r/malaysians • • Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

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Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks


r/malaysians • • May 26 '21

Meta Welcome to r/Malaysians!

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Hello folks and welcome to r/Malaysia's sister sub, r/Malaysians!

For those who just clicked in and is wondering what the sub is for: This sub is essentially for Malaysians to talk and post about any other topics beyond Malaysia. Here is where you can post images, videos, create and join conversations and threads revolving anything that isn't quite about Malaysia but needs a Malaysian take on it, and more! Oh and this is a race, politic and religion-free sub 🙌🏻

Most major subreddits such as r/AITA, r/JustnoMIL, r/relationship_advice, r/casualconversation, r/malefashionadvice, r/Teenagers and what have you are usually centralised around people who reside outside of SEA and may not be valid to us locally and culturally but yet the demand for it isn't wide enough to sustain its own subreddit. r/Malaysians would (hopefully) be a good place for a catch-all of such threads.

We will be coming up with contest weeks soon, as well as accepting any other ideas you guys might have for the sub, so stay tuned! We are also still tweaking design and appearances as we go. Meanwhile, everyone is encouraged to start posting what they think fits the sub to get the ball rolling :)

Much love, r/Malaysia mod team.

tldr; r/CasualUK but for Malaysia.


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Discussion What’s the first part of your socks to wear out? (Malaysia sock survey, 4-5 mins)

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Hi everyone, I am researching why durable socks still fail after a few months. Heels thin out, toes get holes, elastic goes loose, whatever your sock experience is (gym, work, school, daily wear), I’d love your input. The survey takes about 4-5 minutes and is fully anonymous.

https://forms.gle/ARpr6ZjV78wjJhV76

If you’d rather not do the survey, a comment on which part of your socks dies first and what brand or type they were just as helpful. Thank you!


r/malaysians • • 16h ago

Ask Malaysians Since r/Malaysia are the central hub for our country related contents on reddit. The sub however very restrictive on what contents its allowed. What do you think of their subreddit rules?

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I will be honest, I do post this because I was butthurt how my previous post being removed by the mods.

Which I still didn't understand, since my previous post was about the effects Indonesia stock market crash might ripples to Malaysia. I do see it related heavily, even if it's speculative and what if. It's still about Malaysia.

So I took my time to read the rules... and I find it... Restricting? Are r/Singapore or r/Indonesia like this?

Well, what's your thoughts?


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Mildly Menarik Titan triggerfish and emperor, seen from above

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The titan triggerfish (Balistoides viridescens) aka jebong titan, is the largest species of triggerfish in Asia, growing up to 75 cm.

They are known to be aggressive, and some will attack divers with their powerful jaws and crushing teeth.

The yellowlip emperor (Lethrinus xanthochilus) aka ketambak, is an uncommon emperor species that grows to 70 cm.

It prefers seagrass beds, sandy and rubble areas and lagoons in shallow water. Eaten as food.


r/malaysians • • 2m ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Sherlynmama / fourfeetnine’s ex SIL.

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r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Mildly Menarik Burung pungguk in the house in the middle of the night

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Tyto javanica, the Eastern barn owl, pungguk jelapang or serak biasa.

In Malaysia we have the T. j. javanica subspecies (Wallacean barn owl) which is native to the Malay Peninsula and the Greater Sunda Islands.

It usually inhabits agricultural fields, plantations and rural or urban edges.

In Malaysia they are utilised as pest control, with nest boxes being built to encourage them to move. In fact many were also translocated to Sabah and islands, as they are rare there.


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Ask Malaysians Game Abang Koroy Chase

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r/malaysians • • 14h ago

Ask Malaysians Men Only (50+): Looking for 5-6 Committed Members to Form a Regular Travel Group from Kuala Lumpur (3–4 Trips a Year, 4D3N)

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Hi everyone!

I am looking to form a consistent, long-term men-only travel group of 5 to 6 core members aged 50 and above who are ready to commit to traveling together regularly. The vision is to build a reliable circle of brothers who head out to a new destination 3 to 4 times a year (roughly once every quarter).

Right now, I am looking for guys to formally commit to being group members so we can bond, plan our annual calendar ahead, and lock in affordable flights together.

To keep things manageable, routine, and easy to fit into everyone's schedules, our trips will always be short getaways: 4 days and 3 nights, always departing on a Wednesday and returning on a Saturday.

The Group Blueprint:

Demographic: Men only, aged 50+.

Base City: Kuala Lumpur (All departures from KLIA/KLIA2).

Group Size: 5–6 members total (for easy logistics and a close-knit vibe).

Frequency: 3 to 4 trips a year.

Duration: 4 Days / 3 Nights (Wednesday to Saturday).

Destinations: Around Southeast Asia, China, India, and Sri Lanka.

Travel Style: Not luxury. Comfortably budget-conscious on a strict cost-sharing basis (splitting accommodation, transport, and group meals evenly).

