r/cockatiel • • Jan 31 '26

Other New Rule for r/cockatiel

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Hello everyone! I’m announcing a new rule for the subreddit.

It comes as no surprise that many people post injured or bleeding birds as well as feces to ensure the health of their birds or questions.

While these posts are allowed, they are inappropriate to not mark as NSFW. Not everyone is comfortable seeing this sort of content.

So for the comfort of everyone in the subreddit. PLEASE, mark these posts as NSFW.

There will be new tags/flairs for posts like these as well.

From this day forward, those who do not mark these posts as NSFW will receive a warning. Any subsequent posts that are not marked or tagged appropriately may be banned temporarily, and any further posts will result in a permanent ban.

Please be respectful of others, and make sure to review the rules before posting content that may violate the rules of the subreddit.

Thank you so much for all the lovely content and being overall a beautiful community. 💖


r/cockatiel • • Dec 14 '21

Frequently Posted (+ Answers)

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We have been getting a lot more repetitive posts in our sub so I wanted to put this information together in the hopes of reducing the amount of questions that are frequently asked. In turn, hopefully this will make our community a little more light hearted :)

*I want to preface this by saying I am not a vet or anything just someone who really loves my cockatiel and learning everything I can to ensure he has the best life possible. I think the best thing you can do for your birdie is lots of research before anything happens (especially in the case of illness). They are fragile so having the right knowledge and tools at your disposal can quite literally be the difference between life and death.

Lets begin!

Is my bird sick?

Common signs of a sick bird include:

  • Tail bobbing, sitting at the bottom of the cage, inability to stand on a perch (loss of balance)
  • Sneezing, clicking respiration (cough), or any discharge coming from the eyes or nostrils.
  • Eyes dull or sunken.
  • Change in vocals (can be hormonal but after puberty could be cause for concern)
  • Change in appetite (loss or increase of food or water)
  • Change in droppings (color, consistency, or frequency - this could be due to diet like eating more fruits and vegetables but it should not last more than a day or two after)
  • Constantly fluffed (happens for a number of reasons like keeping warm, preening, sleeping but they should not always be like this)
  • Feather loss (not related to a regular molt that happens 1-2x per year)
  • Trembling (can mean they are cold, stressed, or sick)
  • Drooping wings

If you notice any of these signs or a combination of them its crucial to get your bird to a vet (preferably an avian one) as soon as possible. No one on the internet is able to diagnose your bird or give it the treatment it needs.

Note: Some of these symptoms like change in droppings, being fluffed up, and feather loss can be normal but if it is persistent the best thing to do is ere on the side of caution and get them checked out.

Is my cockatiel male or female?

Color Patterns: Baby cockatiels that have not gone through their first adult molt (usually between 6-12 months) will typically have female colorations regardless of gender. After their first molt, males tend to get more vivid colors, lose the stripes on the underside of their tail and spots on the wings, The opposite is true for females and their color changes minimally after their first molt.

Different mutations make it more difficult to tell the difference between males and females even after their adult molt.

Behaviors: Males tend to be more vocal (mimicking sounds and singing), heart wings (see example), more likely to "show off" (strutting, hopping, tapping on surfaces), and attempting to mate with objects. Females are often less vocal (although some are) and when wanting to mate will tilt her head, flatten her back, and rock back and forth while chirping softly.

All of the above are good indicators if you have a male or female HOWEVER the only true way to know is if you get a DNA test or if your cockatiel lays an egg. People have noted that their DNA sexed female has shown male behaviors or colors and vise versa. No one can tell you for sure by looking at it!

What is this noise my cockatiel is making?

Some common cockatiel noises and what they mean:

Contact Call: Cockatiels like to keep track of their flock members so when you leave the room you may notice your cockatiel yell for you with a loud chirp or series of chirps. Even if you aren't bonded to your bird they may still do this. Put them at ease by "answering" them from where you are. I like to whistle back the same "contact call" so they know that I will be right back.

Contact Call Example

Attention Scream: Often a loud high pitched screech that is meant to get your attention. They can do this when they are scared, lonely, bored, or even to alert you of something (like a potential predator). Excessive screaming means you might need to change something in their environment. A common cause of this is hormones and boredom, both of which can be decreased by adding more enrichment to their environment with foraging, toys, and training.

Attention Scream Example

Whistling//Mimicking/Chattering: Usually (but not always) done by males and often means they are happy and connecting with you as part of their flock. They may mimic you, the radio, the tv, or even just sounds that they hear outside or inside the house. A lot of the time cockatiels learn these sounds through repetition. Search cockatiel training songs if you don't want to be whistling a song all the time and with time they may pick up on the tunes.

Whistling Example

Beak Grinding: They do this when they are happy and content. Usually it is accompanied by being fluffed up and being sleepy. The cheeks will fluff up as well and the cockatiel will look very relaxed. This is a great sign that your cockatiel is comfortable in their environment.

