I had my explant almost 4 weeks ago now. I’m still swollen and tender. I’m actually smaller than i was before implants but it could be because of swelling in the middle where the dr injected me with medication.

I have been feeling a little down about my size but I just seen this picture of Jenna and it turned my thoughts around. She’s so beautiful and people love her and she’s very small.

Negative thoughts do not belong in my mind.

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Every positivity post and comment I see about small boobs always assumes that small boobs only exist on petite bodies and they're always round and perky. The celebrities that are mentioned as positive role models are always slim, attractive women: Zendaya, Zara Larsson, Keira Knightley, Natalie Portman.

Comments such as "your small boobs fit your figure" imply that there is an acceptable body shape for small boobs. "But models have small boobs" well I'm not a model

Plus size women are never in the conversation when discussing small boobs. Non-round, non-perky small boobs are never in the conversation when discussing small boobs. It feels like small boobs are acceptable if they fit certain criteria.

I feel awful when I see the "shape>size" "small boobs don't sag they're perky" comments. Oh golly, me and my saggy small tuberous breasts don't exist then. Do you know how excluded I feel when I realize I defy all normalcy expectations lol

I unfortunately can't find any positivity around my breast shape and size and I wish I could turn back time and rewire my genetics. I hate that I don't look like the women that post here or the women that I see outside. That's not me being unique, that's me feeling alienated.

Some non-slim celebrities that I've seen that have small boobs are Ilona Maher and Kitty Underhill (kittyunderhillx on Instagram)

I’ve been wearing baggy shirts for the longest time to the gym because im insecure of my flat chest. I want to get out of my comfort zone and finally wear something more revealing and also show off my gym gainssss.

This would be my first time ever wearing something like this revealing as funny as it sounds but I would want it to be comfortable and also don’t wanna look like a cutting board from the side so a little padding is ok!

if any fellow girlies know let me know! I want to be more proud of my body :)

I also have bat wings on the back of my shoulder/neck area so I get to show that off too!! And no bra

18F I'm a 28D and cannot figure out how to make my boobs look nice at all in this cute halter top I own it's a V-neck halter that gets tied up in the back - I think it looks unflattering because my boobs disappear and look nonexistent in them I can't seem to make any cleavage happen with or without a bra my boobs also look sad and weirdly shaped in the top

I’m in desperate need of decent push up pasties for triangle bikini style top, it’s unfortunately matching with my friends so I don’t have any other choice and they are freaking heavenly blessed.

I would love to see your small boob sternum tattoos!! I need inspo 💓

I saw a video of some people debating and one of the women was absolutely gorgeous, and was wearing a top with lots of cleavage showing and had humongous tatas lol..she was absolutely beautiful though with a pretty face too, I felt kind of jealous :( I have smallish boobs although the thing is I actually like my boobs a lot of the time, I like how i have a kind of big aerola especially compared to my boob size, and I love how soft they are and squish them a lot lol (I think its a sensory thing) but when I see big boobs I get insecure about mine sometimes. Ive also never been in a relationship irl and never been intimate with a guy but sometimes I really just want some admiration and love for my boobs or body. Maybe that's external validation seeking tho IDK maybe I shouldn't want it. Im not into hookup culture or showing nudes and stuff. So I haven't really experienced being admired like that. I hope I'll end up with one that won't prefer big boobs 😭 cuz it might make me compare myself too much and might always worry if he finds other women more attractive

hi, i haven’t posted here in a while but i’ve been feeling unwell lately when it comes to my chest.

i’ve noticed that no matter where i go im always seeing women with medium-large chests and i’ve noticed that in a room full of women, im always the one with the flattest chest. i went to marshall’s yesterday and was only able to find one bra that looked like it could fit me. it was a sports bra and it was surrounded by such cute girly bras. idk why but it made me instantly upset. i don’t like the fact that i notice other women’s chests as often as i do because it just ends up making me upset. without realizing it i think to myself how great those women look and the next thing i know im covering up my chest and moving my arms to hide them more. i get so excited and happy when i see other small chested women in the media and at my large university because they seem so confident. (that doesn’t necessarily mean they are, i know that confidence can be faked). ig i just want to be confident too, i want to like my body too. this has always been a big insecurity of mine but it has hit an extreme high for me especially this past year and i dont want to be sad and hate my body anymore. i want to be able to wear all types of clothes. i want to feel good about myself and my body when i look in the mirror. i want to actually have a legitimate chance at finding a bra in my size, that’s not a sports bra or bralette, and is actually cute! i love a good bralette but i would like to have a non padded push up bra or at least the option to own one and not have to order from an online shop for double the price. ive been thinking about getting surgery more lately too but scared that i’ll hate how it looks, regret it, get them removed, and my natural boobs not looking the same again. idk, i think i’ve always struggled with this so much and getting cheated on didn’t make that better at all. ig i just feel stuck and tired of feeling this way :/

(also, yes im in therapy already so please don’t comment on that)

I love seeing drawings and discussions on the media I like. I love keeping up with video games and news on them. But these past weeks have been awful!

