Quick disclaimer: I tried posting in another subreddit recently, hoping to find someone to talk to and maybe grab food with. Kaso mas marami pang nang-asar kung sinong artista raw ang kamukha ko kaysa sa interested sumama kumain. 😭😹 So here I am, trying my luck again. HAHAHA.

I think ordinary days become a little more interesting when you have someone to share them with. Random updates, coffee dates, food trips, or conversations na hindi mo namalayang inabot na pala ng madaling araw. 😅

I'm 34, 174cm, dark-skinned, medium build with a normal BMI. A licensed engineer with a small business on the side. Based in Bacoor, but regularly around NCR for family and business. Preferably someone from the South or around South Caloocan para mas madaling magkita, though distance isn't necessarily a dealbreaker.

I'm physically active, usually commute by motorcycle, and a little reserved at first pero madaldal once comfortable. Into anime, Marvel, movies, gaming, Japanese food, and coffee. I also collect small Marvel figures and Philippine commemorative coins. May black cat din kami na umuuwi lang yata para kumain. 😭😂

Hoping to meet someone around 25–29, preferably shorter than me, petite to average build, sweet, and easy to talk to. Someone who communicates well, has a playful side, and is game for occasional spontaneous plans.

I'm looking for a genuine connection that could eventually turn into something serious if we click. No pressure to rush things. We can swap pictures early if you're comfortable, then maybe meet over coffee or food to see if the vibe translates in person.

Tell me something about yourself, or recommend a good coffee spot we could try. 😊

Reposting since i didn't find anyone to match with at first maybe second time is the charm?

About me:

5 ft 10 inches, 65kg, tall skinny, Metro manila area, Loves video games, board games, anime, listening to music(fave: My Chemical Romance, Linkin Park, President, Westlife, Air Supply, and some others) , i also like playing drums, spontaneous or planned irl hangouts, being incall with someone even if we are not talking and just feeling the presence of each other. I work as an EMT to a private ambulance company, i am pretty selfless and just want to help anyone who is in need, i also have a selfish side that if we dated i only want you for me, that I'd give the world to you type of beat LMAO. I can't say that i am good looking that is up to you if you think that way. I am also straightforward and honest like i really am not fond of lying unless i need to. Introverted, ISJF-T if that matters to you. I will listen to your yaps, and will yap myself if i became comfortable with you. I'm also the type to no matter the ups and down i will do my best to make it work. The rest probably we can just talk about if you made it this far.

About you:

•Single ofc

•Not taller than me

•Also skinny

•Cute (idk i just feel like putting you in my pocket type of cute)

•Also into video games (this is a required, we can duo queue or chill in a sandbox game while we talk about anything or mess around)

•Preferably around Metro Manila

•Also straightforward and honest

•Yapper (i just like to listen to you)

I might be asking too much, but i will still try.

DM me if you are interested, introduce yourself maybe not just a hi or hello, we can swap pics if you are comfortable, and if you are up for it we can hangout in discord or get food or coffee irl.

About me:

- petite, maputi, baby-faced (I look 12-18 years old)

- fit, goes to the gym

- smol (below 5'0)

- soft girl, described as demure, prim & proper

- loves literature & writing

- loves researching about a wide breadth of topics

- quite eloquent as people would say

- my work has something to do w finance & business but not directly in that industry

- introverted & tahimik. infp

- lives solo in qc

- a tender & deep soul, loves meaningful things & experiences

- romantic

- believes in marriage

- wants a child but only one (due to fear of childbirth)

- highly sensitive person who is easily overstimulated by noises, crowds, & pain; also w a capacity to feel emotions more deeply

- low-key selosa (be warned) but I'm v v faithful

- fiercely independent & loves her solitude

- political inclination: voted pink in the last elections but not that much of a fervid fan; I do dislike Marcos & Duterte

About you:

- a few yrs older than me

- single hopefully for quite some time (like me)

- decent & clean looking (glasses are a +++)

- financially stable and a provider

- can host

- can drive

- with a reputable career

- hopefully you have a fit lifestyle too but not the kind of gym rat who makes it his personality

- someone who can speak English comfortably sorry English is my 1st language :c ✌🏻

- nerd like me, with the same love for learning & knowledge; nerdy/geeky interests

- believes in marriage

- not a DDS/maka Marcos

- not misogynistic

- faithful and no inclination to cheat

- someone whose ig following list is not filled w girls who don't follow him back (I will reject u even if u tick all my other boxes)

- a good person

- can handle someone who is fiercely independent (me)

- someone who can match my romantic & soulful energy; someone who can make a highly sensitive soft girl like me safe.

YOOHOO DITO ANG TINGIN!! Hope the photo caught ur attention (yep, all me) (will be deleting this after a few hours :p) (will not be replying to hi hey dms)

neways, I'm looking for someone who:

- Will unhesitatingly break into goofy dance moves with me, even on a empty dance floor or like harutan habang umuulan na parang nasa romcom movie tayo chz

- can ubos my left over food just bcoz i think ive already hit my calorie limit for the day (kunwari naka-cal def)

- can keep up w my brainrot/kanal/aircon/jeje humor and my semi-chronically online self

- Is fit enough to jump into whatever random activity I feel like trying

- Respects my independence, my need for solo time, and my sacred 8 hours of sleep

- is open to trying new things! plsss wag kj, i dislike dry personalities wahaha

- is stable in all aspects. I'm not here to fix you omg i am not ur therapist/sugar mom

- has ambitions in life / is employed

- has no vices! no cigs, no vape. hindi nagsusugal ng money. sorry pero no big sleeve tatts din baka di matanggap ng familee q

- is progressive and funny and hindi dry texter ok lang kung matagal magreply kasi same

- doesn't have anger issues! vv important sa akin yung hindi nagddwell sa negativity.

