r/malaysians • • 19h ago

Ask Malaysians Men Only (50+): Looking for 5-6 Committed Members to Form a Regular Travel Group from Kuala Lumpur (3–4 Trips a Year, 4D3N)

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Hi everyone!

I am looking to form a consistent, long-term men-only travel group of 5 to 6 core members aged 50 and above who are ready to commit to traveling together regularly. The vision is to build a reliable circle of brothers who head out to a new destination 3 to 4 times a year (roughly once every quarter).

Right now, I am looking for guys to formally commit to being group members so we can bond, plan our annual calendar ahead, and lock in affordable flights together.

To keep things manageable, routine, and easy to fit into everyone's schedules, our trips will always be short getaways: 4 days and 3 nights, always departing on a Wednesday and returning on a Saturday.

The Group Blueprint:

Demographic: Men only, aged 50+.

Base City: Kuala Lumpur (All departures from KLIA/KLIA2).

Group Size: 5–6 members total (for easy logistics and a close-knit vibe).

Frequency: 3 to 4 trips a year.

Duration: 4 Days / 3 Nights (Wednesday to Saturday).

Destinations: Around Southeast Asia, China, India, and Sri Lanka.

Travel Style: Not luxury. Comfortably budget-conscious on a strict cost-sharing basis (splitting accommodation, transport, and group meals evenly).

This group is for you if you genuinely want to travel a few times a year, value straightforward cost-sharing, and want a steady, relaxed pool of male travel friends without the hassle of constantly hunting for new buddies. We will plan our destinations together as a team based on group consensus and budget-friendly flights.

If you are a gent over 50, based in KL, and ready to commit to a regular travel circle 3–4 times a year, please comment below or send me a DM!


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Advice ☎️ Is my life over?

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My story:
I’m y10 from an international school
I love persuading my dreams on becoming a machine learning engineering

My grades are quite average or low (B), usually I only excel in math and add maths but other than that, the rest just disappointing

I’ve known to procrastinate a lot but currently I’m trying to distance myself from all social media apps (except Reddit)
I’ve never actually tried studying in my life, apart from cramping notes last minute before exams

This few months video games have slowly becoming less fun and addicting, I did delete all of them actually.

My hobby is to experiment with ai technology, that’s why I picked engineering package in my school.

Subjects include:
English
Maths
Add maths
Chemistry
Physics
E1 (business study)
Malay (compulsory since its my country’s main language)
Chinese (foreign language)
ICT

I’ve also never tried planning either. Even if I did, the next day I would be lazy to reopen it or sometimes forgotten about it. And no I don’t have any medical conditions that affect my studies.

Maybe it’s because my planning is unrealistic like 30 minutes of studying certain topic. Sometimes I’ll end up telling myself to watch YouTube tutorials which feels like I’m making progress but I’m actually not because I’ll forget about it

Subjects I’m currently struggling in, English comprehensions, physics, business, Malay and chemistry. Some suggested me to practice more or just revise notes after class, but like the amount of chemistry or physics notes is just overwhelming, I’ve tried blurting method but it completely backfired. I wasn’t able to retain much info even after using 10 papers.

For ICT (tech) I don’t really like it since it’s all about theory and creating some sort of Microsoft word project, I expected to learn Python but instead teacher said that we’re going to learn HTML instead. I kinda regret picking ICT and could’ve atleast picked accounting.

Im considering ditching my friends and isolating myself, trying to make a change for myself, because they aren’t the friends I know from grade7. Usually copying my questions and homework last minute before submitting and they’re also absorbed into this doom scrolling addiction, sometime they would come up the weirdest ducking joke that I wished I could slap the hell out of them on the spot

One specialties about me, I bought a bunch of study equipment like books, pens, flashcards and never actually used them

my parents did assigned me tuition lessons (first language english, addmaths and chemistry)

I hope there’s anyone that can provide me advice on how to overcome this, I have no studying experience at all my life could be over..


r/malaysians • • 21h ago

Ask Malaysians Since r/Malaysia are the central hub for our country related contents on reddit. The sub however very restrictive on what contents its allowed. What do you think of their subreddit rules?

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I will be honest, I do post this because I was butthurt how my previous post being removed by the mods.

Which I still didn't understand, since my previous post was about the effects Indonesia stock market crash might ripples to Malaysia. I do see it related heavily, even if it's speculative and what if. It's still about Malaysia.

So I took my time to read the rules... and I find it... Restricting? Are r/Singapore or r/Indonesia like this?

Well, what's your thoughts?


r/malaysians • • 4h ago

Ask Malaysians J&T, is it possible to go directly to the hub for self-collection, or must I notify a CS in advance?

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r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Quick Question Where to buy custom mouthguard for Boxing?

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Looking for any recommendations e.g. dentists that do custom mouthguards for Boxing or combat sports in general.

Not interested in getting the pre-made ones like on Shopee or general fight stores.


r/malaysians • • 4h ago

Advice ☎️ Recommend good Kitchen cabinet contractor- Klang valley

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Looking for good kitchen cabinet contractor to redo a condo’s kitchen. Location in Puchong.

Your comments and recommendations are greatly appreciated.


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Advice ☎️ Please recommend a good doctor who can diagnose adhd or autism in adults in Kuala Lumpur or Selangor

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I'm a foreigner. Thank you


r/malaysians • • 20h ago

Quick Question What to do

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I just moved in to taiping perak, whats the fun around here✌️👀✌️


r/malaysians • • 4h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Sherlynmama / fourfeetnine’s ex SIL.

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r/malaysians • • 16h ago

Ask Malaysians Are there nightclubs in Kuala Lumpur that allow 17-year-olds?

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Hey everyone! I’m planning to move to Kuala Lumpur as an international student, and I’ll be 17 when I arrive.
I’ve been to nightclubs in Baku, Azerbaijan, and I’m curious about the nightlife scene in KL. Are there clubs that allow 17-year-olds to enter, or is the minimum age generally 18 or 21? Does it depend on the venue? If u know that suggest me some.
I’d appreciate any information from people familiar with KL’s nightlife. Thanks!


r/malaysians • • 8h ago

Mildly Menarik Titan triggerfish and emperor, seen from above

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The titan triggerfish (Balistoides viridescens) aka jebong titan, is the largest species of triggerfish in Asia, growing up to 75 cm.

They are known to be aggressive, and some will attack divers with their powerful jaws and crushing teeth.

The yellowlip emperor (Lethrinus xanthochilus) aka ketambak, is an uncommon emperor species that grows to 70 cm.

It prefers seagrass beds, sandy and rubble areas and lagoons in shallow water. Eaten as food.


r/malaysians • • 8h ago

Discussion What’s the first part of your socks to wear out? (Malaysia sock survey, 4-5 mins)

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Hi everyone, I am researching why durable socks still fail after a few months. Heels thin out, toes get holes, elastic goes loose, whatever your sock experience is (gym, work, school, daily wear), I’d love your input. The survey takes about 4-5 minutes and is fully anonymous.

https://forms.gle/ARpr6ZjV78wjJhV76

If you’d rather not do the survey, a comment on which part of your socks dies first and what brand or type they were just as helpful. Thank you!


r/malaysians • • 55m ago

Advice ☎️ how to study ? REALLY NEED HELP

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