r/relationships • • 4d ago

She said she lost feelings for me

TLDR

We were fighting for 2 weeks she said she lost her feelings for me

So we are 17 we were fighting everyday for 2 weeks than suddenly she said to me she lost feelings and she doesnt feel the same no more, i tried to talk with her but it didnt work, so i told her aight we are gonna break up in saturday, than friday night came and my friend talked to her and proposed we should take a 2 week break, she told him she is stressed out, doesnt have the same feelings for me and wants to be alone, i told her okay i accept the break we kissed and continued the night, then came saturday monday and tuesday, i had zero contact with her i just ignored her whenever i could, then in wednesday i texted her, she was just cold, then she told my friend she loves me but doesnt feel the same, dont have any feelings and just wants to be alone

In school she still looks at me alot, but when i talk i feel like im irritating her, maybe its her defence mechanism because i ignored her for 2 days

I dont know what i should do and of her feelings will come back, should we just break up or try, idk im feeling like i am the only one putting in the work in this break, i changed myself and i acknowledged my mistakes, should i just give her more time?

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