Here's what I bring to the table:

- A big dose of whimsy, sass, and a little extra sparkle in your life :p

- Can yap endlessly or enjoy comfortable silence (depends if im overstimulated or nawt)

- g for whateverrrrr (if time and budget permits wahaha)

- im clingy and malambing (in a good and non-toxic way)

- I love cats!! SEND ME CAT PICS

- infj-t, pisces aka super empath and iyakin uwu

- little to no insecurities :)) i know my worth so its both a pro and con to you kasi hindi mo ako mabobola agad HAHAHA I wouldn't stay in a relationship where I don't feel valued and loved ++ i do not just settle :)

- either sleeping, working, or sidequesting. no time for bs!

- not demanding hehe we have our own lives to live

- random interests: f1 (di na active fan tho bc danny ric </3), valo (medj hardstuck silver HAHAHA bano), GoT (fave series as someone w the attention span of a goldfish), Niki (watch me cry to her saddest songs kahit di ako relate lol)

- NO PLANS ON HAVING CHILDREN NOW OR IN 5 YEARS OR IN THE NEAR FUTURE

P.S. i love asking questions (hypothetical or not) so i prefer someone who LOVES answering them and also does the same to me. I like my man naturally curious HAHAHA

PPS no physical preference (except sa fit enough for activites) basta siguro taller than me sana (PLS NAMAN IM JUST 5'1, so siguro kahit mga 5'5ish) tapos age pref ayoko ng mas bata,, hindi tayo magbababysit for todays videyow na para bang apple david yan sha so maybe kahit mga 25-30 ish para walang humor gap jusko nagdate ako ng 35 di na niya magets ang tiktok references ko kakastress

kung di ka confident sa sarili mo, wag na magpapansin kasi picky ako/mataas standards ko and my life doesn't revolve around men so i will drop u agad if may red flag ka HAHAHAHA

Honestly, I don't even know what I'm looking for here hahaha. Maybe a kausap, new friends, or someone to do random things with. Let's see where it goes.

About me: 5'6", corporate girlie from Metro East. Into pickleball, gym, fun activities under the sun, and cafe hopping. Attracted to tall, moreno guys. Just putting that out there haha

About you: Around my age, can hold meaningful and deep conversations, and has a sense of humor. Bonus if you're into pickleball, working out, or exploring cafes.

Could be a friend, activity buddy, or something more if we vibe. No pressure. G, what's your next side quest? 😂

21 [M4F] looking something a serious yet fun relationship

Just looking for a serious relationship. Just so you know I did not graduate but I am actively doing my best to achieve more than what I am right now.

About me:

Currently located in North Caloocan

You'll see my loud ass side when im with someone that i am comfortable with

I tend to smile at any situations, life is already hard as it is we had to laugh and smile more to live a little

height is 5'3 - 5'4 idk paiba iba pagkakabasa sa medical ko eh

some say i can look good some say I don't? I don't really know what's true depende ata sa gigil ng tao saken

Again, currently not in college, currently in a BPO company but trying to learn software development by myself.

ABSOLUTELY CANNOT SING TONE DEAF AF

I care about loyalty more than anything so the only thing i want from is loyalty, good communication, and support 🫩

About you:

Don't really have a type basta i can vibe w you then sure lets try it out

Hi, Reddit! 🥹🤍

Just a 30F looking to meet new people and hopefully make genuine friends around my age or a little older (mid 30s). Life gets busy as we get older, and sometimes it would be nice to have new people to talk to and share little moments with.

I'm looking for wholesome, purely platonic friendships. Someone I can talk to about random things, share how our day went, exchange memes, have deep conversations with, or send random thoughts to whenever something crosses our mind.

No pressure to constantly reply or be available 24/7. I think the best friendships are the ones where you can be yourself, feel comfortable, and pick up where you left off even after a busy day.

A little request: Please put some effort into your first message. 😊 I won't entertain messages that are just "hi" or "hello." Tell me a little about yourself, share a random fun fact, or tell me how your day went. Give me something to work with! I'd love to get to know you, but conversations take effort from both sides. 🤍

Strictly platonic, please. Just good conversations, genuine intentions, and hopefully a friendship that lasts. 🌱

If this sounds like your kind of friendship, my inbox is open. ✨

And please since this is a PH based sub I expect to talk to fellow Filipinos not foreigners, since yesterday I've talked to people based in India and Pakistan hehe. Don't get me wrong I just want to have friends that I can easily meet up with when we got to vibe together.

So my recent attendance at a destination wedding has provided me with a rather welcome break from all the banalities of life. And the longer I stayed away from my inbox, office politics and daily WIP meetings the more I realised just how badly I needed one.

