r/cancer • • May 01 '23

Welcome to /R/Cancer, sorry you're here. Please read our sidebar before submitting any posts!

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Hello – If you’re new here please take a second to read our rules before making any posts. Specifically, do not ask us if you have cancer. We're not doctors and we can't diagnose you; I will remove these posts. This is a place for people who have already been diagnosed and caregivers seeking specific help with problems that cancer creates. All posts should be flaired as either patient, caregiver, study, or death. You are also welcome to make yourself custom flair for your specific diagnosis.

If you have general questions about how you can be supportive and helpful to anyone you know that has cancer please check out this thread – How can I be helpful?

If you are seeking a subreddit for your specific cancer please check out this post – Specific Cancer Subreddits.

A crowdsourced list of helpful things to mitigate side effects - Helpful Buys


r/cancer • • 1d ago

Moderator Mandated Bonding Free Talk Friday!

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Hey everyone!

Noticed things have been especially dour here in the last few days (imagine that?). Thought we could use some off-topic conversation to remind ourselves that life outside of cancer exists. Read any good books recently? Seen any good movies? How's the weather out there today?


r/cancer • • 4h ago

Patient If chemo ruined your fingernails...

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Hey all, just wanted to share something that helped me.

Chemo had my nails peeling and splitting up into the nail bed and it was painful and awful.

I started using "Hard as Hoof" by Onyx and also some 100% Jojoba oil.

I keep one near my bed and one near my chair in the living room and I just oil my nails with these products at least once a day.

My nails are actually in better shape now than they've ever been in my life.

Anyway I figured this could be good info for anyone else who is struggling with it.


r/cancer • • 2h ago

Patient The last few months have been rough

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I’m 31 and survived breast cancer while pregnant and then went into heart failure from the chemo and pregnancy while starting radiation. I was then out on letrozole and ever since my menopause has been such a mess. I am so mean. I hate cancer. I’m so mad at it. It robbed me of so much. And sometimes it takes me to a dark dark place. That’s why I also made a subreddit dedicated to opening up about the realities of cancer, especially in young patients. r/CancerSnark . It’s the place to bitch, because lord knows only you guys understand the pain while trying to be grateful.

r/cancersnark


r/cancer • • 12h ago

Patient I’m scared

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There’s a new lump by my neck. I am 21 and I had my cancer ( Parotid gland ) at 14 and second one at 19. I’m scared to even go to my oncologist to consult. I feel like I’ll be disappointing everyone. I am not even scared for me but everyone around me. I saw how hard the other 2 hit them. They were there for me but they were also hurting. They don’t deserve this. My family, my friends, my boyfriend they don’t deserve this.


r/cancer • • 5h ago

Patient New here, any long-time patients/survivors got financial tips?

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I just got diagnosed with liver cancer, so the doctor forced me to stop working. All I got is short term disability which pays half my salary. at that rate, i'll be homeless, especially after paying the child support.

just stopped working yesterday so i'm kinda in limbo. Oh yea, came from dysfunctional family so i have nobody to support me. non-retired veteran in wisconsin btw, just completed full 6 year term to pay for college about a little over a decade ago.


r/cancer • • 59m ago

Patient Zoladex side effects-joint pain

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r/cancer • • 2h ago

Patient Ughhh f cancer!!!!! Come join r/cancersnark cus f this!

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r/cancer • • 8h ago

Caregiver I'm devastated

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r/cancer • • 3h ago

Caregiver Stage 4 colon cancer KRAS G12v

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Anyone have this type of cancer ? How has your journey been?

My mom is 57 and has this cancer type she was diagnosed December 2023.

I have been wanting to hear about others with her cancer type but rarely come across any.


r/cancer • • 7m ago

Caregiver Can someone pls tell will ivermectin n mebendazole works for cancer , if it’s there in ur experience pls comment

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Pls comment


r/cancer • • 17h ago

Patient Lung cancer: Everything tastes like cardboard, even before chemo. Any advice?

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My dad has lung cancer and he's really struggling with eating. It's been about 4 months now and he's basically surviving on high-calorie nutritional shakes just to get enough calories in.

He says everything tastes like cardboard or paper. There's just no flavor at all. Sometimes the first one or two bites are okay, but after that he gets completely disgusted by the food and can't eat any more.

Even when he tries, he'll sit there chewing the tiniest bite for what feels like 10 minutes before he can finally swallow it. Eating has become such a struggle for him and it honestly feels like he's forcing himself through every single bite.

