash Bros Ult, Geometry Dash, Call Of Duty (BO 1,2 and 3 and zombies), roblox. I am starting to getting used to my voice a little. I'm open to call on discord, and do silly activities. I'm starting to like it and yeahyeah :> so hanging out on discord would be nice!
[ ] Also I'm employed full time lolz I'm sometimes a workaholic and I think maybe I'm overdoing it, and I'm starting to get into the habit of slowing down. But still, I don't think I'm able to or allowed. Life just, well, when it rains it pours so. I have to always plan accordingly. I cannot always get to you immediately, but I do try. Especially when you're someone I love, I will always try.
Well, I mean, thats about sums it up. But a mere fraction of the tip of the iceberg. Speaking of, I do have to disclose, I have MDD. It is chronic. It adapts. And I am doing way beyond my very best to combat it. Even when I'm literally not, because of how reduced and how much this body has been I guess, gone through. I'm hopeful because I have to. I cannot promise everything will be okay for me, life is not that kind but. Relatively, things could be okay. I carry so so much. My body is not mine, it does not feel like it. My brain processes much slower and stress physically manifests so much. I hold so much and at the same time there is this ever growing vast void that consumes and takes away what I already don't have. I am NOT going to submit and buckle and collapse from it. Not without a fight. It isn't mere overthinking, it is so much worse. It has been with me for years, looking back at it. Love, any of the good things that people usually have in their lives, esp in childhood. I just didn't. That was the norm. I just merely accepted it blindly without any further thinking. It just was. For years, its all I known life to be. Cold. Neglectful. Wicked. I just merely had to deal with it. That I deserved it. For a time, I paid it no mind. But, thats no way to live, as a result, I snapped out of it, but with no one truly at my side. I just became aware during the late half of high school. But its whatever. I have hope still. I'm still here because I wanted to hear my name called with unconditional love and wholesome warmth that would choose me. I will continue to keep going and learn and grow and live this life for me and for others. This love is infinite. Way more than that. I really want to lock eyes with someone and see another person, truly, and see a whole other world from their eyes.