I couldn’t quite pinpoint which bit gave me the sudden epiphany. Perhaps it was the beautiful panoramic views of Uluwatu? The gorgeous Balinese sunset? The sweltering humidity that gave us all mild heat stroke? Or the friendly neighbourhood monkey gang who attempted to hold my phone hostage? I guess it doesn’t really matter. But while the other guests & I were perched on our little white timber seats listening to the exchange of vows and ‘I do’s’ I couldn’t help but contemplate my own very single status.

So while I’m sitting here at the airport I have made the decision to corral my mess of thoughts into something coherent with the hope that, in the process, I might find someone to share the next adventure with or at the very least attend the next destination wedding with.

Ah, and of course a couple housekeeping items (disclaimers, caveats):
• Currently not in Manila/PH. Although I do reside there. A recent situation regarding my father’s health has complicated matters. Inquire within. Basically, I won’t be in the ph in an immediate sense.
• Yes I’m Pinoy. Born sa pinas pero grew up sa Aus
• Yes I can speak & understand Tagalog
• Yes the Australian accent makes my Tagalog sound funny but currently taking weekly lessons to improve
• Very single, no babies, no fur babies (yet)

For those of you who have read the above and have decided that I’m not a total write-off then…

*reveals red pill/blue pill Morpheus style*

Buckle your seatbelt Dorothy. Ye be warned.

About me:
• Human. Male variety. Fun, adventurous, easy going with an optimistic outlook on life. Affectionate, attentive & a bit of a hopeless romantic when it comes to relationships. I’ve had my share of heartbreak just like everyone else.
• 33 solar orbits
• 5’7” or 170cm
• B.Des (Hons) + M.Arch
• Gainfully employed by an Architecture firm. Mixed-use, Multires & Commercial projects. Previous exp in Project Mgmt and a Property Dev Analyst.
• Finance geek. I spend a lot of time keeping up with finance markets, geopolitics & investment. I care deeply about my financial security and how I am going to be able to support my future family. I’d happily discuss the entire history of money up to this point if that’s your trip.
• I have a penchant for mid-century modern style architecture. Clean lines. No ornamentation. Real materials. The number of times I see fluted timber panels slapped onto a wall and called ‘architecture’ or ‘interior design’ is just HERESY.
• Fitness junkie. I hate to make this one a personality trait but fitness is my relaxation and my mental health plan. Currently strength train 4-5x a week. Running 4x a week. Have 2x marathons next year + contemplating to join an Ironman with my best friend
• I love to hike and be out in nature. 60+ hikes and counting. Every year instead of drinking I organise a birthday hike and ‘convince’ all my friends to tag along (convince means a lot of petty name calling & press gang style arm twisting)
• I’m a pretty big nerd. Especially about history in general. Chess is cool. Definitely would try to give you a run for your money (challenge me at your own peril!)
• I am harbouring a slight caffeine addiction like most graduates of architecture. I’m into cold brew/iced americanos or decent pour overs. Sweet coffee is a guilty pleasure. I do OMAD so for those of you in the know the black coffee gets me through my workouts until I can eat.
• Я говорю по-русский/I speak Russian. I had the urge to travel to Eastern Europe/Central Asia (Ukraine, Belarus, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan) but in hindsight the idea didn’t age too well after COVID/RS-UA. I have done extensive travel around SEA & Aus. I’d love to see EU and can’t ever say no to Japan.
• And because I know this probably matters to some people… I look Chinito, short haircut with faded sides, beard that is maintained to thick, short stubble and lined up by my barber year round. Not particularly tan, quite lean as I workout frequently and (mostly) eat well, a toned, broad chest, arms and shoulders blah blah blah. I fill out a shirt and if you ever manage to get it off me then I don’t think you will have any complaints haha!
• I have simple and minimalist taste in style. I have a strong distaste regarding the wearing of designer brands for the sake of brands.
• I own more fragrance than any reasonable person should… for dates it’s Creed Aventus, at the office it’s Dior Sauvage, at the gym it’s Ralph Lauren Blue and my everyday is Bleu De Chanel. No tattoos or piercings. TLDR I’m clean cut.
• Social drinker (never been drunk, never smoked cigarettes or tried other illicit substances). Although I don’t mind indulging in the occasional shisha or cigar for special occasions. Partial to a well made Mojito or an Old Fashioned.
• Random skills: I took a 13 week remedial massage therapy course as part of an anniversary present for my ex but we broke up before I got to give her my present. But this means I can give you some damn good massages.
• Last but not least despite all of the above I’m fond of life’s quiet moments. A lazy Sunday morning with good coffee, a slow walk & great conversation is one of life’s greatest pleasures.

I should probably leave a bit of myself to the imagination but the whole point of writing this much was to catch your attention. So what’s next? Onward my intrepid reader!

I won’t list many specific requirements here but above all I’m looking for someone who I have a physical, emotional and mental attraction to. Someone who I can share a genuine connection with. Someone authentic and sincere with whom I can share one of those “profound, mystical understanding” vibes. If you think that’s you then please don’t hesitate to message me.

If you’ve gotten this far then firstly… thankyou. I greatly appreciate your time to consider me and my post. And secondly, there’s no need to respond with anything terribly long but please do tell me two random facts about you so that I know you’ve read this :)

EDIT: …what in the world? GUYS WHAT IS HAPPENING? I head out for dinner with some friends and come back to this post blowing up! Please give me some time to work my way through the messages.

