I recently posted that I became a mom at 30 then second at 35. Now I’m 37. Husband will be 39. I go back and forth about a 3rd baby and he’s open to the idea.
I read so many things as well as hear how 2 is the best number because when 3 someone is always left out.
But I also feel that I will regret not having a third especially due to all the back and forth. I purposely had my kids years a part. To make things easier and to enjoy them and different stages in life. Oh and cars too haha. Once I’m done paying off one car, my second is ready to drive.
I want to start trying -if i do- at 38.5/39 so that I’m 40 :) the year I deliver. To me, kids keep your youth, as in They keep you busy and active.
How many kids do you have. Should we go for 3? Should we stay at 2?
Do you have any regrets not having 3? Any input on both number of kids.
If you’re a second or third kid in your family. What are your thoughts on this? How did you feel growing up or looking back as an adult.