Beak Grinding Example

Hissing: Like other animals cockatiels do this when they are angry or threatened. This is often a warning to back off and can be accompanied by biting if the behavior is not stopped. If your cockatiel is hissing at you its best to leave them alone for a bit - just like us, our birds have boundaries we should respect!

Hissing Example

Baby Noises: These sound a bit like static and usually do this if they want something (often food, water, or even just attention). This is completely normal for young cockatiels and after a few months will go away. Mine went away at 4 months but this can vary!

Baby Noises Example

What is this behavior?

These are some behaviors that are normal with cockatiels that I noticed are commonly asked about here:

Mating: This is probably the most common one. Males and females display different mating behaviors.

Males will typically rub their cloaca (this is the opening underneath the base of the tail for a birds digestive, urinary, and reproductive tracts) on an object like a toy, your foot or hand, a pillow, ect or a bonded female. Male Mating Behavior

Females will droop their wings and raise their rump while swaying and chirping quietly. You may notice your female also rubbing its back on their toys to try and stimulate themselves. Female Mating Behavior

In addition to these mating behaviors, take note if your bird is territorial, screaming, plucking itself, or aggressive. These could all be signs that your bird is sexually frustrated.

This handout I received from my vet gives some behavioral modification you can make to try and reduce these.

Clearing Crop: Looks a lot like yawning but usually they will do it consistently over a short period of time. Their crop is located below their beak in the neck area. The crop stores food before it is sent to their stomach and acts as a "reserve" so they are able to eat more in one feeding. When they clear the crop they are moving that food to the next stage of digestion. Cockatiel Clearing Crop

How do I tame my cockatiel?

If your bird is brand new to your home, the best thing to do for a day or two is let them soak in their new envionrment. This can be a stressful time for them so its important to let them learn that their new home is a safe space. Talking in a quiet voice and even whistling around them is the best thing to do during this transitiion period. It can be tempting but don't try and pick them up or pet them right away. They may be fearful of hands and scaring them could further your progress of taming them. Whether they are a young cockatiel or an older adult that was rescued or rehomed, taming them will take patience and time. How long can vary on a lot of different factors but it's important not to rush it. Read the links below to get more information on how to achieve this:

Taming step-by-step

I am thinking of getting a cockatiel and would love some tips!

There is really too much to cover in one post so I will address the most common tips for new owners and provide some links that go into detail about all things cockatiel.

Vet Access: This should be the most important thing to consider. Making note of an avian vet that is close by is crucial. Be extra prepared and make note of the closest emergency vet as well that you can go to outside of your regular vets hours. If you do not have one close by or you do not have the money to pay for one, please reconsider getting a bird. It is disheartening to see very obviously sick bird where the owner has no access or money to go to a vet.

Basic Needs: Before purchasing supplies for your bird, do as much research as you can regarding cage size, toys, and food.

Health: Take note of the signs of a sick bird and when to take them to a vet. In addition, cockatiels are sensitive to strong smells, gasses, drafts, and smoke. This also requires some research as there are common household items that can poison and kill your bird (for example teflon pans and some plants you may have lying around).

Links:

Cockatiel Cottage

VCA - Cockatiel Diet

Safe and Toxic Foods

Proper Caging

Introducing New Food to Picky Birds

Training

Taming, potty training, and more

I hope this helps some people learn more about their cockatiels! Of course this is not exhaustive and there is always more information to be learned. Please let me know if I should add anything or if I got any information wrong :)


r/cockatiel • • 4h ago

Cuteness Overload Meet Nami 🥰❤️

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We adopted her in August and her tail is regrowing after her siblings at the birb store stood on it. She loves oats, playing with her toys and being near us. Shes a cuddly baby and completes our family 🥹


r/cockatiel • • 2h ago

Cuteness Overload I am borb!

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Lennon


r/cockatiel • • 1h ago

Funny Yoinkkkk

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r/cockatiel • • 3h ago

Loss & Mourning My baby luti passed away today

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This pic was yesterday evening, it had its morning feed fine. But then afternoon formula feed it kept on puking it out, I left it some millet and had it closeby. It seemed fine. Night time formula feed it puked it all out again, heavily and was struggling. I gave it some water and it was stable. I stayed by it's side for 4 hours til 5am. Just talking to it and watching it and giving head rubs. It seemed okay but I knew there was something wrong as it wasn't eating and it looked weak. I had plans to take it to the vets today. Little did I know it was being super soft and affectionate in it's last hours as if it knew it was going to go. I woke up around lunchtime and it had passed away, so quickly. I got the birdy last week. Literally had it for 7 days and I haven't even recieved the dna test yet nor given it a name. Burried it in the garden whilst it rained.