Hellooooo anyone interested mag roadtrip and maghanap ng new places na kakainan? Willing to pick you up naman tonight😬

About me:

- 27

- Male

- Rizal

-Working Professional

- 5’7”

- Dayshift work

- Can drive

- Willing kang samahan mag explore

About you:

— 25+ (same range age or older)

- Female

- Near East (Rizal) or within Metro Manila

- Working

- Maraming pinagdadaanan sa buhay para marami tayong pag uusapan haha

You can send me a message if you’re interested please send an intro. See you in my dms😄

This isn’t for someone looking for a side quest or just because you are bored. =))

If this post doesn’t work, tatambay na lang ako sa Makati/BGC and give out love notes. LOL

ABOUT ME:

32F / Normal BMI /Metro Manila

1. Medyo sheltered growing up. I feel like I’ve only been an adult for 6 years.

2. Independent. Ambivert.

3. I am my own person

4. I'm fascinated by vintage jewelry, heirlooms, and gemstones.

5. If I had the time, I would love to study gemology.

6. I read documents for a living.

7. My professional persona can be intimidating, pero sabi nga ng friends ko, outside this persona, I’m soft-girl coded.

8. I can hold a conversation well.

9. Back in high school/college, ako ang taga-paalam sa mga parents ng classmates/friends ko kapag may overnight. I have yet to meet a parent who doesn’t like me. Lol. (Buhat bangko, buhat sala set.)

10. I love anime from the 90s - 2000s. Wala akong napanood na recent na anime except Frieren.

11. I’m a good listener. I remember the little details about someone I’m interested in.

12. I’m a curious person. I may ask uncomfortable questions.

13. I’m virtuously honest. I value informed decision-making, so you can expect factual premises to be laid out for you.

14. Compromise over one-sided sacrifice.

15. Free will over fate.

16. I don’t have any relationship/situationship hang-ups.

17. Coffee order: Either a hot oat milk cappuccino or an iced oat milk latte. No sugar.

18. I’m part of the 10% who can’t sing. Please, mapapahiya tayo sa relatives mo kapag pinakanta mo ako.

19. Hindi ako magaling tumawid sa kalsada - if that’s even a thing. Makakatawid naman ako, matagal nga lang.

20. I don’t know when to use ng/nang. I just use “ng” all the way.

21. I don’t know how to swim or drive. Kaunti lang ang alam kong life skills. I know, I’m sorry. I probably wouldn’t survive an apocalypse.

22. I don’t eat vegetables. Although nag-improve na ‘ko, I now eat more or less 10 veggies.

23. I’m not good at household chores. Pero alam ko naman ang basics, and I can clean up after myself, pero need natin ng helper, okay?

24. I don’t have a good sense of direction.

25. 7.5/10 maarte ako. Haha

26. I don’t always have the social battery to meet a lot of people.

27. I can be touchy when talking about things that interest/excite me.

28. Understanding you is my love language, but there’s a caveat here. (You’ll know when you slide into my DMs.)

ABOUT YOU:

1. You are 32-39 years old, male, and have a normal BMI.

2. Confidence is attractive, but I can’t deny that I’m a sucker for pretty eyes. =))

3. You are single, no kids, and are at least 5’8” tall. =))

4. You have better life skills than I do. Lol

5. You live within Metro Manila, preferably in QC, Pasig, Taguig, Makati, Marikina, or Cainta. I don’t want an LDR.

6. You can carry a conversation. You’re intellectual and have a sense of humor.

7. You walk the talk.

8. You have a good heart. You’re reasonable, but not a pushover.

9. You know how to use your words. Don’t ice me out when you’re upset. Talk to me. Don’t make me feel like I have to walk on eggshells around you.

10. You are consistent and understand that there’s no need to rush into a relationship. But you’re also looking for a serious, genuine connection that could eventually (when things go well) lead to me taking your last name.

11. Taking your last name entails marriage – and you, the husband, will also be the father of our twins. (Yes, twins.) Ergo, you must want kids, too.

12. You have a career, a sense of identity, and a vision for a life you can afford to build.

13. You are healthy. You know how to take care of your well-being. If we are only meeting now, then, considering human life expectancy, the next 30 years together will feel relatively short. Ang tagal ko ng naghihintay, so please be healthy. I want us to have years ahead where we can walk 20k+ steps in Japan without our knees giving up on us. 😊

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Thank you for reading up to this point.

If you’re willing and want this, too, send me an introduction about yourself, with effort naman! Haha. Tell me what piqued your interest and which of the things I mentioned you would want me to elaborate on.

The convo will remain on this platform, so I hope you can be patient regarding this.

I know that a person’s value goes beyond a checklist of qualities, but I hope that this covers the basics of our compatibility and narrows down the things that are important to both of us. I’m probably not going to reply to low-effort messages. :/

There, this is a long shot! Hahaha

But I’m also excited to find the person whose name I can one day write on every legal document as my husband.

Hello! 🙈

I’m someone who values genuine connections and believes the best dates are the simple ones — coffee or drinks that turns into hours of conversation, a walk that feels like an adventure, or just sharing quiet moments together. If that sounds like you, let’s see where this goes.