This group is for you if you genuinely want to travel a few times a year, value straightforward cost-sharing, and want a steady, relaxed pool of male travel friends without the hassle of constantly hunting for new buddies. We will plan our destinations together as a team based on group consensus and budget-friendly flights.

If you are a gent over 50, based in KL, and ready to commit to a regular travel circle 3–4 times a year, please comment below or send me a DM!


r/malaysians • • 19h ago

Recommend Me • Seeking 🔍 Malaysian movies

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Hello, I’m currently learning bahasa Melayu and to improve my oral comprehension, I was looking for Malaysian movies. I did not find a lot of recommendation on internet, so I was wondering if yall could recommend me some movies you liked, some classics in the Malaysian culture etc…
I’m open to any ideas, even anime, animation movies, short series…

Thank you!!


r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Rant Choking on haze plus brain dead open burning nearby

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Reported to DBKL. Illegal slums between new housing on Jalan Lima, Desa Pahlawan and Jalan Kedondong


r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Ask Malaysians Indonesia has its market crash in 28 years. Do you think Malaysia should be worried?

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r/malaysians • • 21h ago

Help ⚠️ Anyone ever sometimes feel down all the sudden, especially after a work day?

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For me sometimes I feel like after a work day, I just want to go home and lie down on bed. Sometimes I don't even get dinner, eventhough I'm hungry.

For context, im a 26M who just started getting his life together. I'm still struggling of course, but i really want to build up my life again.

I know I should be having a hobby after work or at least do some productive thing like reading, but I don't feel like doing anything at all. Maybe I feel sad too, because both my parents have left, and im a only child who's recovering from my previous nerve injury in my legs causing me to not be able to walk properly, so I need to use a Tongkat. So because of that I lost my previous job, which was a few months back.

Could this be depression? Does anyone ever feel like this?


r/malaysians • • 22h ago

Advice ☎️ should i buy a new gaming pc or stick to my current rig?

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hii so long story short i have my current pc which i bought 6 years ago during the height of covid and it has been a blast for me since it was my first pc ever. ill jot down the specs as follows:

GPU -GALAX GEFORCE RTX2060 SUPER GAMER (1 CLICK OC) 8GB GDDR6

CPU - AMD RYZEN 5 2600

MOBO - ASUS PRIME A320M-K AM4

RAM - 2 X PATRIOT STEEL 8GB 3200MHZ

STORAGE - TOSHIBA P300 3.5 1TB 7200RPM SATA HDD + PATRIOT BURST SATA SSD 240GB

PSU - COOLER MASTER MWE BRONZE V2 500W 80+

TOTAL PRICE: RM3198

so i have been playing games like overwatch, the sims, tf2, stardew, league and valo with ease but recently i bought a bunch of AAA games as i really love stories like hogwarts legacy, cyberpunk and rdr2 however i do frequent lots of stuttering, stuff not loaded in the map and especially terrible loading wait times like eg. it takes me 5 minutes to launch hogwarts legacy everytime i want to play it & i attempted to play marvel rivals but i just cant get more than 30 ish fps in matches so i just die constantly😭

with that being said, i am trying to venture out in playing more games but i feel like my current pc is holding that back tremendously and i would like the input of others in this matter. ive also been doing some window shopping on prebult gaming pcs and found that idealtechpc has something within my budget. ive tried shopping for components individually but the prices ive seen so far were absurd while the ones priced decently were out of stock so prebuilt might be the move here

specs as follows:

Processor: AMD Ryzen 5 5500
GPU: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 5060 8GB (Zotac/MSI)
Cooler: AMD Stock Cooler
Motherboard: COLORFUL A520M-K
RAM: GSKILL Aegis 8GB DDR4 3200Mhz
SSD: 256GBM.2NVMe SSD
Power Supply: ANTEC CSK650DC GB (80+ Bronze)(5 Year Warranty)
Casing: ANTEC CX M2 ARGB
OS: Windows 11 Home Free Unactivated

Base Specs Subtotal Price: RM3499

Upgrade To:
AMD Ryzen 5 5600 - RM259.00
ASUS RTX5060 Dual - RM99.00
MSI PRO B550M-P WIFI6E - RM250.00

FINAL TOTAL PRICE: RM4107.00

lemme know what you guys think on whether i should just keep my current pc, purchase a new one entirely or/and if there are better alternatives i would love to hear about them!

thanks!


r/malaysians • • 22h ago

Mildly Menarik Seluang badar, caught from a plantation ditch

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Trigonopoma gracile, seluang badar/pinyih or the graceful rasbora.

It is a small (6 cm) but very skinny fish that is found on the peninsula and Sarawak. There are records from Johor, Selangor and Terengganu.
However it has become extinct in Singapore.

It inhabits acidic swamp forests with slow-flowing habitats. Usually schooling in large numbers, even hundreds!