Today, I am sad and exhausted. 🥀


r/cockatiel • • 12h ago

Funny Does he even realise he is alive

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He's just standing there... Menacingly!


r/cockatiel • • 1h ago

Funny Thrift find

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r/cockatiel • • 13h ago

Success Story Bean and Pickle update/rant

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Hi everyone! A while back I shared a video of pickles hatch, then a vid of bean and pickle at 9 days old, and again at a week and a half. Well, here is the latest update. These two little dinosaurs are officially 25 days old now!

A quick reality check: I strongly advise against hand raising chicks, especially from day one. It drains every ounce of energy, destroys your sleep, and keeps you hyper vigilant 24/7. Even if you do everything right, theyre so fragile that things can still go wrong. It demands sacrificing your work, sleep, and entire life for their timeline.

That said, I am unapologetically, batshit crazy devoted to my flock. When you're constantly fighting severe mental illness or truama flashbacks, a flock of tiels arent just birds or pets anymore. They are FAMILY, more than most humans could ever be. Bean and pickle werent planned, but they are the greatest gift from the universe I could have ever asked for.

When youve never experienced safety or family, this flock is my proof that unconditional love and healing actually exist, and I know that applies to many of you out there too. The oldest female in my flock, nugget, has shown me more genuine motherly affection and safety than any human mother ever could.

So when youre drowning in trauma or cycles, or whatever your darkeness may be, a cockatiel is living, breathing proof that pure emotional intelligence and safety exist in a world so dark. Some people turn to religion, substances, or other ways to escape human reality, but I have my flock. They dont give a damn about my PTSD, my diagnoses, or my bad days. They dont expect a mask or a performance, they are just genuinely happy that I exist and that im still here. Nothing but pure safety and unconditional love, not something 99.9% of humans have to offer.

So if youre going through it right now, go give your bird some scritches, shower them with love, and take care of them like theyre your own blood, because the healing they offer back is real. To anyone fighting through dark times, from my flock to yours, we love you, and were so damn glad youre still here ❤️


r/cockatiel • • 7h ago

Funny We call her "Angle"

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This is Angel, she loves to gargoyle like this in the mornings and watch me. But she bends her neck so much it's actually kind of starting to worry me 😭

Does anyone else's bird do this? Is it normal behavior??


r/cockatiel • • 40m ago

Funny Showcasing new bluetooth shower technology

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r/cockatiel • • 12h ago

Funny pov: holding your laugh as your friend trips and falls

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r/cockatiel • • 19h ago

Troublemaker Sometimes the trash takes itself out

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I spent 10 minutes looking for him 🙄


r/cockatiel • • 15h ago

Health/Nutrition Tiel fluffing up

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Sometimes he fluffs up a few times only for around 3 seconds each time. Is he cold? Theres no air conditioner but he still shivers a little. Hes happy but im worried (sorry for my broken grammar)


r/cockatiel • • 6h ago

Loss & Mourning Cockatiel died within 15mins

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I have two cockatiels (boy & girl). They were both acting completely normal, singing, playing in their cage. I looked down to watch a video for 15mins and one was dead. She was fine all morning and the previous days/weeks/months before that. I've had her for a year (she's approximately 20 months old). I don't think it was any toxin because the other one is fine. I tried to give her CPR but nothing. What happened in those 15mins I looked down?? She was so young. And seemed so healthy.

Also Google is freaking me out with parrot fever (I snuggled her before I buried her) and telling me to head to the ER. Do I need to worry?


r/cockatiel • • 1d ago

Cuteness Overload The eagle has landed

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r/cockatiel • • 1h ago

Cuteness Overload One leg

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So comfy that he just needs one leg haha


r/cockatiel • • 13h ago

Cuteness Overload Not a single thought between those eyes

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r/cockatiel • • 1h ago

Advice How old is this baby

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I’m trying to find out so that I may know what temperature to keep them in and see how many times a day to feed , the guy said 1 week old but he looks wayyy older than that

He weighs 85 grams (before feeding)

I’m personally assuming about 30-35 days old but lmk what you guys think

Also in the third pic that’s his crop after I fed him


r/cockatiel • • 15h ago

Cuteness Overload Autumn is here

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Hard to stay awake after tons of scritches and a cozy fire


r/cockatiel • • 15h ago

Cuteness Overload Peekaboo!

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For what Thimble lacks in singing accuracy, he makes up for in speech acuity, I like to think.


r/cockatiel • • 14h ago

Troublemaker Castiel doesn’t know personal space 👀

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r/cockatiel • • 12h ago

Cuteness Overload he liked pear

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r/cockatiel • • 21h ago

Funny So… about the seeb subscription…

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r/cockatiel • • 18h ago

Cuteness Overload Over two years ago 🩷 learning to sing, dance, and whistle

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