About me:
29, 155cm, normal fit, confident with looks, working in corporate, into running/jog, tried playing pickleball na din as well, enjoys coffee and cocktails

About You:
Fit, tall, near my age at-least, confident in looks, within Rizal or nearby, working professional, extrovert/kaladkarin haha

If this feels like a good fit, share a short intro about yourself. From there, we can see how things unfold and hopefully enjoy the journey of getting to know each other better. Pls be nice 💛

Hi, Reddit! Thought I’d put myself out here and see where this goes. Haha.

I’m interested in meeting new people, having meaningful conversations, and exploring connections without necessarily having any expectations. I do believe in dating intentionally, but I also think genuine connections take time to develop, and I’d rather let things unfold naturally.

A little about me:

- 22, introvert, but I can be pretty talkative once I’m comfortable with someone!
- Libra ♎ (if that matters, haha).
- I work in Marketing.
- I have a sweet spot for middle eastern food
- Mom to two cats, the loves of my life
- I started working out 3-4 times a week. Trying to maintain an active lifestyle since I wfh. Hopefully you’re into gym so we can share updates to each other ;)

Currently at a stage in life where I want to travel more, explore new places, experience different cultures, and just make the most out of my 20s.

What I’m looking for:

I’m open to getting to know someone through good conversations and seeing whether there’s a genuine connection worth exploring.

While I date intentionally, I’m not necessarily looking to jump into a relationship right away. I value taking the time to understand someone beyond surface-level conversations, learning about their perspectives, interests, values, and what they want out of life.

I don’t have any particular expectations coming into this. If we get along, great! If something meaningful develops over time, I’d be open to exploring that too. I just believe that things are better when they happen naturally rather than being forced.

I’d appreciate someone who’s emotionally mature, communicates well, has a good sense of humor, and has their own interests and ambitions (bec I am a very ambitious and career-driven woman, so I would like to date a guy who can match that). Someone who’s comfortable having meaningful conversations but can also enjoy the little, sometimes silly things in life.

I’m also hoping to meet people who enjoy exploring, whether that’s trying new restaurants, traveling, going on spontaneous trips, or simply discovering new experiences. It would be nice to eventually have someone to share those moments with.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to introduce yourself! I’d love to hear a little about who you are, what you’re passionate about, and what you’re currently looking forward to in life.

No rush, no pressure. Just getting to know each other and seeing what comes naturally. :)

P.S. Sorry for the long read! Just wanted to put myself out there properly and give you a better idea of who I am and what I'm looking for. Haha. :)

hello! i posted here before but never really got around to meeting anyone because something monumental happened in my life, and i had to take a step back from social media then and go out of the country for a while. but i’m back again, putting myself out here haha. :)

would anyone be down to watch movies and do cute little dates with me? i have my sundays free for cinema trips, preferably in the [late] afternoon or the last show. i reside in pampanga, so i prefer smt or smp directors club for convenience.

a little about me: ♡

-28f
-working in the legal field (a busy corporate bee but very malambing once comfortable)
-from big 3
-5’6 tall and midsized; not skinny, more on the thicc/curvy side
-medium light skin tone (tanned myself to death during long runs)
-my hair is long and i (unfortunately 🥲) wear nerdy glasses :(
-into the gym, running, and swimming
-i own a car, so you won’t necessarily have to worry about picking me up or dropping me off (although it’s always appreciated 🫶🏻)
-bakes bread and pastries for the people that i love (be prepared to be included here if we vibe) 💗
-has a soft spot for flowers and cute little gestures (madali akong kiligin sa ganito idk why)
-matakaw lol
-open to ldr but pls be originally from ph

about you: ♡

-around my age or older
-respectful and knows how to carry a conversation
-intelligent, kind, and financially stable as well
-someone i can lean on especially on days i feel vulnerable

honestly, i don’t have a specific type or a mile-long list of requirements. i’m much more interested in who you are as a person than whether you fit some particular mold. that said, i do appreciate someone who has a life of his own: hobbies, interests, passions, or stories he could talk about. i rarely meet people online, so if i’m going to spend an afternoon getting to know a stranger, i’d love for it to be someone who can make the experience feel worthwhile. after all, i’m just here to feel a little less alone in life.

if you’re interested, send me an intro about yourself. thank you!

DISCLAIMER: Not living around NCR but i frequently travel to the metro. Planning to take my masters in UP-M in the near future. Currently living in Dumaguete but born and raised in Cebu.

Now that you’ve read the disclaimer and still interested, well hello! I’ve been single for quite some time now and have only been dating around the past few years. It’s been fun and it taught me a lot about myself, what i want, what i don’t tolerate. And now, i just want to spend my days with someone and be each other’s safe space. We can get to know one another first, try to see if our values and principles align, or if a short term LDR works for you.

A bit about me:

- I stand 5’5”, mestiza, currently weigh 63-65kg and actively want to hit my target of 55kg, can speak and understand Tagalog (if it matters) but comfortable speaking in English, i clean myself up nicely and dresses well din.

- I play tennis, i do walking/running almost every day, occasional pilates, hiking, a bit of freediving, i read books and collect them, a mom to 1 cat (but i love all animals), i looooooove movies. A big LOTR, HP, The Hobbit, GOT, Dune, Dan Brown nerd. Can i just brag that i was able to secure a complete GOT set for only 2,000 php. In VERY GOOD condition also!!! 🙂‍↕️

- I work in healthcare but have experiences in different areas outside of my profession. I used to volunteer a lot back in college as well.