The usual form is yellow-striped, but some come in red like the one in post. It depends on location and environment. They are a peaceful community fish that can be kept in aquariums with other small species.


r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Dating | Relationship 🌷 Everything you want comes when you let go or acceptance so all you need to do is just wait

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How true is that statement? Ig I just want reassurance that there is light at the end of the tunnel. I'm 25 year old man.

5 years ago, I accept that I am not going to have friends and that is alright. Then, somehow I made a lifelong friend from reddit while talking about a random political issue.

Earlier this year, I accept that I might not be able to date anyone and be okay with living life alone. Then, I met my ex. Even if it didn't worked out, atleast I'm able to experience love.

But I also met people who go about their whole life and not being able to make friends or relationships. What terrifies me is if I don't proactively look for "jodoh", I'm shooting myself in the foot but the general consensus of most people is to just wait and it will happen.

I just wanna know you guys story with jodoh and how true is it to just wait for it.


r/malaysians • • 21h ago

Advice ☎️ Those who've moved to Europe for work, what do you wish you'd known beforehand?

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Hi all,

I'll be moving to Europe for work and would appreciate some practical advice on preparing for it.

I'm mainly looking for advice on things to sort out before moving. Things like banking, EPF, investments, annoying admin stuff, etc, that might not even cross someone's mind until they're actually there, and then aduhhh D:

Pretty sure there will be some aduhhh moments, but any advice would be very much welcomed

Thanks~~~~


r/malaysians • • 15h ago

Quick Question What to do

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I just moved in to taiping perak, whats the fun around here✌️👀✌️


r/malaysians • • 23h ago

Quick Question Any cough syrup or remedy recommendations for dry cough?

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I checked older posts and a lot of people suggested Bena Expectorant, but I cannot find it on any store front online now. Instead they keep suggesting other types of the Xena brand like mucolix something. Are they good? Or do you have any other suggestions?

We're currently taking Nim Jiom Pei Pa Koa and it has helped a lot in relieving a lot of symptoms but dry cough is still existing. Been more than 2 days now.


r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Advice ☎️ Considering swapping fiber provider any suggestions?

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Getting really frustrated with Maxis. I work from home fully so reliable internet is really important.

With Maxis, I have gotten random outages with no notice including one time for 2 days straight (required several calls just to get it back up). Went into the maxis shop one time for a different issue and glanced at the computer & noticed that they had put me back on contract after years of me being off contract without any notice. I hadn't upgraded or anything (according to them it was an accident because of a technical error but how TF does that even happen).


TLDR:

I'm sick of Maxis and really considering swapping my fiber provider but I'm worried the other ones will be equally garbage tbh. TIME is unfortunately not available for my area.

Any suggestions/experience with other service providers? Good or bad I'd love to hear about it so I know who to avoid also 😂


r/malaysians • • 11h ago

Ask Malaysians Are there nightclubs in Kuala Lumpur that allow 17-year-olds?

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Hey everyone! I’m planning to move to Kuala Lumpur as an international student, and I’ll be 17 when I arrive.
I’ve been to nightclubs in Baku, Azerbaijan, and I’m curious about the nightlife scene in KL. Are there clubs that allow 17-year-olds to enter, or is the minimum age generally 18 or 21? Does it depend on the venue? If u know that suggest me some.
I’d appreciate any information from people familiar with KL’s nightlife. Thanks!


r/malaysians • • 21h ago

Advice ☎️ Legal name change questions

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Hi, as stated in the heading, I wish to change my name middle and last name. Would I be able to both all together?

I've read you need to take an oath but I couldn't find anything on changing two names would I need to repeat the process twice?

Long story short my dad decided to give me ultra Christian names (a combination of two religious figures) but since I was a kid I received absolute traumatic religious trauma, such as almost getting k worded and paralyzed then almost r worded as a 10 year old, just to mention a few, all at the Sunday school I was forced to attend for 5 years twice a week. I grew up hating that part of my name and my family name bc of my dad letting it all happen to me. So yeah! I was wondering if anyone had any experience in legally changing their middle and last names. I wish to change it to something more less religious.


r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Ask Malaysians Gaji kerja

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Korang prefer yang mana? Dan kenapa korang pilih yang tu?

Gaji RM4-5k, kerja almost everyday habis malam 7-10 malam (eventho working hour sampai pukul 6 pm je), cuti 2 hari, rehat 1 jam 30 minit (kerja di bandar)

Gaji RM3k, kerja mostly habis on time 6 pm, cuti 1 hari setengah, rehat 1 jam (kerja di luar bandar)


r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Ask Malaysians Mr Chow Liquor store

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Anyone bought from them before? Is it legit?

Thanks


r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Ask Malaysians Hi friends, Got couple of tickets for the upcoming Sepang MotoGp race

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Hello MAL Friends

I've got two extra tickets in K1 Grandstand for the upcoming Sepang MotoGp race which is going to be held during Oct 30,31 and Nov 1.

I have 3 tickets for me and my friends so we all can join together for the race and have a good time.

DM me for more details