https://www.prothomalo.com/bangladesh/district/evtg97y0h0

I am a Gen-Z and see many of my peers getting married in mid '20s. My uncle, aunts and people from their generations married in early '30s. Rarely people used to marry in their mid '20s. But many Gen-Z are getting married quite early.

What really happened? Also how common is it for people to stay unmarried (like not entering into any partnership at all)? I know many women choose this path. And its somewhat more common in East Asian countries for men.

বাংলাদেশে কোন ইসলামো ফোবিয়া নাই। এখানে ফোবিয়া বলতে যদি কিছু থাকলে তাহলে আছে: হিন্দু ফোবিয়া, সেকুলারিজম ফোবিয়া, আদিবাসী ফোবিয়া, ট্রান্স ফোবিয়া, হোমো ফোবিয়া, ফেমিনিজম ফোবিয়া ইত্যাদি।

ভারতে ও যুক্তরাষ্ট্রে যে কারণে ইসলামো ফোবিয়া আছে কিন্তু হিন্দু ফোবিয়া ও শ্বেতাঙ্গ ফোবিয়া নাই, বাংলাদেশেও একই কারণে সংখ্যাগরিষ্ঠের ধর্মের প্রতি ফোবিয়া নাই, আছে প্রান্তিক সংখ্যা লঘিষ্ঠদের বিষয়ে নানান ফোবিয়া।

ফাররাইটরা তাদের নিজ ধর্মের প্রতি যে কোন ধরণের প্রশ্ন, সমালোচনা বা ভিন্নমতকেই ফোবিয়া বলে চালিয়ে দেয়। এমনকি রাজনৈতিক বিরোধকেও ধর্মীয় ফোবিয়ার লেবেল দেয়। অন্যদিকে অপর ধর্ম, জাতীয়তা বা লিঙ্গের প্রতি নিজেদের বিদ্বেষ ও ফোবিয়াকে বলে 'ভিন্নমত'।

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So I went to a gynecologist in Uttara and she's the head of the department also.so she's an old lady.I just went there to get prescribed birth control pills that have hormonal pills but I was so confused which one to take or how to take .but I want to take them regularly to maintain my cycle since I've got heavy bleeding but I've seen on the internet that birth controls help to shorten your period cycles and help with cramps since my cramps are very bad I thought it's better to take prescribed contraceptives that have hormonal and also birth control pills(combination).but that doctor literally said to get married and basically she was demonizing me for asking these pills instead of giving what I want she kept saying get married like ,why's that your first issue /question instead of the wellbeing of the patient.she instead gave me some temporary relief pills that actually harms the Kidney and stomach if you take them long .so basically I got humiliated instead of getting a solution.সে বারবার নিজের ফালতু মতামত দিচ্ছিল মানে ,আমি তো ওইখানে ওয়াজ মাহফিল শোনার জন্য যায়নাই আমি গেছি আমার সমস্যার সমাধান করতে।truly gynecologist is scary in Bd.Please anyone suggest good gynecologists that are not hyper Religious and give outdated opinions .মানে ওনার কথা হইলো বাচ্চা পয়দা করতেই থাকব মারা যাবো কিন্তু নিজের ভালো রাখা যাবে না বুঝিনা এইসব ব্যুইড়া বুইড়ি দের বিয়ে নিয়ে এতো মাথাব্যথা কেনো।they themselves suffered in their youth and now these useless imbeciles want us to suffer too . instead of being appreciative that a patient is willing to take the consequences of their reproductive health but no hyper religious bulls*it really overshadows the wellbeing of a human being.as if the only way to have s*x is to get married is such a cheap thing to say because marriage is such a serious commitment.these folks disgust me.and seriously why do religious people are soo arrogant isn't that a sin also?

18M.

I have undiagnosed AuDHD, cPTSD, neurodivergence(although I don't know much about it). I've been depressed ever since I can remember.

I don't understand much about these as I didn't really pay attention all my life, but recently my peers and teachers have been pointing it out.

Where do I go and what do I ask for? I know I need an evaluation on these.

Which doctor and how'll the procedure go?

I suffer from immense brain fog and short term memory loss too. The burnout is crazy. I've lost all comprehension skills, that's why I'm having trouble expressing myself properly.

I'm too tired to get into details on how it's ruining my life. I'll summarize it into 2 or 3 lines:

I'm an A levels student, I fucked up my o levels last May. It's getting worse day by day.