The strange thing is that this all started one month before his very first chemo, so we think it might be related to the lung cancer itself.

Has anyone here experienced something similar? Especially before starting treatment?

Did anything help at all? Certain foods, medications, anything that made eating easier or brought back even a little bit of taste?

I'm really grateful for any tips or personal experiences. I just want him to be able to eat and enjoy food again.

Thanks so much to anyone who takes the time to reply.


r/cancer • • 21h ago

Death My father passed away few days ago. Thank you to everyone who gave me hope when I was desperately searching for a way to save him.

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r/cancer • • 10h ago

Patient Li-Fraumeni Syndrome

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Never expected to write here but oh well.. I, 23F, had surgery for a brain tumor and I am now waiting for the genetic screening results...

For those who have LFS... What did your biopsy result show ? Did you have 2 TP53 mutations ? What were the allele frequencies ?

Thanks for answering...


r/cancer • • 10h ago

Patient Panic

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r/cancer • • 17h ago

Patient Adrenal cancer

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Hello everyone!

Not sure where to start.... And I am not sure how to go about explaining what goes on with me. On August 22nd I went into the hospital for pain due to my endometriosis. What I thought was going to be a quick hospital visit ended up being a three day stay. They found a mass in my adrenal gland and in my liver. My workers were high but the oncologist that came to visit me said they could not rule out cancer. Anyways ... After a pet scan, MRIs and CT scans. I seem to have adrenal gland cancer. I am having two operations at once in November one for a full hysterectomy and the other one for the removal of the mass.which is the size of a softball. Not sure how I have been walking through life with all of this inside. Not sure how to feel about anything anymore....

I just feel really angry all of the time since I am not even 50 yet. I am just not sure of anything anymore.

Anyone else? I feel like I have changed forever...


r/cancer • • 11h ago

Caregiver Multi Organ Failure - Please Help! I suspected it was side-effect of Carfilzomib.

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r/cancer • • 7h ago

Patient Coverage for cancer

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r/cancer • • 1d ago

Patient I’m 29F fighting cancer and trying not to disappoint everyone I love. Sometimes I feel like giving up on relationships altogether.

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I don’t know what to do anymore.


r/cancer • • 20h ago

Patient Anyone else have a foreshadowing?

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r/cancer • • 18h ago

Patient Young women who skipped or deferred lymph node surgery (no SLNB/sampling) – how are you doing now?

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r/cancer • • 1d ago

Patient Life after cancer: What have you changed after cancer treatment?

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People usually talk about diagnosis and treatment. Very few will share life after cancer. I heard people’s points of view totally changed… so it impacts careers, family, diet , fitness and everything. Sometimes it is very difficult to make the adjustments, so I would like to know how you do it.


r/cancer • • 1d ago

Patient I can fell the cancer growing...

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Hi,

After a few immuno treatments we discovered that my 3C endometrial cancer doesn't respond. (It shrunk by 80% with the combo chemio/immuno though). Immuno caused me very bad side effects as well.

So since my last chemio April first - or more exactly a few weeks after - it started to be active and to grow again.

And for the last month I can feel the pain coming back. I tried not to think about it but it is freaking me out, like I KNOW cancer is growing inside me.

It's not like it was before my verdict last Autumn as I know what it is now.

My teams is preparing me for a surgery in November (I have many test before because my nodes are at a risky place) but in the meanwhile I found it hard not to think about that thing growing inside me :(

How do you cope?


r/cancer • • 1d ago

Patient Leiomiosarcoma

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Hello everyone, I am writing this because my father was recently diagnosed with leiomyosarcoma, and we would like to know if there is an oncologist specializing in sarcomas who could provide a recommendation or suggest treatment options, in addition to the chemotherapy currently being received.We were told that this treatment is one of the things that could save him, given that his cancer has metastasized, but we wanted to seek a second opinion just to be sure. Thank you very much.


r/cancer • • 1d ago

Patient Anal melanoma

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I was recently diagnosed with anal mucosal melanoma in my mid-30s. My doctor recommended opdualag and radiation. He recommended opdualag instead of opdivo + yervoy because opdualag has lower incidence of severe side effects, and since I also have psoriasis I’m likely to get side effects.

Opdualag was only approved a couple of years ago, but I wanted to ask anyone have experience with it?