r/r4r • • 5m ago

M4F Online 24 [m4f] #online looking for new friends

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Heyy people of Reddit!

I used to have an account here but I had to make a new one. I’m 24m from the United States and I love meeting new people from anywhere in the world. I’m big into gaming, nature, music, and working on trucks and cars. You’ll have to learn more about me when you message!

Id love to meet some new people from anywhere in the world, I don’t care about time zones or anything. Just as long as you are talkative and can hold a good conversation and you answer relatively quick, as I answer nearly instantly most times. I love learning about new cultures and countries. Also I’d love to meet some people that might be gaming buddies as well! Whether you have the same hobbies or completely different, don’t be afraid to reach out and message me!

If you made it this far, tell me what your favorite fruit is so I know you read this whole thing.


r/r4r • • 4h ago

F4A Online 29 [F4A] #USA #Online friends and maybe more

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I am here to hopefully find someone who I can spend quality time with online and hopefully form a meaningful friendship with. I really miss having someone in my life who we both look forward to talking and spending time together. Someone who comes across my mind throughout the day and gives me warm comfy feelings whenever I think about them. Something that is more than just surface level small talk. I value solid communication and stimulating conversations about various topics like hobbies, pop culture, documentaries, gaming, art, and whatever else we come up with.

About me: I’m 29 cis bisexual female. Born and raised in Florida and a current resident of the state. I do have a pretty strong preference for someone who is in the USA. One of my biggest hobbies is gaming. I’ve been gaming mostly on xbox and some laptop gaming on and off my entire life. A few games I enjoy are Overwatch, Minecraft, Warframe, Terraria, Grounded, Stardew Valley, Red Dead Redemption, Skyrim, Halo Master Chief Collection. I own several games plus have Xbox game pass and would love to explore more into the plethora of games they have available.

I am not huge into anime, however, I’ve watched and enjoyed a few like Solo Leveling, Dragon Ball Z, Apothecary Diaries, pretty much all of the Studio Ghibli movies. I’m definitely open to watching movies and shows together. When it comes to movies and shows I really enjoy fantasy, romance, action / adventure, and comedy. I’m not much into horror these days. Another hobby of mine is arts and crafts like coloring, painting, doodling, and digital art.

Appearance: 5’5, chubby (180 pounds give or take a couple pounds), dark brown long wavy hair, pale skin, big green eyes. I am totally open to sharing photos of myself, but it may take some time to become comfortable with doing so, since I’m not usually comfortable with sharing photos of myself shortly after meeting someone online. I much more value someone who I can connect with on an emotional and spiritual level.

If you’re interested then you’re welcome to send me a dm with a nice introduction


r/r4r • • 6h ago

M4F Online 18 [m4f] #online socially awkward weirdo looking for company!

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hello! if youve clicked on this, hopefully you’re looking for a strange english boy to keep you company! i’m currently a student, and i enjoy music, videogames and taking walks with my dog (please ask for pictures, i love him). some of my fav genres of music are metal (deathcore mostly and other subgenres), hip hop, indie, and a little bit of everything really! some of my fav videogames are the finals, arc raiders (i’d love a duo), fallout new vegas, minecraft and a variety of other games. i would describe myself as a very caring, empathetic and funny person. im kind of a loner as i struggle to meet new people and make new friends, but im very sociable when i get to know you and can speak for hours on end if we click. for you, just be yourself! as long as you’re kind and caring, id love to meet you. i have quite a lot of trauma, and struggle with anxiety and depression, which i have to mask quite a lot. i’ve also had a lot of therapy, so im open to talk about feelings (yours or mine). ask me what i study or what my favourite songs are!


r/r4r • • 6h ago

M4F Pennsylvania / Online 22 [M4F] Pennsylvania/Online, looking for something serious

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Hello!

A bit about me: I am white, 6 feet tall with dirty blonde hair, and green eyed with an average build. Finally graduated college (yayyyy!) I love sports (especially soccer). In my free time, I play video games, and enjoy spending time with my family and going on trips occasionally. I am really into watching horror stuff: shows, movies, YouTube. I am shy, but I can get more comfortable with you once I get to know you better.