What i’m looking for in a man:

- I hope you’re taller than me, aging from 25-35 year olds, local. Someone who takes care of themselves and cleans up nicely.

- I hope you’re great at conversations bc i am din. Someone who can keep up with different topics and can share their own ideas. Who knows how to have fun and when to be serious, who is kind, empathetic, smart, considerate, thoughtful, COMMUNICATIVE, and respectful.

- I hope you get along with your family well, have a relationship with your parents/ siblings, a healthy way of managing your emotions.

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Send me a message, perhaps? Would appreciate something with more context other than the usual hi/hellos 😂

About me

35, 5’2”, 50kg. INTJ. Divorced. I’m a shy romantic at heart, but practical and sarcastic too. I laugh a lot when I’m tipsy, and I cry easily at dog-rescue videos.

I have a background in bookkeeping and finance, and I’d love to build a life with someone that’s both financially secure and rich in experiences.

I’ve lived in three countries outside the Philippines. I’m happiest when I have somewhere new to explore and can slowly get to know a place like a local. I love museums, bookstores, tucked-away cafés, good coffee, and pastries. Most recently, I fell in love with Mexico City.

I speak English, Filipino, Mandarin, and German, and I’m currently learning Spanish. :) I enjoy being a lifelong learner and appreciate people who are curious about the world beyond their immediate surroundings.

I also have a pug named Butter, so I hope you’re into dogs.

About you

Ideally, you’re 30–46, at least 5’8”, fit, and a non-smoker.

I’m drawn to intelligence, emotional maturity, excellent communication skills, financial stability, and a good sense of humour. I appreciate a man who’s grounded and competent. Someone who’s kind without making a performance of it, and who can be both serious and silly.

I’d love someone I can grow alongside, learn from, and share new experiences with. Someone who can discuss history or other interesting topics, then spend the next ten minutes laughing about something completely ridiculous. Ideally, you’ve lived abroad too and enjoy travelling.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a friend I’m attracted to, genuinely enjoy spending time with, and can build a stable life together.

Looking forward to meeting you stranger on the internet. :)

PS. Long post ahead 🙈 (my 2nd & last post na siguro haha) with photo kasi nakakapagod mag-pic reveal 😭

Posting again because I genuinely want to meet someone who’s also looking for a meaningful, long-term connection. I started putting myself out there again just last month, and so far, most of the guys I’ve talked to seem to be looking for something casual. Nothing wrong with that, but it’s just not for me.

I’m a little old-fashioned when it comes to dating. I prefer getting to know someone genuinely, building a connection, and letting things develop naturally. So please, can we get to know each other first before jumping into intimate conversations? 🥲

A little background about me:

I’m a single parent to one wonderful kid. Just putting that out there because I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, and that’s completely okay! No unresolved relationship baggage. My ex and I haven’t been in contact for years, and we were never married. Also, just to be clear, I’m not looking for someone to financially provide for me or my son. I’ve been independent for years. I have a corporate job, a small business, and I’m doing fine on my own.

Honestly, I just miss having someone to talk to, share random things with, go on dates with, and exchange a little lambing. HAHAHA. That’s why I decided to give dating another try. 🥹

About me:

- 31, 5’2”, 64 kg
- Pretty naman daw, sabi ng mga nakausap ko. HAHAHA. You be the judge! 😂
- Traditional when it comes to dating. I prefer building an emotional connection before anything physical.
- Been single and haven’t been intimate with anyone for six years.
- Independent, but I still appreciate being cared for and reassured.
- I know my worth and have learned when to walk away from situations that don’t feel right.
- Very family-oriented! I love treating my family to vacations and creating memories with them. ❤️
- Working from home and admittedly a bit of a workaholic. Hehe.
- Looking for something peaceful, genuine, and hopefully lasting.
- Perks of dating me: I’m naturally affectionate, thoughtful, and generous with the people I love. I’m the type who remembers little details, plans surprises, and loves making my person feel special. I love creating memories, whether it’s traveling together, trying new restaurants, or simply spending quality time.

About you:

- Single. Non-negotiable. I’m okay with single dads, but I prefer someone without unresolved issues involving an ex or ongoing co-parenting arrangements.
- Looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. Not situationships, or anything casual.
- A working professional who’s financially responsible. Please, ayoko maging sugar mommy. 🥲
- Family-oriented and has good values.
- Preferably older and taller than me.
- Genuinely interested in getting to know me. Please ask questions too! Ako lang palagi interviewer e 😭
- Respectful of boundaries. Hindi yung first call pa lang, s** na agad ang topic. 🙈
- No history of cheating.
- Not a DDS/BBM supporter. Political values matter to me.
- Has an active social media presence. I know this isn’t everyone’s preference, but transparency matters to me, especially when getting to know someone online.
- Understanding of my responsibilities as a working mom. Sometimes I get really busy, but that doesn’t mean I’m not interested.

If you’re interested:

Please send a short introduction about yourself, and let’s exchange photos! 😊 Physical attraction matters to me. It’s definitely not the most important factor, but I believe it plays a part in building a romantic connection. I value both your time and mine, so I’d rather we find out early on if we’re each other’s type. If not, no hard feelings! We can both move on without wasting each other’s time.

