Surely there are a lot of youse who can’t help but order late night take aways. We are fine the whole day, but when the evening starts to get darker we are divulged by the greed of spices, oil, fat and cholesterol.

I just wanted to say I feel for you my fellow citizens. You are not alone. And we will get through this. One day we hope to find the solution to to develop new medicines that will end diabetes and cholesterol and blood pressure and what not.

Keep munching my friends. After all the economy needs us. How would the restaurant business feed their families if not for us. We are a vital part of this ecosystem. Be proud.

Okay. Let me share something

I am 30 years male, unmarried

Earn: around 1 lakh monthly

Family of 4, ageing parents and a younger sister

Bright student who never thought of leaving Nepal

Fell in love for a year (3 yrs back) ----> didn't work out

Aba life has taken its turn, most of my friends are abroad

Most of them have started a family

I am working my ass off and earning descent, yet I dont feel like I am doing something life changing.

Aile during dashain vacation my family is enjoying, cousins are here and we are having a good time, yet I feel the pressure of not being able to do anymore

I mean. Nepal ma afno standard change garna nasakine raxa jasto feel huna thalya xa. I mean aile saving garxu, next month kharcha hunchaaa

Had mom's surgery in a reputed hospital and my 2 months salary is gone. Saving garera euta car kinum socheko 2 yrs vayo, the thing is car ko kharcha puryauna ni sochnu parne awastha xa.

I mean when will I be able to afford what I want. I know people's wishes are endless, but is it too much to wish, not just a car k, a decent wedding, a basic lifestyle, a good fucking healthcare???

Maile katai padhya thea, we are one hospital bill away from poverty. I genuinely feel that.

I am not depressed and shit. Tara I am genuinely wondering k garne hola. At 30, I almost dont feel like leaving nepal also. I mean Sabai yetai ta xa, but 10 yrs back and now aile samma hamro living standards ma kei farak xaina, how and whyyy???

Sathi abroad gayo, usko dukha afai sanga hola, but atleast he has money ni haina?? Moneyy ko freedom kaile paune hamile nepal basera.

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I'm 15M an introvert and someone who hasn't really socialized much or had many conversations with people. Lately, I've been thinking about how little I know about relationships, family dynamics, and life in general, and I'd like to start learning from the basics.

I'm particularly interested in understanding family tree and relationships in the context of Nepal. I also want to understand the terminology used for different family relationships, such as father-in-law, brother-in-law, and other terms that I never fully learned or understood.

Beyond that, I'd like to learn how families function, how to build stronger family relationships, how to communicate better, how to handle disagreements, and how to understand other people's perspectives. I'm also interested in psychology, especially human behavior, emotional intelligence, parenting, family dynamics, and interpersonal relationships.

What I'm looking for is a starting point from absolute zero. Books, resources, or even personal experiences that could help me understand these things would be greatly appreciated. Since I'm from Nepal, recommendations that consider Nepali society, traditions, family expectations, and cultural norms would be especially helpful.

I'm not necessarily looking for academic textbooks. I'd prefer accessible books, writing , novel that explain things clearly and help me understand real-life situations.

Where would you recommend I start? Are there any books you think everyone should read to better understand people, family, relationships, and life in general?

Belun le ni k garos. Geography doesn't favor Nepal, so there's a limit on how much he can ward off the indian influence. Bharatiya dalal haruko big-bigi yeka tira. Ani uta oli ra deuba, ani tini haruka jholey haruko mannma jindagi bhari tikdam garera bhrastchar garera lutera kamako paisa Belun le siddhyaidincha ki bhanne darr. They will do anything to create chaos and make Nepal as ungovernable as possible if Belun goes after them. Karmachari tantra ma ta 95% nai party emale, Congress, maowadi ra dai-maruwa ka jholey haru matra chan. Imandar government official ta khojera ni painna hola Nepalma.

Where should Belun start the cleaning process, when it's 100% certain the bhrastcharis will unite and react? How is he supposed to deal with the reaction? And are people mature enough to understand, he will need time and continues support from the people?

Hello fellow millennials.
I love my job, it is the most rewarding thing. But I kinda dislike my life outside of it.

I live with my parents and I love them to the moon. I have other family members such as cousins and friends too. But I don’t see them everyday since we don’t live in the same place. Let’s just say I don’t have a regular beer buddy and nothing romantic is happening in my life.

I do have some hobbies but I’m a people person. Growing up in Nepal in a tight knit community, I was always surrounded by people who I cared for. So life now can get lonely sometimes. If you are in a similar boat or just feel sorry for a random stranger, please say hi. It will put a smile on my face 😁

We all know Ukraine is a 'Russia-pidit' country like Nepal is an 'india-pidit' country.

So taking a sober assessment of the situation both countries find themselves in, which country do you think has a better future in the long run - Nepal or Ukraine?

Guys I am really interested in knowing about land prices in districts like Dolakha, Sindhupalchowk, Gorkha or any hilly district outside Kathmandu valley. If your guys are from any hilly district in Nepal pls drop the land prices nearby you.