I'm sure some of you saw the video game with the boob size slider. The sizes it included were medium to gigantic. I kept seeing women asking for small to flat sizes and people were SO hostile to them. Why is small boob erasure okay?? I'm sure everyone would be up in arms if there were no large options.

And there's this dumb trend where they're making Malford(?) from Harry Potter a girl and giving her massive boobs. But if someone makes her flat/small they scream minor?? Hypocrites much!! It's only a problem that she's a minor when she's flat. (note I'm not supporting the media it's just a double standard I'm witnessing)

and the ZZZ fandom (I'm not apart of it but I play a similar game so it shows up on my feed) has been making mods to turn the girls into boys. They literally just make them flat and give them short hair. I see the mods and think "wow she looks like me now!!" and then I'm crushed when I see it's a "boy" mod.

I'm not even terminally online. I've seen this from just scrolling a few times a day. I've since been distancing myself from the social medias I've seen this stuff on

Hello everyone. It's my first post here and first of all I wanna thank everyone who is a part of this subreddit. Maybe I'm still insecure but at least I feel less alone. What I wanna share in this post confuses even me so that's why I wanna hear other people's thoughts. I started to be insecure about my small boobs only at 17. Now I'm 19. But gradually ever since then more and more things started to trigger my insecurities. I'm insecure about many more things, but it's a different conversation. I remember the times when I was younger and could enjoy any movie or show, no matter what size of breasts a character has. But right now I can cry because of literally EVERYTHING. I can turn on some movie and then turn it off after 5 minutes just because a woman there has big boobs. One of the recent examples was me watching "Wreck-It Ralph". I wanted to watch a cartoon and calm down, but instead of that I saw a character (I just googled, she is called Sorceress) and started crying. I immediately turned it off. I tried to watch Peppa Pig after it, but cried because both Peppa and her mom wear dresses (and I don't) and Peppa's mom wears mascara (and I don't wear makeup at all). I feel like the most vulnerable and sensitive person in the world, it's ridiculous. I never can explain it to other people. When I say I don't use social media people get surprised, but don't understand how deep my reason is. I hated summer when every girl was wearing a crop top and I work with people so I saw hundreds of them. I associated anime with unrealistic proportions, that's why I never watched it. When my crush says he likes anime all I can think about is that I'm definitely not his type then. I don't know if anyone here is struggling or was struggling with such thing, but I could really use some advices or just hear if someone understands.

I don’t know if I am biased because I have a similar build, but I find it so endearing and hot.

I was on a train yesterday and damn near snapped my neck trying to get a look at an Asian woman with this sort of build. Mind you, she was not even showing skin, she had a nice lightweight buttoned-up deep burgundy jacket, but she looked so unique and attractive (and I’m heterosexual).

Had to get it off my chest, have a good Sunday ladies and stay beautiful ✨

I’m trying to feel more confident being out in public like this. All me. Free the nips!

Chat about your small boob related issues in a safe place and get/give advice!

And a tight shirt because why shouldn’t I 🤷🏻‍♀️

Also no bra needed <3

Not everyone is gonna have the same journey, but lifting weights and becoming a fitness lady definitely fixed my brain.

I’m a 32 B and I’ve always wanted bigger boobs. I’m tall (5’8) and skinny (120 pounds). Somehow I’ve gotten it in my head that if I gain 10-20 pounds my boobs will get bigger. Even if it’s just one cup size. Any truth to that? Or should I just accept that no matter what my boobs will stay the same size? Or maybe the bras are my problem and it’s not actually my boobs. Idk. 🤔

Answer: it’s genetics, but more than likely no. Boobs will stay the same. 💀

Oh and pregnancy can do crazy things. 😅

So about a week ago, a random dude messaged me on reddit saying “they’re definitely not twins”. I ignored the message because I didn’t know what he meant at the time and was confused. A few hours later, it clicked that he was talking about my boobs… Now I wish I reported and blocked him…

ANYWAY. After taking it personally for 6 days too long, I’m back to loving my body the way it is.

Full disclaimer this photo is from 5 years ago but my boobs pretty much look same or are smaller lmao

I appreciate the perks of being smaller chested like being able to wear this outfit out and about without being stared at (kind of depends where you live too I guess).

Please know you are beautiful just the way you are!!

edit: Thank you for the kind comments. I made sure to self sooth and self validate before posting this. It’s important you discover self validation and not rely solely on other people’s opinions but hope this post helps anyone who has gotten negative comments as well!

The ruching is so flattering and I love how cute this set makes me feel! I know I’ll get questions so this set is from My Protein and they make it in this colour, orange and mint green. 🩷

Anyone who’s bought from this company before please respond!

I recently bought a set but I’m eyeing off another the only problem is, it says it’s less ideal for my shaped which is teardrop/bell shape. I’m about a AA cup.

Does that mean I can’t wear those tops? If not what ones do you all recommend? I’m based in Australia!