P.S. Sorry rin sa ilang hindi ko na nareplyan. 😅 Sometimes the conversation just wasn’t going anywhere, or I noticed certain things that didn’t align with what I’m looking for. Most of the time, I do try to communicate properly before ending things. I’ve worked really hard to build the peace I have now, and I’ve learned to recognize when something isn’t right for me. I’m no longer interested in forcing connections just for the sake of having someone. I just want someone genuine, emotionally mature, consistent, and willing to put in the same effort.

Please be kind. We’re all just trying to find our person. 🥹❤️

Haven't been feeling good this week. Living alone is also making me feel a bit lonely. I'd love to have some company today! Maybe we can chat, call, overshare, or even watch a movie/show online!

A little about me: I’m 28, and very capable of turning a “quick call” into a 3-hour conversation. I’m into books, movies, food, cooking, random internet rabbit holes, and hearing unnecessarily detailed stories about people I’ve never met.

Who I’m looking for: Someone who’s a yapper and a listener. You speak well, have a nice voice and decent audio, and actually enjoy having conversations, not just exchanging “wyd”s. Someone who can jump from everyday life to random thoughts, stupid stories, or completely unnecessary tea without forcing it. Also around my age!

Please give me an intro if you're interested!

hello!! looking for girlies around circuit makati who are down for night walks 🏃🏻‍♀️💗

i have an office job & spend most of my day sitting, so i really wanna start moving more and hopefully lose some weight huhu. figured it’d be more fun to have someone to walk with while we chika about literally anything & everything HAHAHAHA

i’m 25F, so preferably someone around my age who i can relate to when it comes to life rants, work struggles, random thoughts, and all the other things we girlies yap about 😭 bonus if you’re already walking around circuit and just want some company!!

for context, i usually get home from work around 6 PM and start walking at around 7 PM. my goal is to hit 10k steps daily, but honestly, having someone to yap with might make the walks feel less like exercise and more like a little girl therapy session 🤩

who knows, this might be the start of a cute little friendship too!! so if you’re nearby and interested, pls hmu!! 🫶🏻

P.S: girlies only pls!! we can exchange pics naman beforehand for peace of mind hehe 🧚‍♀️✨

Hi there!

Giving this another shot after being single for 6 months. I think it’s about time I put myself out there again, meet new people, and see where things go.

No expectations, just good company and genuine conversations. 😊

A little about me:
28M, 5’10”
From Cavite
Working professional
Been in only one relationship, so I’m honestly not that experienced in the dating scene hahaha
Into coffee, food trips, late-night drives, and horror movies (mahilig sa horror pero duwag manood mag-isa HAHAHA)

Can drive and pick you up if you’re comfortable

So, what’s the plan tonight?
I’ll be attending a family dinner tonight, but I’ll be free afterward. I haven’t planned anything specific yet, so we can figure it out together!

We could go café hopping, grab some late-night food, enjoy the city lights, go for a chill drive, or watch a horror movie. I’m open to suggestions!

What I’m looking for:
Someone who’s down for a spontaneous but chill hangout tonight. No pressure, no expectations, and strictly SFW.

We don’t have to treat it as a date either. We can just be friends for tonight, exchange stories, laugh about random things, or I can be your kuya or bunso depending on your age.

I’m not rushing into anything. Just genuinely interested in meeting someone new after being out of the dating scene for a while. If we vibe, great! If we end up as friends, that’s cool too.

If you’re from Cavite or somewhere around the South, that’s a plus!

Send me a short intro about yourself and what you’d be up for doing tonight. Let’s see where the night takes us! 😊

hello!
been a long while since my last relationship (2023), and ive been going on dates but nothing really develops. hopeful to meet someone who i can genuinely connect with.

I'm looking for someone who i can:
-date
-take to good restos (i love trying new restos)
-bring to speakeasy bars( i have a speakeasy review dump account)
-introduce to my friends
-talk about random stuff
- become friends/bff
-gym/workout buddy

about me
been single for about 3 years now, im physically fit, has a business, 5'8, gym goer(4-6 a week), golf (once a week) and loves trying new restos! loves perfumes, movies and traveling. I have a dump account for rating speakeasy bars here in the metro 😂 (i dont drink a lot, just like discovering new hidden speakeasy spots) From the blue school if it matters. hoping to connect with someone decent!

about you:
neat/decent
confident with her looks
slim/petite/curvy/slightly above curvy
intentional
someone who works out
Preferably within metro manila!

Another week of training, work, and school out of the way and I'm drained. So I try to spend my weekends the best I can, have a break and really wind down, if you're interested why not come grab dinner with me and maybe hangout if things turn out well. Could be constant, could be a one time thing, I don't much mind either. If you're interested, hmu! hopefully somewhere around makati or BGC, I could choose where to eat or if you have a suggestion I'm all ears, I just hope it has parking 😭

abt u:

A conversational human being.

abt me:

trains Muay thai
5'6 71kgs
Plays tft a LOT
Works in Sales, Studies Finance
from makati

Currently at a speakeasy in Tomas Morato, slightly tipsy, a little lonely, and feeling uncharacteristically vulnerable tonight. 🥹🍸

Looking for someone who can keep up with a conversation, make me laugh, and maybe give me a reason to stay up a little longer. We can talk about life at 2 AM, your latest hyperfixation, the most unhinged thing that happened to you this week, or why we keep making the same questionable decisions. HAHAHA.

