r/popculturechat • u/Playful_Wonder_5205 • Oct 15 '25

Selena Gomez 💖 Selena Gomez Says She Has Difficulty 'Enjoying Things' for Fear Joy Will 'Go Away': 'I Got Married and Then I Was Sobbing'

https://people.com/selena-gomez-hard-enjoying-things-i-got-married-then-i-was-sobbing-11830434
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u/little_effy Oct 16 '25

It’s called self sabotage. This means that her “comfort zone” is being messy and anxious. Growing up as a child star must not be easy, so maybe this is just the state that she’s used to.

It will take a lot of therapy for someone like her to get used to feeling happy and peaceful - she’s not used to it.