Thank you very much for your attention

Hello everyone,

I applied for my passport about a month ago, but I haven't received any messages or updates on my phone. So, I downloaded the passport app from the Play Store to check my application status, and it showed this message.

There was a small mistake in my permanent address. Because of this, I had to cancel my initial application and submit a new one with the corrected address.

Now I'm worried that this might cause further delays or other problems with my passport application.

Has anyone faced a similar situation? What should I do next? Any advice or help would be greatly appreciated.

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Coming back to your hometown after so long feels different. Walking down the same streets brings back memories you thought you had left behind.

Today, I saw her after four years.

The girl I once knew had changed so much. She looked more mature, more beautiful, and somehow more peaceful. She was holding an adorable little princess in her arms, while her husband carefully protected them both from the crowd, making sure nobody bumped into them.

I just stood there, quietly watching from a distance.

Funny how life works. There was a time when I imagined someone else living the life I once dreamed of sharing with her. And today, right in front of me, I was watching that life unfold.

And honestly, I felt good.

Because despite everything that happened between us, I always wanted her to be happy. And she looked happy.

She was shining like a star in the night sky, and for a moment, all those old memories came rushing back. Four years had passed, yet some feelings felt like they belonged to yesterday.

I don't even know how long I stood there, lost in my thoughts, until my friend called me and asked me to come inside the café.

I looked back once more, but she had already disappeared into the crowd.

And just like that, a little piece of my past walked out of my sight again.

Maybe some people aren't meant to stay in our lives forever. Maybe we're only meant to love them for a chapter and quietly wish them well in the chapters that follow.

Today, I didn't feel like I had lost her all over again.

I just felt grateful that the girl I once loved was doing okay.

Sometimes, closure isn't a conversation. Sometimes, it's simply seeing someone happy and realizing that your heart can finally wish them well without asking for anything in return. ❤️

hi guys, what do you do in dashain? is it fun? do you guys play cards?

Reddit bata financial advice linu isn't great tara kei idea nai aayena, I (a gen z) can separate around 20-24 k every month from my salary for investment kata invest garda best huncha bhanne sochnai sakiyena. Something is better than nothing sochera bank ma 600 per month ko sip suru gareko 18 months pachi jamma 300 rs interest re.

K garne hola yesto awastha ma

Split personality jasto lagdaina bela bela ma doing such stupid things not being stupid?

This post is inspired by a recent post here- "1 hapta lai bf chahiyo wala". Throwaway for anonymity purposes.

To put it bluntly, I am looking for a wife. Got divorced 2 years ago, and now too busy to date and can't give a single fuck to go through all that again.

Living in Australia. Working as a general practitioner. Earn around AUD 500k plus per year. Have PR and own a house worth 1 mil+. Age 33. Cast chettri. Considered handsome by traditional sense. Atheist. Straight.

Need someone who shares the same values as me, and is around 25-35 age. Cast doesn't matter. Height/skin colour doesn't matter. Preferably no strong religious sentiments. Someone who is open to progress rather than assuming a traditional housewife role.

Happy to chat or VC and provide additional proof if we establish rapport. Girls, if you think you are my soulmate, hit the inbox or leave a comment.

Cheers.

Infrastructure development is Nepal's biggest weakness. And if there is one thing the Chinese are good at it's building roads and bridges and dams and everything infrastructure related.

i was a kid who had a basic dream. i remember myself. i wasn't like i wanna be super rich or getting a lot of money kind of guy. i always was getting basics all my life. i simply had just 1 dream. to built a home where i'm staying rn. just a basic af home where i am away from my hometown. and now, i don't have any dream. i'm going through a phase or whatever you call it, existentialism.

my hometown, the place i was born. it doesn't have the best of memories. its filled with my dad's drinking problem and his long fight with depression. my mom's struggle and her life filled with just work with tampering sun. her loud yell at everyone. and i as a witness seeing everything just realizing that is it what it suppose to be. my grand-dad used to say that having a home where he is will be good for us from when i was like 9/10 yoe. and i remember my dad used to be sober when he's with grand-dad when in dashain. since then, i always had a dream to build this house.

we eventually did. rented our previous home to build another in a place i feel no home in the hopes of making it one. in just a year, something bad happened. my dad went away. and my dream didn't makes sense. he just left with no remorse of ever coming back. my life took a hit of my dream shattering and my way of life vanishing. i have this home now. its been couple of years and every day i struggle to stay here.

i don't feel like i belong here. but my nieces are growing up here. and now, it has some good memories. but somewhere deep in me, i still like i'm the problem. even with this much abundance, my heart worries little more every time. i somehow think of leaving this place but something holds me back. its just not that simple anymore. i tried moving to another country but withdrawn my visa because i just couldn't make it makes sense.

somewhere i know if i stay here, i'll waste my life in no hopes of anything more. somewhere i just wanna go someplace and make great use of the life i got. the crossroad that leaving feels so distressed and hard was never there. but now, it is.

just a rant, don't need any advice please. if you had gone through something similar, please do share tho. i can't relate to people anymore.