**A little about me:**

• 27, 5’5, corporate guy by day, overthinker by night.
• Gym rat in progress. Plays badminton and volleyball, so I can be competitive but promise I’m nice. (Mostly.)
• Photography enthusiast. I like capturing little moments, finding beauty in ordinary things, and occasionally pretending I know what I’m doing with a camera. 📸
• V, somewhere between masc and fem depending on the dynamics.
• Replies fast, asks questions, and can actually hold a conversation. I believe getting to know someone should feel like a two-player game, not a solo campaign. 😭
• A sucker for good food, café hopping, spontaneous plans, and people who make the ordinary feel a little more special.

**A little about you:**

• Around my age, working, and has something going on outside the corporate grind.
• Same height or taller. PLEASE, LET ME HAVE THIS ONE. 😭🙏
• Bonus points if you’re into sports, an active lifestyle, or anything you’re genuinely passionate about.
• Can match my energy, communicate with intention, and be playful without being afraid of a little sincerity.

Not here to speedrun a relationship or force a connection that isn’t there. Just looking for good conversations and a little flirting if the chemistry is right, and maybe someone I’ll want to talk to again when the night is over.

Because honestly, the best connections are the ones where you can talk about your biggest life decisions one minute and argue about the most ridiculous thing imaginable the next.

Drop your best pickup line, if you think you hit most of the qualification heheh 🥹👍🏽

Let’s see if we can turn a random Saturday night into something interesting. 🥂

About Me:

- Slept way too early and now I'm wide awake. 😂

- I enjoy conversations that can go from random nonsense to actual life updates without feeling forced.

- I appreciate people who can both share their stories and listen to someone else's.

About You:

- Someone who's open to calls and enjoys getting to know people naturally.

- Down to talk about how your week went, weekend plans, random interests, or whatever's on your mind.

- Comfortable with the occasional silence when neither of us has anything to say. Bonus points if you have a nice voice.

What I'm Looking For:

- A genuine platonic connection with someone I can talk to every now and then.

- We can start with a little chika, keep each other company while winding down, and see where the conversation goes. If we happen to get sleepy during the call, that's fine too.

- Discord only since I don't have TG. Let's exchange introductions here first so we have an idea of who we're talking to.

If you're up for it, tell me a little about yourself and what you've been up to lately!

Hi! Trying my luck here again. 😂

I'm 28, from NCR and honestly, it would be nice to have someone to talk to about anything and everything. Yung may makukwentuhan ka about your day, random thoughts, chismis, or kahit nonsense lang. Someone you can be sweet with without feeling like you're doing too much.

I'm independent and sanay naman ako mag-isa, but it would be nice to have someone to share life with. Someone who's consistent, honest, marunong makipag-communicate, and actually makes an effort. I'm not looking to rush into a relationship, though. We can start by getting to know each other and see where things go.

A little about me: I'm sweet but straightforward, observant, and madaldal once comfortable na ako. I like coffee, road trips, nature, and random deep talks. I can be clingy when I like someone, but I also appreciate having our own lives.

One thing about me, kahit independent ako, I actually like a man who knows how to take the lead. Yung marunong mag-initiate, magplano ng dates, and make decisions without having to ask me what to do every single time. I can take care of myself, but that doesn't mean I always want to be the one figuring everything out. Sometimes, I just want to sit back, relax, and let a man handle things. Of course, communication and consideration still matter. 😉

Physically, I'm trying to get back in shape. Comeback era tayo ngayon medyo nagkalaman HAHAHA 😂 I'm confident with how I look, naman. I'm no Jessy Mendiola, pero hindi rin naman yung tipong mawawalan ka ng gana kumain pag nakita mo ako HAHAHAHAHA Charooot! 🤣

I'd prefer someone mature, with a good sense of humor, and who's genuinely interested in getting to know me. Please know how to hold a conversation, too. Ayoko naman na ako lang lagi nagtatanong. 😂

If we vibe, we vibe. We can talk, flirt a little, go on dates, 🤷🏻‍♀️. Malay mo, ikaw na pala yung kaconquer ng world ko Chariz 🤣

So, tell me something about yourself. If we have had a conversation before, let's catch up.

Hey. 👋

its less than 3 months before 2026 ends and honestly I want it to end in a good mood, a good note kung baga, kaya if you’re alsoooo looking to end it with a plot twist maybe ikaw na to, message mo na ako 😤😤

About me:
i’m a FilChi from top 4 univ with an engineering degree and is working as an engineer in a Multinational Company.

i dont have a normal BMI I’m on the heavier side, but I am recently active ! i recently learned how to bike and honestly since then I bike everyday 💕🚴‍♀️🚴‍♀️🚴‍♀️ so essentially this is one of the many hobbies I have lol

My hobbies:
1. i watch anime
2. i play games (like yes video games but more on the JRPG side)
3. i crochet
4. i sew
5. i play badminton
6 and more recently! i bike

Sooo I am looking for some one to talk to , a plot twist kung baga for my life.

About you:
You dont have to be fil chi :) but honestly preferred. hoping you also have a hobby na nasa list ko XD bonus points if we love the same anime and if you love gundam kasi we could build gundams.