What I'm looking for:

Hopefully a future partner (if we click), if not, a good friend at least. Someone that is honest, and takes good care of themselves. Someone that can text often and is over the age of 19. Someone from the US or Europe.

(Pictures of what I look like)

https://imgur.com/a/RYQcCrj

https://imgur.com/a/daG4jhb


r/r4r • • 8h ago

M4F California 39 [M4F] #Eastvale, California. Intentional dating with marriage, family, and a peaceful home in mind

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The best dynamic is one where neither person has to perform. When the day winds down, the right connection simply feels like exhaling.

I am posting with clear intention: I am looking for a partner with a warm heart, quiet depth, and grounded values to build a lasting marriage, a shared home, and a family together. Someone who brings laughter, curiosity, and warmth into a room, but appreciates having a steady, dependable man in her corner who handles the logistics, keeps life grounded, and makes sure she always feels completely looked after.

A proper introduction:

  • Background: 39, 5'10", fit, clean, and healthy.
  • Profession: Data scientist by day, balancing complex analytical work with an active, tactile routine outside the office.
  • Roots: Eldest sibling from a first-generation background. Deeply rooted in cultural heritage and family ties, while keeping a thoughtful, modern outlook on life and personal growth.
  • Daily Life: Happiest working with my hands in the garden, cooking wholesome meals from scratch, staying active, or heading out to the mountains and coastline to hike, camp, and reset in nature.

What I am building toward: I believe real romance lives in both intentional dates and simple domestic rhythms: cooking side-by-side, slow weekend mornings, quiet evenings winding down together, and building a committed future rooted in mutual respect, laughter, and children. With the fall season settling in and Diwali right around the corner, it is an ideal time of year for cozy evenings, shared celebrations, and starting something meaningful.

Logistics and communication: I am based in Eastvale (Inland Empire). Local to Southern California is ideal for easy momentum, though I am open to someone willing to relocate for the right match. Mutual attraction and real-world chemistry matter, so let us connect right here in Reddit chat/DMs, swap clear photos early to put faces to names, and transition to a relaxed phone call before planning an easy first meeting.

If this aligns with what you are looking to build, send a message sharing a bit about your background, what your ideal unplugged Sunday looks like, and what thoughtful gesture makes you feel truly valued.


r/r4r • • 9h ago

M4F Ohio / Online 24 [M4F] Almost a year and half out of college, looking to meet a girl who loves the gym as much as I do #Ohio #Online

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I’m an engineering grad who loves the gym, running, and fun bike rides or hiking trips with friends. (even tho I never thought I’d see the day where I actually enjoyed running, somehow we got here)

I’ve definitely been feeling a bit isolated recently. I work for a relatively small manufacturing company as a design engineer for water well accessories (seals, adapters, check valves, etc.. that you would use if your house ran on a well water system) I enjoy the ownership and design work a lot, the only issue is that it can be a bit isolating. I don’t really have many peers around my age so I mostly only catch up with friends on weekends.

Dating apps really haven’t been working too well for me lately, and have been draining my energy so I’m deciding to give this a shot instead lol

I’m looking for someone to talk to on weeknights or weekends when we feel lonely or don’t have plans. I don’t really have any expectations, just please be genuine :) (bots get annoying as hell)

I’ll do my best to respond as soon as I can but I definitely prefer platforms other than Reddit where I’m more active.


r/r4r • • 9h ago

M4F Texas 35 [M4F] #Houston, Texas. A small essay about my personality and interests, and what I'm looking for. Hope to hear from you.

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  • I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
  • I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone someday. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though.
  • PC games are also an enjoyable pastime for me on occasions. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game.
  • One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of.
  • Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more.
  • I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds.
  • As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am mostly shy and quiet, with an introverted personality. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and freer.
  • All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
  • With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me.

r/r4r • • 9h ago

M4F Louisiana 35 [M4F] Louisiana / US - Alt/nerd seeks a connection rooted in genuine love.

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I'm a quiet, private guy and I keep to myself until I get to know someone. I value upfront honesty and people who are comfortable being themselves. Most of my time goes into gaming, learning new crafts, reading, binging a series, or -doomscrolling-.