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People are seriously dumb. She was in 7th class. So she is literally a child. And children make mistakes, it's their parents or guardians responsibility to fix it not us or others. It doesn't matter what she did but SHE DID NOT ASK FOR IT. I don't understand why people think that what she did was worse than what the man did to her. She was a minor and that CNG driver graped her which will be NOT justified no matter what the victim did. And if you are not blaming that boyfriend of hers then you don't understand that she was groomed because the child was 13 years old and her boyfriend was 20 years old whatever they did was statutory rape because It was an adult and child. Also the age of consent in our country is 16 and she was 13 so her consent for sex would NOT be considered as consent so it's statutory rape and grooming. Because the adult should have the conscience that he shouldn't date someone below the age of 18 and should have taken responsibility for discouraging the relationship. So the victim was abused, exploited and taken advantage of by both of them. A child shouldn't be held responsible for such illegal and heinous crimes. Yes she made the mistake of going somewhere really far without a trusted guardian's permission but it shouldn't be corrected through intimidation but she should be taught about what's right and what's wrong. Also she should be understood and listened to instead of judged. But civilians are still blaming the victim for it.

"Bangla music video where the singer loves a girl one-sidedly. At the end she returns with a child in a black dress, and his junior asks if he'd accept her. He says yes."

ক্যাম্পাসের ভিতরেই গরু জ/বা/ই করতে হবে। জগন্নাথ কসাইখানা নাম রাখলেই হয়, যেহেতু ক্যাম্পাস এখন মাংস কাটাকাটির জায়গা হয়ে গেছে

https://reddit.com/link/1x87ebn/video/i0fjafbyd0wh1/player

This is very random and something from the top of my head. Firstly,I'm not talking bout ALL the boys. Most of them.

When I was 14, I went to a dentist and in front of me,two brothers (one a kid and another is probably in late teens) were sitting. I was bored and kinda eavesdropping on their convo. The older one was telling the kid how life abroad is for him. Weirdly,it was mostly about how he was surrounded by "blue eyes,blonde hair" And its a heaven. He was telling the young one "They have great shape too" which is kinda disturbing considering the younger one looked barely 11. His entire "life abroad" was on how he is invited to parties and there's not a single brown girl in sight. The younger one was looking at his bro with full admiration

I mean, I do know people have preferences but why is it like this? Is it cause of corn? Like, is it cause sexually frustrated teens who consume corn mostly look at foreign ppl? Is that why their brain chemistry gets all weird? Even on reddit, I've found so many boys fantasizing bout these unrealistic shaped Barbies.

P.S: That dude at the dentist was extremely obese so idk what's with him judging lol.

Edit: the men getting triggered in the comments are exactly the ones I was talking bout btw.

Lmk please

কেউ যদি রাস্তায় জ্ঞান হারিয়ে পরে যায় কেউ CPR দিতে আসবে না, কিন্তু আপনি যদি কাউকে জিজ্ঞেস করেন, সেক্সের আগের দোয়া কি কিংবা পিনাকি বলছে গরুর মাংস খাইতে? তারা সব জানে।

I'm looking to rent a place in the Shajadpur and/or Badda Lake Road area. I have exhausted my own search capabilities and just can't find the time. I have a couple of other preferences if feasible around Mirpur. However the above areas would be preferred first.

I'm willing to pay a small fee to hire someone who can help me find a home. Nothing extravagant, but I guess someone who can use some pocket money in this economy.

Obviously I'd need to verify the person and the property out for rent. Hopefully it's someone who can do some manual labor and find me a decent place for hire.

I'm sorry if this sounds too boroloki, but I'm at my wits end rn. Need some help ASAP.

If the search goes on for long, I'd be willing to sponsor convenience fees on a daily basis, obviously with receipts and verifiable proof of attempt.

Please let me know if anyone's interested. Thanks!

https://www.banglatribune.com/politics/ncp/974986

It all started from the day I was born.

jk anyway

Learnt digital marketing (seo, social media marketing and so on) and started to make a side income on fiverr. However, couldn't compete with the *5$* Pakistanis. I had to eventually give up bc of academic pressure (hsc 26). I also learnt python (for the love of the game). HSC is over, I'm bored, and I wanna ensure a side income for now coz it feels weird asking for money from parents. (personal thingy). IDK what to do now atp, the market feels too oversaturated MAN

Helloo everyone, hope everyones doing well. Just asking this question as this never really bothered me before, but its useful to ask for opinions from others.

What do you guys think are good age gaps for dating here in bangladesh?

I ask this because i have two friends, and they are both really close to me. However, ones 19 and the other 16, and they have been dating for a few months now. Obviously i asked them if the age gap was something thats bothering them, and they both said no as they are strictly not getting involved in anything sexual and its just a pure romantic interest. Also, its long distance. They seem really happy together, honestly to the point where they both said they are working harder now than before so they can make things work and last longer.

I understand that although this relationship sounds very nice, i just dont know if their age gap is acceptable though. I personally dont think its that bad as its 3 years, but i can understand that 3 years is a big gap especially in teenage years cuz of maturity levels. But at the same time, I have genuinely heard and seen stories of age gap relationships where the gap was smth like 5+ years and things were more predatory than being romantic.

What do you guys think of this?