I'll take sporadic trips to nearby places I haven't eaten at yet when I don't feel like cooking and walk a few laps at a local park when I'm able.

I'm wired a bit differently and navigate the world with a neurodivergent mindset (ennui, choice paralysis, executivedysfunction), which means my attention and energy can fluctuate, but I'm always focused on my own growth and discipline. Just as well as my title implied I am a bit of an alt nerd with my style; a few piercings and tattoos and black nails. (Often mistaken for not presenting as straight and I find that funny.)

I'm looking for a serious, *strictly monogamous* relationship where we can just be completely transparent with each other.

A woman that is familiar with or at least willing to learn about *AuDHD*.

I'm *heavily* *introverted*, so an adoptive extrovert would be much appreciated.

The fuzzy dad-bod is here to stay.

I'm looking for someone who balances me out, and I often find myself most drawn to women from diverse cultural backgrounds. I really appreciate a partner who has a more assertive, protective, or nurturing presence that makes it easy for me to drop my walls and relax. I feel it should be effortless for someone to let themselves be vulnerable with someone else, I try to be as approachable myself. Witty banter, being more expressive and direct, attempts to relate or to be inclusive are easy brownie points for the taking! (Which, the closer you are the better.)

I feel like I gave enough to talk about though, so I look forward to hearing from you! ☺️


r/r4r • • 10h ago

F4A Pennsylvania 32 [f4r] #Philadelphia or #anywhere nerdy artsy type seeking friends and partners

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Hello!

I used to make these sometimes but I got burned out. Now i’m living in a new place and looking for new people to spend time with. Please be my age or older. I will not reply to anyone whose age begins with a 2.

I like video games, writing, learning (currently planning out a second graduate degree), exercise, and art. Fitness is important to me, but so is having fun. I’m introverted but I love fancy events and being amongst people and then also leaving early without warning. I make excellent vegetarian food and love finding new bars and restaurants. I’m politically far left and have no interest in engaging with conservatives, sorry!

Looking for a partner ultimately, but also friends and activity partners. For partners, i prefer tall, usually queer, usually with glasses, nerdy types of any race or gender. I’m “alternative” by many people’s standards but you don’t have to be.

Please feel free to DM with questions and make it clear that they are not work related Qs so they make it through my mental filter. Thanks!


r/r4r • • 10h ago

M4F California 28 [M4F] California/Madera – Nerdy Guy Hoping to Meet a Neurodivergent Girl

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Sooo I got a late start in life and I'm restarting my life now in 2026. I'm actually undiagnosed myself, but honestly, I do suspect I might be somewhere on the spectrum. My introverted self, along with some head injuries I've had over the years, has made me realize that I tend to connect and communicate better with neurodivergent people the last handful of years and don't really seem to fit in with the modern dating norm. I also grew up with a few neurodivergent friends, so that kind of connection has always felt pretty natural to me.

but I've noticed a lot of similarities in the way I think, communicate, and connect with people. Because of that, I'm particularly hoping to meet a neurodivergent girl who I can genuinely connect with and hopefully build a long-term relationship with.

I'm a PC gamer (COD, Fortnite, GTA, SW Battlefront, to name a few). I like most types of movies, but Superhero, Star Wars, LOTR, and action movies are definitely my thing. I like to bake (especially baked goods 😅), photography & videography, cars, and country & phonk music. I'm also a night owl. Also somehow have 7 cats this year.

I'm generally a tad shy and quiet until I warm up to you, but I'm a really good listener. I'm a huge history buff and collect items from the World Wars. I work with and drive racecars, and I've been doing freelance photography and race mechanic work as well.

My intention is a long-term relationship. I'm hoping to meet someone in California, preferably somewhere in the Central Valley. I don't have a reliable truck at the moment, so long-distance dating just isn't very practical for me right now.

I'm also looking to date someone who doesn't currently have kids.

I'm Caucasian, 6'1", average build, green eyes, medium-length beard, and rosy cheeks.

Feel free to hit me up in chat! Please introduce yourself and tell me a little about yourself, and let's see where things go. 🙂